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not only prevents from entering , but also needs to prevent disaster from coming out. After retirement, you must learn to speak less or not at the corresponding time, so that you can protect yourself.
1. Opinions on family
Opinions on family should be opinions on daughter-in-law or son-in-law. If you talk to outsiders, outsiders will not only like to hear about it, but also fan the flames. If you don’t mind the trouble, you will be sowed by the way. It will not be a waste of time until your family is in chaos and the family is in trouble. Outsiders will turn a deaf ear to your family's good things and avoid talking about them. Instead, they will listen carefully to your family's scandals. They will comfort you from your side in person, increase your sense of identity, and let you speak freely, but they will talk about it behind their backs and relish, treating your family's scandals as a topic of whispering among the crowd on the basis of adding fuel to the fire. One out of ten, ten out of ten will spread rumors while taking the truth out of context. If it is spread to the ears of the daughter-in-law or son-in-law, internal and external troubles will be out of control.
2. How much pension is received per month
Pension is a more sensitive topic. After all, it is difficult for people to achieve the same pension as people. Even if they are different from their colleagues' pensions, they may even accidentally meet some people who have no pensions. If you talk about pensions with an outsider with a pension, it will not only cause the pensions to be looked down upon by outsiders with higher pensions than you, but also cause jealousy among outsiders with lower pensions than you. Moreover, outsiders who are planning to do evil will follow the clues to obtain your pre-retirement salary through your pensions, and then calculate your approximate savings. Although you have not directly exposed your family’s wealth, you have indirectly exposed your family’s wealth, which is rooted in the hidden danger of big trees attracting wind. If there are ears in the partition walls, you may be stolen by being thieves or being missed by thieves, you may have endless troubles. It is not alarmist or making a big deal, but preventing problems before they happen.
3. Children's abilities or abilities
Don't show off your children, just because the gain will not be worth the loss. Showing off your children is purely to satisfy your vanity and cause trouble for them. No matter how good your children’s work is or how good your children’s career is, outsiders often have their first reaction to measure the value of their children’s use. If your relatives and friends ask your children for help, when your children’s affection is hard to resist, it is a dilemma. Even if relatives and friends think that your children are not worthwhile at the moment, they will think that you are showing off or showing off, and they may even think that you are boasting. In short, praising your children with more ability or ability from outsiders is not only more harmful than good, but they are simply disadvantages but not beneficial.
Conclusion: Be careful when chatting with outsiders. It is best to only say three points to everyone, so as to avoid the possible loss of words. Although you cannot be harmful to others, you cannot be without the intention to be wary of others.
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