Is there true love in extramarital affair? Are you willing to give everything to your lover?
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42-year-old Han Zhibin (pseudonym) said, if it were two years ago, I would tell you without hesitation: "Yes! There must be! There must be! Because my lover and I love each other. We have been together for five years, and she has carried a lot for me. Even if I was provoked by my wife again and again, she was still with me unswervingly.
Now you ask me, I I will tell you clearly whether it is. The basis of love is material and the economic foundation you can provide for her. What you think she carries for you is actually the efforts she has made to gain benefits. What’s more ridiculous is that during the extramarital affair, I think my wife is a stumbling block on the road to true love, she is her hindering me and being with my lover, she is her aggressive and targeting my lover everywhere. After the divorce, I realized that it was not my wife who provoked my lover, but the lover who provoked me on my back to achieve the goal of being with me. Mom, she even deliberately created all kinds of embarrassment for her.
Send text messages, videos, and phone calls are all routine operations of lovers. My wife also told me, but what did I say at that time? I said she had no malice. She wanted us to live a good life. She was more sensible than you. She never thought about intervening in our family and destroying our marriage. It was me who was messing around, and I was sorry for you both.
has no malice. Can she call my wife in the middle of the night? Don't want to intervene In our marriage, she would tell my wife that she was redundant and hope that she would withdraw from this marriage without love? If she doesn't want to destroy our family, she will send photos and chat contents of me and her to my wife again and again? She is sensible? If she wants to be sensible, she will go to my wife's unit to make trouble, follow my wife, and threaten her with our children?
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I understand it in my heart, but I don't want to Acknowledging that my lover is such a scheming bad woman, I thought it was self-indulgent to think that everything she did was insincere because she loved me so much. I felt that being able to meet such love is simply a blessing for eight lifetimes.
In order to be worthy of my lover's efforts, I made a fuss with my wife, made a fuss with my family, and even ignored my own children. I wandered in an extramarital affair for five years, and also hurt my wife for five years because of this extramarital affair. In the end, my wife chose to let go and fulfill my lover. .
From marriage to divorce, I have been with my wife for twelve years. She is not a very perfect wife, but she is not bad either. She is very good to me, my parents, and our children. When the neighbors mentioned her, they also said that I am very lucky and said that I don’t have to worry about the family’s affairs, and my wife will do it.
When I learned that I was divorced, my relatives and friends thought I was very good and said that I would not live a good life, but I think I gave my best, and I think all of my life is good. All efforts are worth it. I think my lover and I will definitely live a better life and make them envious.
result. After the divorce, I realized that a harmonious marriage relationship is the beginning of all good luck.
During marriage, our boss valued me especially because he is a man who attaches great importance to family. He thinks like him, a man who can run a good family and a good career. I know that I cheated, and when my wife cheated on her during her second child , My impression of me plummeted, and I didn't give many projects in the company to me.
In addition, because I am an old employee in the company, the boss and my wife are also very familiar with each other. During festivals, gifts and blessings, my wife is also very familiar with the boss's wife, and often asks to take the children out to play together. When I learned that I was divorced by my wife, the boss's wife directly called me a dissatisfied man as my wife's best friend. It can be imagined that my position in the company is quite embarrassing.
The third month after the divorce, I told my lover about my job dissatisfaction. She said that my boss was not good, and said that my boss and his wife were bewitched by my ex-wife. She said that my ex-wife must have used many tricks on her back and made many small moves, saying that she would not leave her here, but she would have her own way to leave her. He said that I am so powerful that I can do it myself and be my boss. She also gave me some advice to poach people from my boss's company and grab resources from my boss's company.
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I was so excited by my lover that if I started a business, I would become the richest man in our local area in minutes. The boss told my wife about what I wanted to resign. She was already an ex-wife at that time. She called me specifically and advised me not to quit, saying that at my age, there are great risks of quitting and starting a business. He said that my family is not in good condition, the burden of pension is heavy, and the pressure of parenting is not easy. In addition, I don’t have savings, and once I fail to start a business, I will never be able to make it happen in the second half of my life. He said that if I truly love a third party, I should go to work hard and live a good life.
She said that she has been with me for many years and she doesn't want to watch me fall into the abyss!
Can I listen? No! I think she upset me, I think she is not as good as a lover, and she still wants to care about me after getting divorced. I listened to my lover mortgaged the small house and resigned with the money from the mortgage.
When I was in the company, I felt that I had connections, and when I started a business, I realized that those so-called connections were actually my boss’s. A lover can only talk, but it doesn't work at all. We didn’t pay attention to big things, but we were stingy about small things. We failed in less than half a year after starting a business. The money was not earned by a penny, but instead owed the bank hundreds of thousands.
The small house is gone, and a good house cannot be rented, so I can only rent a house in an old and dilapidated community. Since I failed to start a business, my lover has stopped being gentle, and I no longer pestered me every day, let alone getting married to me. Instead, I blamed me for saying that this is not good and that is not good. He even encouraged me to compete with my wife for real estate, and encouraged me to continue selling houses and starting a business.
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I listened to her and mentioned it to my wife, but my wife scolded me and blocked my contact information directly. Because the child cannot pay the child support, the children are unwilling to pay attention to me.
After a year of divorce, I went from being a dignified deputy general manager to an unemployed and debtor who both cats and dogs despise. Later I also figured it out that I was not a boss at all. I found a new job. Although my income was greatly reduced, I could at least take care of my life. The lover also has his own job. To put it bluntly, the foundation for establishing a family between us is much better than that of my wife and I back then. But my lover was unhappy and felt that she was in her thirties and wanted to work hard with me in the house and car.
Now, she and I are still living together, which is slightly more formal than extramarital affairs and a little casual than marriage. Besides me, she has other ambiguous objects, and I know I am no longer her best choice. Similarly, I gave up on the idea of marrying her and spending my life with her.
What is true love? In the words of the Internet, the wife is the one who can share the joys and sorrows with you. The one who can help you in your career and the one who assists you in your family is the one you should really choose and cherish.
I don’t deny that there are truly beautiful extramarital affair in this world, as well as lovers who are truly good to you and helpful to your career, but this kind of thing is not necessarily one of the tens of thousands of mistresses. Can you have such good luck to meet? Most of us meet during marriage not peach blossoms, but bad peach blossoms, or even peach blossom disaster .
