Mingye's family of three moved into a new home, sat on the sofa in the living room, opened the cartoon for his daughter, and looked at his still young wife, and felt a sense of satisfaction arose. Few people know how much he has achieved and conditions he has paid more than others.
When I was very young, my father accidentally fell down because he was helping someone build a house and failed to rescue him. My mother dragged him and his younger brother and lived a difficult life with the help of relatives and friends. It is said that poor children have become the family early, and this sentence is perfect for Mingye. Not only did he study hard, he ranked first in the class every year, but he also helped his mother do farm work and take care of his younger brother, making the villagers in the village feel distressed. Compared to his younger brother Minghui, he is much naughty and lazy.
Primary and middle schools, Mingye either waives tuition and miscellaneous fees, or poor students enjoy subsidy policies. In the college entrance examination, I entered a 985 university in the province. After receiving the notice, he worked outside every day during the summer and earned tuition until the day before he registered at school. Murakami's cousins and uncles of the same clan, as well as relatives such as uncles and aunts, also raised some money for him, and barely collected enough tuition and living expenses for the freshman year.
After entering university, Mingye did not dare to relax at all. He attended classes during the day, worked part-time to study at night, and worked as a tutor for others on weekends. He knew that the expenses for the next year would be earned by himself. In this way, every day of his freshman year, he was busy. Compared with his classmates in the same dormitory, after class, they leisurely played computer games, read books, and ordered takeout. It was really in the world.
Mingye graduated with excellent grades and entered a financial institution in the provincial capital. There, I met my current wife Du Qing, a girl with good family conditions but also very self-disciplined. After the two dated, Du Qing knew Mingye's salary and often sent it to her mother and younger brother, so she rushed to pay for the meals and other things, and never minded that Mingye did not have expensive gifts during the holidays. Later, when the two got married, Du Qing's family did not ask for a dowry. Instead, they married a small apartment suite of more than 60 square meters as a new house.
The opposite is to Mingye. After graduating from Vocational High School, my younger brother Minghui kept changing jobs. Every time he either felt tired or had a low salary and was lazy. Now, he was basically at home. Because Mingye is in the provincial capital and doesn't have much time to come back, he feels guilty that he gives almost half of his monthly salary to his mother. With the monthly living expenses Mingye gave, his mother was spoiled by this younger brother and he was unwilling to work, so his mother asked him to eat and stroll at home. Whenever you encounter something at home or relatives, ask Mingye for it.
Perhaps it is because habits become natural, Mingye’s efforts to the family have gradually become the right in the minds of his mother and younger brother. After several years of accumulation, Mingye and his wife changed into a new house of more than 110 square meters before their daughter went to elementary school. This was not only forced by her daughter's school district, but also improved her housing. When the family was having a happy time, Mingye received another call from his mother. The mother said that my younger brother was getting older and older. He reached the age of marriage, and he had no house and no girl was willing to marry him.
Mother said again: "As your brother, your living conditions are getting better and better, but you can't forget your younger brother." Mingye also advised his mother to persuade his younger brother to go out to work. You can check the house matters in the town first. If there is a suitable one, you can lend it to him, pay the down payment first, and find a girlfriend in the future to repay the loan together. "What? Buy it in a small town? Do you still have to pay it back? What will your brother pay it back? Which girl is willing?"
"Mom, I just changed the house and also borrowed more than 2 million yuan. We really couldn't take out the extra money at once and lent my brother the full amount to buy a house." Mingye thought his mother didn't want his brother to buy a house with a loan, so he explained. "Mingye, have you moved a new house? Transfer the house you changed to your younger brother, and then help him find a job in the provincial capital. In this way, if you have a house and a job in the provincial capital, and your brother is taking care of it, I am not afraid of not being able to marry a wife."
" Ah? Mom, that little house was bought by your wife Du Qing’s mother’s house. How can I give it to my younger brother? "What's wrong? Du Qing married you, the house is yours. You and your brother are a family, so you can transfer the property directly to your brother. "Mom, usually, I have given you almost half of my salary, because I know that it is not easy for you to raise us, but now, my brother must rely on his own. "
" I don't care, you must give the house to your younger brother, otherwise you will be unfilial. Son, you and your brother are the family. Only when you two are well will I feel at ease! If you can make money now, you can help your brother more, ah! "Mom, you don't know how much hardship I suffered after going to school and work. Fortunately, your daughter-in-law is reasonable, but this is a house, not another item, so she gave it as soon as she said it? Moreover, my younger brother is not short of houses now, but he lacks motivation and a down-to-earth work! "
Mingye, who has always been filial, this time, facing his mother's unreasonable request, he refused because he knew very well that if it was an emergency, even if it was a problem to ask him to give out all his wealth, it would be a bottomless pit to save the poor. However, many of our parents, as they grow older, look forward to being able to "equalize the rich and poor" of their children's lives, and think that every child is equally good, but in fact it is the one who hurts the hardworking and motivated. Friends, what would you do if it were you? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area
