Marriage is like a boat. The speed of the boat travels requires the couple to work together to control the speed.
If, in one of the people, walking too fast and walking too slowly, it is not conducive to the management of marriage.
Women who truly "prosper their husbands" are often very independent, have principles, and have bottom lines, and have requirements for men. When managing love, you have some requirements for men, guide them, and achieve each other.
Bocachu once said: "Real love can inspire people and awaken the sleeping power and hidden talents in his heart."
A good wife is like a man's fortress. It can make him work harder in his career with more peace of mind, which will also be a great help to his life.
A good wife not only has advantages, but actually, some "shorts" can also help grow.
Women have the following "shorts" and are often very "prosperous" and are lucky when they meet them.
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1. Have a pair of hard-working hands, thrifty and thrifty
Men are most afraid of marrying such a woman - spending money like flowing water, being lazy, even if the family is so poor that they can't bear to lose money, they don't know how to make money.
They often value material enjoyment, seek comfort, and count on the men at home in everything.
I read a post where a young wife complained that her husband was neither capable nor could she make a lot of money. Before getting married, she was only responsible for her beauty. After getting married, she saw that she was not at work, so she urged her to find a job every day.
The couple divorced just one year after they got married. During a quarrel, the woman said that marrying such a man would be a bad life, and the man said that marrying such a woman would be better than being a bachelor.
This wife counts all the wrongs of her husband in the post. It seems that ordinary people have no ability to make a lot of money, which is the biggest mistake of men.
But if an ordinary couple wants to live a prosperous life, no one can completely count on another person, but must concentrate the strength of both parties and face the ups and downs of life together.
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2. There is a kind of motivation and hope that in the future, women who "prosper their husbands" can improve their husband's potential. She will use "constraint" methods to inspire her husband's progress.
In marriage, a lucky man often meets a good wife who patiently encourages him to grow up.
in " Know " Gu Tingye , I like Sheng Minglan very much. He suffered repeated setbacks and became a water bandit. When he met with Minglan , Minglan persuaded him with great sincerity that he should have a better future even for his children. Only after
, Gu Tingye chose to join the army and made great contributions. Afterwards, he was granted the title of marquis and prefecture, and his glory was unlimited.
Later, Minglan married him and kept advising him not to be so reckless in his work, soothe his emotions again and again, and let him get rid of the tricks in the court.
Two people are hard and soft, making the bad guy's plan impossible.
Minglan is independent and self-reliant. She understands Gu Tingye's ability and feels sorry for Gu Tingye's situation. Constantly use the method of "restraining" him, give him more love, encourage him to grow and make continuous progress.
In a love story, women are often the dominant ones. Women who like to "restrain" men are actually because they desire men to become better.
If a man can accept the constraints of women, change his bad habits, cultivate his character, he can make more sincere friends, his career will get better and better, and his life will be smoother and smoother.
When a woman is uneasy about the status quo, put some pressure on a man to let him know how to be vigilant in times of peace. Men will also have a better future and meet a better self.
33. Have a kind heart, know how to be kind to others
There is a neighbor next door to my hometown, and the family is quite poor. The couple gave birth to three children, raised their children, provided their children to school, and started a family. They all make money by making tofu.
First, the couple pushed an monocycle to sell tofu in the village. They started shouting around the village at five or six o'clock in the morning, and the tofu was sold out at about eight or nine o'clock.
When I meet an elderly person who is lonely and widowed, I don’t have enough money to buy tofu, so the couple simply won’t charge them. Occasionally, when I sell it to the end, I still have two pieces of tofu left, and I will give it to the old man.
The wife of this family is very kind and has a harmonious relationship with her neighbors. After she got married, she has never heard of a conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. The mother-in-law praises her daughter-in-law for being kind to everyone, and she can think of things that her daughter-in-law never expected for her.
As the saying goes, "A harmonious family will bring prosperity." Perhaps it is because of the kindness and kindness of the female neighbor, the honest male neighbor has actually made the tofu business bigger. Later, the couple rented a shop in the town to sell tofu and asked people who had no jobs in the village to help.
Now, their family has built a two-story building. The female neighbors will give the villagers some soy products every year during the holidays, saying that it was thanks to everyone's help back then.
Conclusion: Women, because they are eager to manage their marriage better, they have some bad habits that seem to be "shorts", but in fact, they are all her foresight.
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