Is proposal really a very happy thing for girls?
If two people fall in love, then for a woman this will definitely be the happiest time in her life. Then if they don’t love each other, for this woman, proposing in public may be her greatest insult and the greatest social death.
There is a young man in Yunnan who did this behavior. A man was holding a big bouquet of roses on the street, and there was a photo sign of his beloved girl next to it, which read "I only love my cousin in this life. If there is love, please make me happy."
It is obvious that this is a scene of confession and proposal. It seems like a very happy picture, but if we analyze it carefully, we will find that there are very strange things in it.
First of all, this brand says "Cousin". In our inherent thinking, close relatives do not recommend getting married physically or morally.
Secondly, this man's behavior is very incredible.
When this man proposed, he was like those who went to worship. He walked on the ground in three steps and looked very pious, but many people thought that he was self-motivated and was sensational. For this girl, it was an act of moral kidnapping .
These moral kidnapping behaviors actually show their hearts. There is a term in psychology called "authoritative personality psychology". Generally, people who always perform moral kidnapping behaviors on others will have such psychological manifestations.
This "psyche of authoritative personality" is also called "authoritarian personality". It makes moral kidnappers want to influence and control others more in behavior and thought. Under such psychological manifestations, they will have a very strong sense of power, and they will often lose the ability to stand from the other party's perspective and think from the perspective of others. This extreme behavior will cause them to have some extreme behavior.
The real moral kidnappers are not actually the so-called "Holy Mother", because their starting point is not for humanistic care.
For most people who are morally kidnapped, their stakeholders are different, resulting in different prerequisites, which will lead to real moral kidnap.
The most intuitive behavior of moral kidnapping is to put morality in a negative state, making people in a very hypocritical state, and it is unreasonable. Using moral kidnapping as a tool to satisfy one's own wishes has even become a tool to hurt people.
The real moral kidnapping is indeed negative, and it is generally the act of kidnapping from the bottom to the top. The main causes of moral kidnapping are diverse.
People like this want to decide this from a higher perspective, and mentally want to be the right party. In society, becoming the right party will often be given a right . This right is a weapon for them to hurt those people.
When something happens, many people want to stand in a higher position, show that they are right, and let their rights control others.
This type of person is always a hot topic for moral kidnapping. Maybe it is because they were once the beneficiaries of moral kidnapping, and they also want to maintain this phenomenon for their own use. People like
usually cannot see the essence of things clearly and always keep the so-called morality on a relatively simple, simple, right or wrong way. This one-size-fits-all approach will make them unable to make a systematic assessment of what is happening.
People like this just want to satisfy their wishes and pass on their own pressure on others, which is what we often say, "Stand without pain in your back", which is what we often say, which is the so-called moral kidnapping.
They always stand in a God's perspective. No matter what the other party says, they have reasons to object, because they do not need to worry about the performance brought to themselves by this behavior, because they cannot harm their own interests.
Those who like to speak with morality usually think this method is very useful, because most Chinese people are very humble and polite. When facing many things, even if they would rather endure than not give them to others, this is a traditional cognition and behavior.
Those who are good at using moral kidnapping use this method to threaten the other party, believing that as long as they stand in a place with high morality, they can defeat the other party because no Chinese wants to be an immoral person.
For these morally kidnapped people, they usually have no self, no pursuit, and no insight or achievements. They cannot look at the problem from a more comprehensive perspective.
can only satisfy their own psychology by morally kidnapping others and belittling the other party's status. This perverted misaligned psychology is the only way and only way for them to satisfy themselves.
