. Do you want to get back together again?
Some people agree with this issue, and some people disagree with it.
Those who have accompanied us for a long time, we thought they would accompany us all the time, but as we walked, the other party told us that we were leaving and could not continue to accompany us down.
This is undoubtedly a bolt from the blue. It takes a long time to digest such news. We fantasize countless times in our hearts that one day we can turn back time and our relationship will be the same as before.
Perhaps it was God who heard his prayer and gave himself a chance to reunite. The two of them got back together, and it was still a relationship between a boyfriend and girlfriend.
is just in the process of getting along again, some things seem to have changed, and points that once easily triggered conflicts still exist.
's temper that had just begun to change. I thought that after parting, each other's shortcomings would be restrained, but they still didn't exist.
So, I couldn't help but wonder if the decision to reconcile was correct.
So, why can’t we get back with the person we have loved deeply when we are in love? In fact, the reason is very simple.
Reunion is just a fairy tale with a very small probability
There are many reasons for liking someone, and there are many reasons for a relationship to separate, such as long-distance relationships, such as disagreement, such as disagreement, such as one party betrayed the relationship, etc.
If the breakup is caused by a long-distance relationship, then you only need to narrow the space distance between each other to solve this problem well. Therefore, couples who break up due to a long-distance relationship have a great possibility of reunion.
But if a couple breaks up because of disagreement in their personalities or even betrayal of their relationship, it will be difficult to reunite again. Even if they get back together, they will still break up in the end.
Because personality is a mark formed by a person from childhood to adulthood, it cannot be changed in a short time.
Even if you work hard to change your original personality for another person, over time, he (she) will still feel tired or even resentful, because this is not something you are willing to do.
, and betrayal of feelings is a thorn that penetrates deep into each other's hearts. Even if the thorn is pulled out, the wound is still there, reminding myself again and again about the fact that I was betrayed.
At this time, the relationship between the two people has laid hidden dangers. They broke up because of why they broke up because of what they had broken up.
There is a line like this in the Korean drama " The Temperature of Love ": "The probability of two people reuniting after breaking up is 82%, but only 3% can go to the end after getting back together. Then 97% of the reasons for breaking up are actually the same as the first time."
So, even if the person you once loved deeply reunited, they will still forget each other in the end, but it is just a little sad.
Whether it is love or life, you need to start over
The people you once loved got apart as you walked, which actually means that they are destined to be together, or that the other party may not be the one who is really suitable for you.
Whenever this happens, people who cannot let go of this relationship will find it difficult to give up. They either cry or fall into a slump, and life seems to lose its glory at once.
In fact, the only one who will be hurt in the end is yourself, because in this hurrying world, people’s sorrows and joys are not connected. You may feel that you are extremely affectionate, and maybe others don’t take this relationship seriously at all.
So, it may not be easy to give up a relationship, but we must always understand that life is to show ourselves of . If we cover up our face and cry because of losing the sun, then we will eventually miss the brilliance of the stars.
Lin Huiyin once said this: "Life always prays for perfection. I feel that good tea needs to be made of a good pot, good flowers need to be made of a good bottle, and beautiful women should also be matched with talented people. But I don't know that sometimes shortcomings are a kind of beauty. Too exquisite and perfect, I have to live a frightened life."
Some things need to be learned to let go in order to move forward easily.
Life is short, it is best to do more meaningful things
If we keep moving back, we will find that our lives may be frozen in a bad moment, and then there will be no chance to get better. Life should move forward, so we should no longer slow down our pace for the past.
Some people lose it, and even if they pursue it deliberately, they cannot return to the state they had at the beginning. Then the gap between expectations and reality at this time will only make us feel disappointed.
Therefore, the person has gone, let the past things pass. All we need to do is to reorganize our mood and prepare for a better life.
Go to meet the cutest people, go to see the most beautiful scenery, enjoy the most interesting things, and leave all forgetting, letting go and the past to time.
Wait until one day we will find that we have let go of what we once could not let go, and we will eventually hold someone else's hand to forget the person (her) we used to be.
