When you browse your Moments one day, you find that you are showing your love and affection, and some are even showing your family photos. It’s really not too happy to hold your child. And you are still a single dog at this time, are you anxious?
To be honest, when the friends around you start getting out of singleness one after another, they have more or less the desire to get out of singleness. Although I have become accustomed to life alone, I will definitely feel envious when I see my friends around me living a happy life from being single. And at the same time, I also hope that when will his (she) really come to my side, and that I can also have the sweetness of love like my friends, instead of watching others show their love all day long. And you will also worry about whether your friends will not have time to go out with you after they have boyfriends and girlfriends, and whether they will have less and less time to play together in the future. Whether I will be isolated by my friends, whether I will appear out of place with others...
But then again, things like love cannot be forced to depend on fate. If you don’t have the fate to be together, it will be useless no matter how anxious you are. In this era of fast food love, it is basically a matter of minutes to find someone to fall in love. Even if you can’t find it yourself, you can get out of singleness through the introduction of your friends. But if it weren't for the right person, they would break up soon. What's the use of such a love? Although I feel anxious because this happens to me, this anxiety is only temporary and will not affect my emotions all the time.
When you see others happily together, you will inevitably feel a little envious and jealous. Moreover, once friends are in love, they will not completely belong to us. The time you spend with your partner must be with your friends for a long time. If all my friends around me are in love, my anxiety is not only due to my envy of them, but also that I may be able to be alone in the future. No matter what I do, I may need to act alone. I will feel a little pitiful when I think about it.
But we need to figure out the original intention of falling in love, and to figure out whether we want to fall in love with someone or find someone to fall in love. If you want to fall in love with someone, your friends around you can give you advice; but if you want to find someone to fall in love just because you are lonely, lonely, bored, or following the trend, it is best not to do so. Never fall in love just to get in love. You should know that true love is the farthest path and the right person to love.
