The most regrettable thing in life is that at the most ordinary time, a girl who loves me cannot see a bright future with me, and I cruelly abandoned her. I have always been upset about
and will never forget it. Now I just want to say, I was wrong, I am sorry for you, I am sorry for you who once loved me the most.
Once I really fell in love with a pure girl Yu Wei. She was 21 years old at the time, I was 26 years old, and I was 5 years older than her.
When I was a hairstylist, I encountered an emergency.
I remember that day, a junior hairstylist broke a girl's hair due to busyness and technical problems. The girl was particularly helpless and cried bitterly.
Because the hairstylist doesn't know how to deal with it, the hair may be badly damaged and was shocked.
plus the girl's heartbroken voice made her feel at a loss. At that time, many hairstylists did not dare to cause trouble. Seeing that her hair was damaged, they did not dare to help the girl. They probably didn't want to cause trouble, and they were not sure!
Because I know that the hair of this show is the life of a girl. However, because of the hairstylist's sloppy hair, she broke her hair, and she collapsed and cried so much that the store didn't know what to do.
I saw her so sad, and I felt a little reluctant. After carefully communicating with her, I told her not to curl and change it to straighten it. It not only looks good but also tries to ensure the quality of hair. The girl finally agreed.
spent two hours helping her straighten her hair. When the girl saw that her hair was still beautiful and fluttering, she held my hand in tears and thanked me. Therefore, I closer to her, and she took the initiative to add my WeChat.
I also know her name is Yu Wei, from Xinyang , Henan. She is an intern who just graduated and came to work in Shenzhen. She was only 21 years old that year. Although she was not particularly beautiful, she was gentle and charming, slim, fair-skinned and charming eyes always attracted me.
I also fell in love with her innocent appearance. After that, Vivi often came to me, and I also understood her feelings for me. Therefore, at the age of 26, I fell in love with this pure girl who is five years younger than me.
Although I have known her for a long time, I understand that she is a very gentle and understanding girl. The time she was with her was really the happiest moment in my life.
She is a girl who is not fighting or jealous. When it was almost her birthday, I asked her what gift she wanted and what wishes she had?
She shook her head and said, "I don't need you to spend so much money. I just need you to treat me to a meal, to watch a romantic movie, or to climb mountains and watch the sea. I am content and have nothing to ask for. As long as you are by my side, my greatest wish is.
Why? Don't you like bags? Don't you like jewelry?
She said gently: "I don't need you to spend money, don't need you to buy too many gift bags, let alone expensive gifts, because I know you are working hard now and don't have that much money.
When she finished speaking, she broke her defense in an instant, and my heart felt that she was already moved by her.
so I told myself at that time that finding a girlfriend like her in my life is my greatest blessing. I must protect her well and never leave her, because she deserves all my love for her.
However, it is because of such a kind and understanding girl that I don’t know how to cherish. Every time I think of this, it makes me feel heartbroken.
She is so considerate to me. Every time I work very late, I go back. My girlfriend came from Guangming New District outside Guanwai to Futian to wait for me. When I go back together, I will accompany her to have midnight snacks, watch movies, and play games together.
When I went back it was already 11 o'clock in the evening, and she didn't complain.
At this time, I saw her waiting for me and hugged my girlfriend affectionately, and I felt it immediately.I saw that I really found a good girlfriend, and on her birthday, I decided that I would buy her a valuable gift.
But I thought about it all the time. At that time, I was in financial difficulties. Because the debt repayment made me suffer, I finally had to buy it. A gift worth about 300 yuan was given to her.
My girlfriend didn’t know why when she saw this? I was particularly angry. It was the first time I saw her complaining angrily. She said that her best friend could give her a gift of 800 yuan, but I just paid my salary, but I could only give her a gift of 500 yuan. It made her particularly embarrassed to say that I was not as good as her best friend.
She said she bet with her best friend that I would give her more than a thousand gifts this time. After all, it was Valentine's Day + her birthday just happened to hit her, so she was particularly frustrated.
As soon as I finished speaking, I was very angry at that time. It was the first time I felt that my self-esteem was hurt. I complained very angryly about why she became so greedy and liked valuable gifts. I gave her a lesson. After teaching her a lesson, she shed tears in her heart, and I still angrily left without caring about it.
At that moment, I could vaguely feel my girlfriend's helplessness and sadness, but I still stubbornly felt that I did not do anything wrong. Is there anything wrong with giving her a gift? A little cheap though.
But the most important thing is a gift, it is not that it is worth cherishing.
sat in a park chair and couldn't calm down for a long time because I was very angry. She was trampling on my dignity.
She knew that I had no money recently, but she still said such words that made me sad.
I suddenly wondered how my once simple girlfriend became like this, and the urge to break up with her came naturally.
I was really sad at that moment. I was so sad that I was sulking with her for several days and ignored her.
At night, my girlfriend sent me a message to coax me, telling me not to be angry, and also said some words to make me happy, and even begging me not to be angry. Then I made some seafood meals for me to eat, and I was immediately amused by her and laughed, because she had a very poor cooking skills, which made me difficult to swallow every time, and this time I made me happy again.
The next day, my anger gradually disappeared.
But I am such a good girl. Every time I make me angry, I will coax my good girl, and I will lose her. Something happened after
, which made me particularly crash. When her parents knew that I was a hairstylist, and her education level was not as high as her daughter and her salary was only four or five thousand, they firmly opposed us being together.
And my girlfriend Yu Wei didn't say good things for me, which made me feel heartbroken.
Later, her mother called me from Henan and said, "If I must marry my daughter, I will give my family a 250,000 yuan gift, which is a lot.
I was broken at that time. This gift is more expensive than my Fujian one. I know that our family has no money and makes things difficult for me.
I angrily criticized her mother at that time, but my girlfriend said I had no quality and said I was unfilial and unqualified.
I was angry and said that she actually said that I had such a bad reputation. I quarreled with her. That was the most fiercer time I quarreled with her because I felt that she didn't like me at all, so I never thought of being with me forever.
So I quarreled with my girlfriend and didn't reply to her, no matter how she was. I ignored me when I called, but I happened to be a divorced woman at that time~ Jiaojiao. She is a mature woman with a tall figure and a superb dressing style.
She is also my customer and later became my friend. She is enthusiastic and cheerful and is very kind to me and often helps me.
several times. Jiaojiao sent a message saying that she wanted to invite me to the bar to relax. At first, she didn't want to agree, but she was in a bad mood over the past few days. After Jiaojiao found out, she often asked me to play together and brought her closer together.
every time Jiaojiao treats her, and I treat her well. Who knew that she actually had a love affair. She was cheerful. During a walk, Jiaojiao suddenly held my hand and confessed to me.
I was in a depressed mood and met the mature and beautiful woman. In this way, after I broke up with my girlfriend Guo Duan, I became a couple with Jiaojiao.
That day, when I told Yu Wei that she broke up, she was heartbroken when she cried, but I still didn't look back.
I deleted her WeChat and she called me to not break up, saying that she was wrong.
But at that time I had made up my mind, since she had never thought about living with me for a lifetime, since she didn't love me enough, and since she felt that she could not see the future in me, then I would rather choose to leave her! I promised her.
After all, now I want to find a woman who is good to me and has a good financial situation. Although she has divorced once, I don’t care. At least she is sincere to me.
Jiaojiao's family is well-off, at least it's better than before. If you are with her, maybe I will have less pressure in my life.
won’t be angry about making money, so no matter how Yu Wei tried to keep me, I still chose to break up with her.
After breaking up, I fell in love with Jiaojiao. She was particularly good at making me happy and teasing me. She was not as restrained as my previous girlfriend Yu Wei. Jiaojiao was just the opposite. She was enthusiastic and unrestrained and cheerful.
The bright and sweet smile deeply touched my heart. After being together for a while, Jiaojiao also asked me to quit, helped me invest in a store, and let me be the boss.
I was very happy and thought to myself, it seems that I really didn’t choose the wrong one. Although I am three years older than me, I am more sensible and a little more sunny.
During that time, I was still immersed in my happiness with her.
However, when I only really contact her, I will find out whether it is suitable for me.
I think this is the case with Jiaojiao. She is particularly arrogant and willful, which makes it difficult for me to understand whether she really loves me.
But her willfulness towards me really makes me sad.
After three months together, her nature appeared and she always called me around and didn't treat me as her boyfriend at all.
Jiaojiao is always self-centered and always hopes that I can follow her. If I don’t go to her, don’t help her, and don’t listen to her, she will complain and even take her anger on me.
This made me feel a little bit in deep thought, did I love the wrong person?
, especially that willful and arbitrary thing, made me collapse instantly. When I was still busy working in the store, she suddenly called and said, "Why didn't you answer my phone? I...I have something to ask you for it.
, I'm speechless, I said, am I busy with work?
, but I'm sick, am I not? I've asked you to come here many times, why am I sick? Why don't I come to see me? Do you don't love it? Me.
. Don’t fool me, it was the last time.
won’t!
. Seeing her weak words, she believed it, so I closed the store. Before the employee came back to work, I went to visit my girlfriend Jiaojiao as soon as I closed the store.
I really thought she was sick, but when she got there, she actually sat at the door waiting for me to drive her. I suddenly felt like I was so angry that she was sitting there. I was dumbfounded.
fooled me again. You were not sick at all. You just wanted me to accompany him out shopping and buy things. That's all, is that right?
Yes! I think you were wrong?
angrily criticized her, are you fooling me? I am still working! Miss. What are you losing thousands at once?
I have money, I don't need you to work, you just need to accompany me well OK.
But I was particularly speechless. How can women be willful like this?
I had nothing before, but because of you, I drove all the customers away, just for you.
, especially female customers , Xiaomi is here too! She is my old customer.
do you like her or what's wrong? I'm so good to her, but still your girlfriend.
What are you talking about nonsense? How is it possible?
After saying that, she got angry. Finally, I had an argument with her. The two of them quarreled for a long time. I thought she would coax me like the previous girlfriend.
I was wrong. She was not only angry, but also took her anger on me. In the end, I was the only one who apologized to her with grievance. This is the peace.
I thought the matter would end like this, but half a month later, my father was hospitalized due to a sudden illness, so I planned to go back to visit him.
lent 50,000 yuan from his girlfriend Jiaojiao and then went home, but Jiaojiao told me in person. There is money, but you can't go back, just transfer it to him. You have to accompany me to play. I hope you are here to accompany me. Your father has your sister and brother to take care of him. You don't need to take care of him. OK!
is not suitable! Do you have no family? My family must go back to take care of me when I am hospitalized!
But you give him money and let the nanny take care of him. Come on, brothers and sisters! Is that true?
is different. Don’t just use money instead? You can’t be so unfilial even if you have money!
She was stunned and probably got angry. I ignored her and still went back resolutely.
Before leaving, she said: You are sure to ignore me, you will regret it.
At this time, I no longer paid attention to her. After I returned home, I unexpectedly saw Jiaojiao in her best friend circle and was actually with his male best friend.
Two people took photos together intimately. At that moment, I was extremely angry and felt green.
Because I firmly asked the two of them to leave before, Jiaojiao didn't listen to me and was still together here.
I found that I was really green, how could I have such a girlfriend? I have been with my male best friend for so long, I already have a boyfriend, and I am with others. What do you think?
So at that moment, I swear, I really want to break up with her, I've had enough.
The result was really as I expected. From the moment she came back, I saw the two of them holding hands and hugging each other intimately.
At that moment, I took the photo and showed it to her, and she said to me angrily: It seems you know everything. I said that I will make you regret it.
Let’s break up! I will fulfill you.
You really want to break up with me, so... it's so refreshing. After
, we had no relationship again. At this time, I was walking home with tears in my eyes. I was in self-blame. It seemed that I was really wrong.
There was once such a girl who loved me deeply~ Yu Wei, she was so kind to me and so infatuated, but I gave up on her. At that moment, I was really regretful.
If God gives me another chance, I hope to never leave her.
It’s a pity, there is no medicine for regret in this world.
I suddenly wanted to see her, so the next day I got on the plane and came to her hometown.
I thought I could reunite with her, but I saw her holding hands with a tall and handsome man.
At that moment, my heart was broken. I knew I was one step late again, but at this time I was not angry, so I could only send her sincere blessings to them silently.
Maybe I really don’t deserve her now, I don’t deserve her pure and cute, and I can only leave endless regret in my heart.
I'm sorry, I was wrong, I shouldn't have abandoned you who loved me the most.
This article is a confession. I hope everyone will cherish the woman who once loved her, never leave her, and don’t give up easily, otherwise it will be too late to regret, because there is no medicine for regret in this world...
Which woman would you choose if it were? Am I leaving her like me? Welcome to leave a message.