Requires a partner to be motivated. Is it really a woman wrong? Why is the more urged, the less good the result is, the less good it will be?
My friend Sister Fang was once very confused about this.
She and her husband have been married for more than 10 years. She thought the other party's position should be promoted, but he is still just a small employee.
Sister Fang felt that it must be because he was not motivated and did not understand the worldly ways. When he was free, he liked to tinker with useless handicrafts, so that he would give all the opportunities to others.
Therefore, she hopes that the other party will throw away all his handicrafts and focus on work.
But her husband either ignores her, and will quarrel with her when she is forced to do so, and they will part with her every time.
She often complained whether she chose the wrong person at the beginning? Will choosing another blind date partner be better than now?
After accidentally getting in touch with the nine numbers online, she suddenly realized:
Everyone’s interests and hobbies and talents are different.
The husband's specialty may not be in work, but in handicrafts. I also fell in love with him at the beginning.
Friends will praise their husbands for doing well, and even ask them if they sell it?
It was after this change of thought that she began to encourage her husband to create and promote it online. There was really a collector who was very interested and bought her husband's works, which made them get a considerable income.
Since then, they have opened up their minds. After work, their husbands started working as self-media, often publishing or live broadcasting their own production process, attracting many fans, and they don’t have to worry about sales when they make things.
She will no longer dislike her husband's "no pursuit of progress" because he is already very outstanding, and before he just forced him to work hard on an unsuitable track.
In fact, Everyone is a "genius" . It just needs to find your own talent and talent and shine in the right field.
How do ordinary people find the "shortcut" for success?
In fact, many people are like this. They work hard in areas that they are not good at, but have not gained much. Instead, they have deep doubts about themselves:
- Am I just stupid, can't get into a good university, can't find a good job?
- am I really not outstanding enough and can’t find a partner who really likes me?
- has been working hard for half a lifetime, but I still can’t make money. When will I have my own home?
Do you think those successful people have received a good education and are born better than others?
Of course not. They just took many detours and finally found the "shortcut" to success.
And this shortcut, actually everyone has it, it is hidden in yourself.
Zhang Defen Space Exclusive Tutor and Founder of Nine-number Character Analysis System Lai Qiukai , has had a long failed life experience and was even hit by the hope of losing life.
More than ten years ago, Mr. Lai Qiukai was working in an IT company. Like many people, he is ordinary, busy and confused...
Go out early and come back late every day, and is as busy as a top during the day. Staying up late and working overtime is the norm.
After a year of exhaustion, he didn't save enough money to go to the hospital for treatment, let alone enjoying life. At that time, he was very anxious.
Because he knows: no matter how hard he works, it is difficult to buy a house in the city.
So he asked himself: Do I want to keep doing this? If I were still young, would my life be different?
After he had this idea, he decided to quit his job and start his business.
He works very hard and is not afraid of difficulties, but what is waiting for him?
Not long after, he went bankrupt due to an investment failure and owed 1 million yuan in debt.
At that time, his life fell to the bottom and there was no glimmer of hope.
Just when he was completely disappointed, he met the nine numbers.
Teacher Lai Qiukai recalled that the most impressive sentence was: is not that you are not working hard enough, but that you are working hard in the wrong direction.
This sentence hit his already fragile self-confidence at that time, so he slowly began to contact and learn nine numbers:
For example, he is the person with 7 . The pursuit of the essence of life is truth, love and justice. He is prone to frustration when seeing the goal, good at socializing, and likes to explore the truth with others...
Compared to engaging in finance, he is more suitable for research and media work.
With the help of the nine numbers, he gradually saw his talent and mission and his future direction.
At that moment, he was not happy, but felt infinite annoyed:
wasted so much time and took so many detours before!
Under the guidance of the nine numbers, he began to live a brand new life. has made rapid progress in career, and I know more and more what I want in life.
Now he is financially free, settled with his family Dali , and uses his own expertise to help more people find the fast lane of life as soon as possible.
9, what exactly is it?
Nine-number personality analysis system, referred to as Nine-number, originated from ancient Chinese philosophy and human-recognition technology, and integrates Western personality theories such as DISC and entanglement. It is a scientific statistical science that combines the world and the world.
Just need your birthday on your ID card to interpret massive information related to you and understand your life blueprint.
In addition to knowing yourself, the nine numbers can also help you quickly and accurately understand any person's talent, success traits, wealth, love and other information. Is
very magic?
From 1 to 9, each number corresponds to a personality trait, such as:
No. 1 is a leader and creative, confident and independent, but also has self-centered problems;
No. 2 is patient and gentle, very good at communication and cooperation, but also It is easy to be indecisive due to indecision;
No. 3 people are motivated, good at expressing, and have prestige, but they also have the disadvantage of being too tough and not being dedicated...
Whether you are a wife and husband, parents, teachers, salesmen, master the nine-digit method, you can better "understand" other people, allowing you to be at ease in interpersonal relationships and get along with each other in an appropriate way.
At the same time, you can help your relatives and friends better understand themselves so that they can find a path that suits them and achieve greater achievements.
In short, nine numbers are a tool to make your life smoother and more prosperous.
In order to help everyone learn nine numbers and "see through" people's hearts, Zhang Defen Space specially invited Teacher Lai Qiukai to open a course for everyone Nine numbers personality analysis system, allowing you to see through people's hearts | 3-day human recognition technology experience camp .
In the past 10 years, Mr. Lai Qiukai has recorded, compared, debugged and verified the calculated contents one by one through many cases, and integrated many Western personality theories. has developed this systematic, accurate, fast and clear nine-number personality analysis system.
In the course, you will have the opportunity to learn:
- Use nine numbers to discover your talents with others;
- Use nine numbers to successfully create a happy intimate relationship;
- Use nine numbers to start a career and open a channel of wealth.
Therefore, if you also want to explore yourself, want to open up your talents, want to improve interpersonal relationships, and want to start a side job, don’t miss Mr. Lai Qiukai’s "3 Days of Human Knowledge Technology Experience Camp"!
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