I am Brother Hui, and I make an appointment with you every day to have an emotional world. I have a story, do you have wine?
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Preface: There is a saying in "The Tao of the Tao": "The truth is not questionable, but the closest one is a quack. Good horses know the master, and the elder brother is like a father. "
In society, there is a rule that has become a custom. If there are many children in the family and parents cannot take care of them, the eldest son and eldest son in the family should assist their parents in taking care of their younger siblings and taking charge of housework; and if the parents at home go out or die of illness, the eldest son in the family should shoulder the responsibilities of their parents and fulfill their responsibilities of raising and educating their younger brothers and sisters.
"The elder brother is like a father" is a fine tradition passed down by our country for thousands of years, and it also shows the helplessness of the real society to a certain extent.
Because of this, the elder brother has long shouldered the heavy responsibility of the family and the responsibility for the prosperity of the family, which has also brought heavy shackles in their lives and thoughts, and is more likely to collapse mentally.
The brother visited his sister who was married in the distance, but he didn't expect to cry in the end
Recently, a video appeared on the Internet: a brother went to visit his sister who had not returned home for three years. After seeing his family's bare walls, he felt very distressed and cried in the spot. This video has attracted the attention of netizens, and they have commented that he is the best brother on the entire network.
Brother Li from Henan is middle-aged and has a harmonious family and a promising education for his children. Moreover, he is honest, down-to-earth and hardworking, and his family living conditions are also very good.
Family and Zixiao, the only thing that Brother Li cares about is his sister who married far away, and whether his sister lives well has always been his heart disease.
Brother Li is more than ten years older than his sister Xiaoqiu. When his sister was young, their parents passed away one after another. After that, for the sake of life, he entrusted his sister to take care of her uncle's house, and went out to work alone to earn money to support her sister's study and life.
Because of the dependence on each other, Brother Li loves this sister very much, and Xiaoqiu is also very attached to his brother. Every time his brother comes back, he will follow him without leaving him for a moment.
Later, when my sister became an adult, she decided to marry far away. At that time, Brother Li was very reluctant to leave, but for the sake of her sister's personal happiness, she had to reluctantly agree.
For more than ten years, caring about my sister has become a heart-wrenching problem in Brother Li's heart. Because my sister's house is long and there are many family and life affairs, Brother Li has never been to her house as a guest.
However, what makes Brother Li happy is that his sister goes home once a year to visit his brother and sister-in-law's family. Every time my sister comes back, Brother Li will cook a table full of dishes to entertain her family. The period when my sister returns home will also become the happiest time in Brother Li’s family.
However, in the past three years, due to well-known reasons, my sister has not been able to go home. Brother Li, who was eager to see her sister, decided to visit her and learn about her family's living conditions.
When Xiaoqiu learned of the news that his brother was visiting, he was very happy and made careful preparations. The moment she saw her elder brother, she, who was almost middle-aged, jumped directly onto her brother like a child, and gave him a deep hug.
Xiaoqiu and his family excitedly took their brother's bag and took him home. Brother Li was as soon as he stepped into his sister's house, he was stunned by the scene in front of him. I saw that my sister lived in a simple bungalow, with only a few walls, the house was not decorated, and there was no decent furniture.
Seeing his sister's family background, Brother Li held back his tears, while his sister's mother-in-law made a table full of dishes to entertain him.
Seeing that Brother Li was in a bad mood, his brother-in-law enthusiastically drank and chatted with him, telling him that his family, including himself and his mother-in-law, all pampered Xiaoqiu very much, and told him not to be too sad and worried.
After three rounds of drinking, Brother Li felt very distressed when he remembered his sister's family background. He suddenly cried with his head on the table. Seeing this, my sister and brother-in-law's family hurried over to hug and comfort her.
Then, Brother Li wiped his tears and told his brother-in-law that he was just such a sister, and he could not take care of him even if he married thousands of miles away, so he told him to treat her well.
The brother-in-law held Brother Li's hand tightly and told him to rest assured that no matter how his family was doing, he would treat Xiaoqiu well.
Hui Ge’s opinion
There is an old saying: Men don’t cry easily, but they have not reached the sad place.
Brother Li is the eldest son of the family and his sister's backing. However, he is determined to be unable to help or use his strength. This inner frustration makes him collapse instantly.
We all know that marriage is a long journey based on years, but going home has become the farthest way. Everyone who has experienced it has a deep feeling. In today's so developed information age, almost few women who have gone out for their own happiness have come back.
This does not mean that they do not care about their parents and do not want to visit their brothers and sisters. Helplessly, there are too many trivial matters in the family life and too many people rely on her. The small family has completely occupied their lives, making them unable to spend any extra energy to distribute to their original family.
Indeed, adults bear too many responsibilities and burdens, and due to the relationship between time and space, there is often no courage to leave just by saying that.
The old saying goes: Marry a chicken and follow the chicken, marry a dog and follow the dog. The choice of a woman to get married determines the happiness of the rest of her life. As a brother who has always regarded her sister as the pearl in her hand, it is understandable to see that her family conditions are not good, but the happiness of life is not defined by superficial conditions alone.
My sister is an adult and has the ability to take on life. Don’t put the heavy responsibility of her on yourself, so as to carry a heavy burden on yourself.
Dear old friends, go back and take a look when you have time! The parents are gray in their temples and dim in their eyes. They are looking forward to you every moment. The children are looking forward to each other every day, waiting for your hug.
So, even if you are far away from the world and thousands of miles apart, don’t forget your relatives. And those girls who marry far away, I hope you can be treated with gentleness by the years, live up to the years, and don’t waste your choice without regrets.
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