The ancients said: lust is the first, and filial piety is the first.
The ancients believed that the greatest sin was lust; the greatest good deed was filial piety.
Among all the sins, greed is the most "lewd" culprit and will make you lose more than you gain.
Zeng Guofan said: "Selecting friends is the first priority in life. The success or failure of a person's life is all about the virtues of his friends, and you must be careful."
people are all people living together from beginning to end. In the future journey, we cannot do without the support and help of friends.
Although we cannot choose the person we meet, we can choose the person we have made friends with, and this interaction process is extremely important.
The old man said, "A person who has been lustful can tell at a glance": it is three kinds of people, you should not be close to each other, and you should stay away from them when you meet them.
Remember the following three types of people. If you meet them, just pass by them, and there is no need to have a deep friendship.
1. People with incorrect minds
People with incorrect minds have a kind face and a dark heart. When you talk to others, when you see ghosts, you will talk to others in person and behind the scenes.
is gentle and generous on the surface, but in fact he is cruel and ruthless and loves to play tricks. He is angry in the open and a knife in the secret, which makes people unable to defend against.
People with bad minds like to take advantage of others and cannot suffer losses.
For the sake of profit, he uses any means and sometimes even cheats his relatives and friends to seek personal gain for himself.
People with bad minds have a very dark heart, jealousy and admiration, and create right and wrong.
I always hope you will live a good life in your mouth, but in your heart, I will never allow you to live a better life than them.
People with bad intentions like to talk about other people's privacy.
When chatting, people always talk about their strengths and weaknesses. Such people are very jealous and like to expose their shortcomings in public.
When you are with such people, remember to be careful in your words and actions.
2. A narrow-minded person has a significant characteristic that he cannot tolerate others being better than himself. Their selfish nature determines that they can only have themselves in their world.
Tang Dynasty Li Linfu is a narrow-minded person. The reserve officials he trained were both timid and fearful, good at catering to mediocre people, and had no opinions, which led to uneasy government affairs and the Tang Dynasty declined day by day.
A narrow-minded person has no content in his heart. He has extreme self and selfishness. He has only himself in his heart, and no one else can appear.
A narrow-minded person has a small mind, loves to hold grudges, and is unwilling to forgive others easily.
People with narrow minds are selfish and have a strong comparative mentality. They are always right no matter what they do and have no gratitude.
A narrow-minded person only cares about himself in everything. How others do has nothing to do with him. No matter what he does, he just takes advantage of himself and must not let himself suffer.
3. People who don’t know how to be grateful will always blame others too much when encountering things and have no gratitude for the things around them.
As a person, character is more important than ability. A person can be without talent, but not without virtue. You can be incompetent, but you cannot be without quality.
Mencius said: "A person has no shame, not a human being; a heart without right and wrong is not a human being."
"No compassion is not a human being", that is, if people who suffer, they cannot be considered human beings without compassion.
"The heart of shame and disgust is not human", that is, if you do not feel ashamed and disgusted by yourself or others' bad things, you cannot be considered a human being.
"The heart of giving without giving is not a human being", that is, without a humble and courteous heart, you cannot be considered a human being.
"The heart of no right and wrong is not human", that is, a heart of no right and wrong, good and evil cannot be considered a human.
People who don’t know how to be grateful are the real ones. The ancients believed that this was the evil one.
If you don’t know how to be grateful, if you meet someone, just pass by him or not, you should not make friends with each other.
British philosopher Bacon said:
"The suspicious heart is like a bat, it always takes off in the darkness. This mood is fascinating and chaotic.It can make people confused, confuse enemies and friends, and thus destroy people's careers. "
We have recognized the harm of incorrect minds, narrow minds, gratitude, and suspicion. We must overcome them decisively and treat others with a high degree of rationality, broad mind and friendly attitude. As long as our hearts are as vast as the world and as vast as the sun and the moon, we can become very popular people.
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