Women are always emotional when it comes to love, and men are more rational.
When facing a man with other women, many women's first reaction is usually, why do he treat me like this? Does he still love me?
How much he loves her and how he will choose between us.
Almost all the questions revolve around whether to love or not, but ignore the most critical questions. When he chooses to betray your marriage, love no longer dominates, and even the responsibility disappears.
talks about love with such a person, but the result is only disappointment, no exception.
So what is the real idea of a man having other people in his marriage?
After watching " Forever Family " Wang Yan , Xiuli, played by Wang Yan , found that her husband needed a technical backbone and was with Huining, who had emotional entanglements again.
She asked Wei Ping why so many technical backbones asked Sun Huining to come back. Wei Ping couldn't explain why he just said one sentence repeatedly, believe me, we have nothing to do.
Xiuli insisted on leaving, and Wei Ping cried to her sister, why did she treat me like this?
When most people have extramarital women, their first idea is to hide it if they can.
Even if he knows that his wife has feelings, as long as he doesn't catch her on the spot, he denies it, because most people don't want to lose their homes, they just want to find a supplement to find a missing part of their marriage.
Just as Wei Ping said, I can't lose you, I can't live without this home.
They need home, but they cannot control their hearts.
Secondly, when making a choice, interests are preferred
Although most people do not want to divorce when they have extramarital relationships, no matter whether people outside want to get ahead or people within marriage cannot accept it.
Many times they still have to face the decision of choosing one of two. After all, the fire cannot be kept in the way. It is impossible for the red flag at home to never fall, and the colorful flags outside to float.
So what should I do when facing the pressure of both?
At this time, they will stand from their own perspective and make a judgment based on the actual benefits brought to them by the two people and the losses of divorce.
So that's why some extramaritals can succeed, while others don't divorce, and the original wife seems to win.
Just like in "The Spirit of Jewelry", there are countless women around him when Song Shiwan was powerful.
Once he gets sick and has nothing, he has no choice but to choose, because others don’t want him, so he can only return to his original wife.
He said, it's me, I have you, I can go home, this is not application, it's not love, it's just because he has no choice.
Other women do not take over his mess, cannot take care of children and serve the elderly.
I have contacted a person before. He is very spending money outside, one after another, but he is very family-oriented, is good to his wife and children, and gives money to his wife. I don’t know if his wife knows it. I asked him why he doesn’t divorce? He said he was still waiting for his wife to take care of him when he was old, and he would be wholeheartedly treating his wife. Hahaha, this is what men think. It is because women dare not divorce, so men indulge themselves
For ordinary men, the cost of divorce is also very high, because ordinary people cannot afford the cost of remarrying brides, houses, and re-raising children, so they will continue to be perfunctory while agreeing to go home.
So when some choices are made, most men will choose to admit their mistakes with their original wife and pray for her forgiveness. After all, it is just a matter of face, far less than economic problems.
A man who betrays his heart may not be in the other party, but most of them are no longer in his wife.
Don’t mention the relationship for many years. A reader said that she also asked her husband stupidly, “Don’t we count our relationship for many years and our children?”
result My husband replied that more than 10 years are just a number and nothing is worth it.
Being able to betray is to not care about the wife’s feelings, how can love come from?
Not getting divorced is also the result of weighing the pros and cons. If you can betray anyone, you will only love yourself.
