The marriage of children,
is the most worrying thing for parents,
Whether it is marrying a daughter or marrying a wife,
is bound to worry.
Especially when marrying a daughter, there is a lot of uncertainty,
for fear that the couple will have bad relationships,
for fear that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will be bad,
for fear that the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will be bad,
for fear that the whole family will regard the daughter as an outsider.
They all hope that their daughter will not meet bad people,
Must meet the person who loves her and cherishes her the most suitable and correct one.
They do not seek wealth and honor from both of them,
But they seek to be harmonious and spend the rest of their lives with peace of mind.
Whenever my daughter reaches the age to talk about marriage,
As a father who loves his daughter,
will fall into unprecedented worry and have a lot to say to her daughter.
But because of the man's personality,
Many words can't be said in front of his daughter,
So I chose to write a letter to tell my daughter,
How to find the suitable man in life.
My dear daughter:
Time flies so fast,
My little baby has become a big girl,
Now they are at the age of marriage.
When you were a child, my father always thought that you would grow up quickly,
Now I think it would be better to be slower.
Dad really has a lot to say to you,
But I am afraid that you will feel bored, so I should write to you.
My good daughter is now an independent person,
I can't guard you all the time, you have your own life.
But the society is very impetuous now,
Dad still wants to give you a few words.
It is easy for two people to fall in love,
But marriage and love are different.
Because,
You are not marrying a person, but marrying a family.
The man's temper, personality, values, and behavior are all from his parents and influenced by his parents.
See if this man is worth marrying, don’t look at what he said,
You have to see these three things this man’s parents usually do,
Think about whether this man is worth marrying,
It’s very important and necessary for you to think about whether this man is worth marrying,
Good daughter.
First sentence:
"Look at the way the other party's parents communicate with each other in normal times,
can know what he will treat you in the future."
What daughter fears most about marriage is that
becomes the most familiar stranger.
No communication is all misunderstanding, and will become more and more indifferent.
No matter how much love is, it will disappear in the accusation.
You should observe his parents' communication methods more,
especially when there are conflicts and differences.
The impact of parents on their children is subtle.
As long as they are raised by their parents,
The usual way they get along with each other,
to a certain extent reflects the way they will treat you.
can also see whether your future relationship will be happy.
A person has no good temper and loses his emotions at any time.
will make your future life full of hidden dangers.
Good marriages are not achieved overnight, but mutual tolerance and understanding,
is the result of good communication and working together to maintain them.
Second sentence:
"Look at the other party's parents' attitude towards life,
can know what his nature is."
Daughter,
Nine out of ten things that people have not been satisfied with this life,
The ups and downs are the norm in life.
Because of this,
You should observe more about his parents' attitude towards life.
Is it positive or negative or pessimistic?
You can also know whether what he shows you is real or fake.
Because of parents' attitude towards life,
will directly affect the development of children's personality.
When you know what kind of people you are getting along with,
You can understand how far and how long this relationship can go.
The old saying goes poverty A lowly couple is sad,
A person has no ambition,
will only make your future life unsecured.
Dad does not require you to marry a rich and powerful family,
Don't want you to marry a poor and poor family,
I don't want you to marry a lazy and poor family,
I just hope you can find someone who is good to you,
I hope you can find someone who is good to you,
I hope you can find someone who is good to you,
I hope you can find someone who is good to you,
I hope you can find someone who is kind to you,
I'll be willing A man who works hard and is willing to endure hardship.
Because of such a man, even if he is not very good now,
will make you live a happy life through hard work.
The third sentence:
"Look at the attitude of the other party's parents towards the people around you,
can know his true character. "
Daughter, you have also worked hard in society for several years,
I think you understand how complicated human nature is.
So,
When getting married, you must choose a man with a consistent view of the three views and good character.
This is more important than any standard.
Choose a man with good character,
. Choose a man with good character,
You can go and see his parents' attitude towards people around you,
is a plan Not humane, kind and kind,
is clear at a glance.
A person does not have a correct view of the three views and cannot understand everything clearly.
Can't take on the responsibility in marriage.
You have to think that you can change him through time,
That's a big mistake.
It's easy to change the country and nature is hard to change, which is impossible.
It's easy to fall in love and get married It is even more difficult.
Whether it is temper, ambition, or correct view,
is an extremely important thing for a man,
is also a guarantee of whether your marriage is happy.
Don't put your future in danger because of impulse,
not only let your mother down and you have the expectations,
is even more irresponsible to yourself.
OK, just say so much,
I hope it can give you some inspiration.
Dad will not interfere with your freedom of choice,
Just want you to avoid detours and suffer less harm.
Good daughter, if you are tired of being an adult,
If you feel that you can't live with him,
Must remember that your parents are still behind you,
Don't endure the grievances yourself alone.
Finally, I hope you can find a good man and grow old together!
