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Yishu wrote in "City Story": Men, when you ask a woman to look like a woman, ask yourself how many men you have.
If in a marriage, men are not like men, women are not like women, but shoulder the responsibilities and burdens of men like men, then men will no longer have the necessity of existence.
Deng Xia took the opportunity to celebrate her parents' birthday by going home and honored her parents' family for 20,000 yuan, but it attracted her husband's dissatisfaction. In order to appease her furious husband, Deng Xia gave her husband 3,000 yuan, but her husband was still dissatisfied and even started a divorce.
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Since Deng Xia got married, her parents have been paying money and efforts to help them maintain and manage their small family. Therefore, when his mother's birthday, Deng Xia prepared 20,000 yuan early to respect her parents and compensate her parents.
It’s just that Deng Xia respects her parents for 20,000 yuan, but she has been opposed and dissatisfied by her husband. In my husband's words, your parents have pensions, and they also use pensions to subsidize our household income. There is no need to waste money.
How can you be filial to your parents? No matter how rich your parents are, they are still their parents. It is different from her to pay filial piety to their parents with her own money. Deng Xia insisted on giving her parents 20,000, and ignored it too much.
When her parents saw her filial piety of 20,000 yuan, they refused to ask for it. They also advised her to take peace as the most important thing and not to make a fuss with them for money. Later, Deng Xia forced her money to give her parents, and then her parents accepted it.
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After receiving the money, my parents later found many ways to subsidize the money back to them. But my husband always turned a blind eye and pretended not to see it. He even started a divorce with Deng Xia, saying that Deng Xia did not treat everyone equally.
In order to calm her husband's emotions, Deng Xia proposed to be filial to her parents-in-law 3,000 before her birthday. I thought my husband would be satisfied, but he blamed Deng Xia for not treating him equally. Her parents were real parents, and his parents were outsiders, so he gave him 3,000 yuan.
Listening to her husband's scolding and blame, Deng Xia, who originally wanted to have something to say, could no longer help but feel angry. She took out her husband's transfer record and spread it out to confront her husband: "You spend 10,000 yuan a month to support your parents and brothers. I have told you that you have a slight dime, right?" As soon as she took out the transfer record, her husband was speechless. Since getting married, my husband has been reluctant to submit his salary card and let Deng Xia slap her hard. In desperation, Deng Xia had to bear the burden of family expenses by herself, and even her parents had to use money to subsidize their household expenses from time to time.
But my husband is fine, he collects his own salary himself, and in the end he subsidizes all his parents and brother. My husband couldn't help but say: My parents are old, and it is natural to give 4,000 yuan a month to live. Not long after my brother got married, he owed a lot of debts to buy a house. If I don’t help him pay the 6,000 mortgage every month, he will be desperate.
My husband was right, as if the person who made trouble was Deng Xia, but he was not wrong at all. Looking at her husband's calm expression, Deng Xia collapsed. She was very unwilling to accept that the man she had chosen so many times, but in the end she was a double-standard scumbag?
Despite the opposition of his parents, Deng Xia decisively filed for divorce with her husband. Since this man is foolish and filial, then she will divorce to fulfill his filial piety. She was unwilling to let her parents down for the rest of her life.
Today’s topic:
Do you support Deng Xia’s divorce stop loss?
