Women who marry far away regret it. If your parents are not traveling far away, you will have a good idea; if your parents are not traveling far away, you will regret it if you marry far away. No one can understand the pain of marrying far away. Look at how many relatives and friends around you who marry far away do not regret it. Marrying far away is really a troublesome thing. What's the use of finding a man who doesn't understand you, cares about you, or takes care of you. After marriage, it's too late to be in a mess. In the distance, only children are their relatives, but others are like passers-by, and no one can help with the difficulties.
I am a freelancer. I once had a boyfriend who was loving and dead in college. Later, because of a different place, I chose to break up. Although it was very painful, I finally got through it. I am very glad that I didn’t marry far away. I am very fulfilled now. I have nothing to do every day when I have enough food, so I like to study the people around me. I found a phenomenon that most of the women who married from other places complained after getting married. He called his husband lazy and did housework hard, but he was on the coffee table and watched TV happily; he bathed his children, brushed his teeth, read, and coaxed them to sleep after work, and he was leisurely looking at his cell phone, clenched his toes, and stared blankly. What's more, it's extremely costly. A neighbor graduated from a prestigious university and followed my husband to settle down in his hometown. The distance was too far and he didn't go home during the Chinese New Year. My husband is very optimistic and ambitious, so he spends a penny in half. He invests in everything, but the money is wasted and the principal cannot be recovered. A friend borrowed him 200,000 yuan, and it has been five years since he delayed it and refused to pay it back every year. Marrying the wrong person is like jumping into an abyss. It is difficult to get up. Her husband’s inaction and irresponsibility at home are in my opinion, extortion. Her husband lie down and browses his cell phone when he comes home. Seeing that his neighbor is busy, he doesn't help the top leader every day, and when his neighbor is working, he will be furious and feels that he is capitalism that squeezes her surplus value. The two of them quarreled endlessly, and sometimes they would start in the middle of the night. The female neighbor didn't even have time to read her mobile phone or read a few running scripts . I went to examine her life and her partner. I think she really shouldn't marry far away, especially with such an irresponsible husband. The values of my husband and his neighbor are too different. He is always arrogant and low-key. He wants to make hot money and quick money. He secretly uses the money to buy stocks. He loses a lot and does not change his mind after repeated instruction. It would be better to choose to turn it over, pass it off, and divorce him. But there is no one in the world who advises anyone to divorce, and I didn't say it. So you must be very cautious when getting married. Don’t just look at his handsome appearance, or try to think that his family is rich, and just blindly invest in a relationship. Some people have money in their families, and they won’t spend much money on you. If they have different personalities and different lifestyles, they can be tolerated, but their values are completely different, and they may retreat step by step or even lose miserably. My neighbor is only in his 30s and looks very old because of the unhappy life.
Once I chatted with my husband and said that you make so much money, so I'll take care of my children at home and be a family husband. Because his ability to make money is not as good as mine, he cleans the house spotlessly every day and makes food. When I go home for dinner, I enjoy it when I get home. Yes, I invested 500,000 in venture capital, and I returned 2.5 million. Over the years, I have made a lot of money by investing in the east and west. In fact, it is more than enough for us to hire a nanny, but my husband doesn't like an outsider who sways around at home. He has a virginity obsession and is very resistant to outsiders. He likes to do his own things. He has liked to do housework at home since he was a child, which is his hobby. He said that every time he sees the house refreshing and neat, he will feel a sense of accomplishment. When I was a child, I didn’t like to do housework and read books. I read a novel all day long, I didn’t fold the quilt, my clothes were also bedside tables, and the wardrobe was thrown everywhere on the table, and the house was messy, so the two of us were really perfect, and we complement each other very well, which can be said to be a perfect match.
I also have a best friend who married a rich young man. At that time, people envied his bride price and envied her for her glorious marriage and everything was glorious. But who knew that this young man was a flower-picking thief. The mistress outside always looked like an revolving lantern , changing one after another, never leaving home all day long. Although she gave her a lot of home use, he felt really bitter. When the child is sick, he can't find his husband. He drives the child alone and is often busy. Since she was disappointed with her husband, she has no worries, no longer tired, and never asks him. Anyway, he can give it to the family, but he doesn't care whether he comes back or not. Her best friend said that she just treats her home as a hotel and goes home to rest when she is tired of playing outside. My original family of Guman is from Harbin. She is far away from her parents and comes to Guangdong. She is very tired after taking care of her children independently. In recent years, her parents have poor health. Her mother has diabetes , while her father has hypertension , and she has only daughter, so she can't serve her, so she can only make some money and feel uncomfortable. She regrets it very much now. Before marriage, she was a princess, and after marriage, she was just a mother. She went to work like a war every day. When she came back, she was jogging and doing housework. No one could share her worries. She told me many times that if she could start over and choose again, she would never marry far away. She would not see this person looking beautiful, having a good family background, and marrying him very rich. Now all this is irreversible because she doesn't want to divorce and doesn't want her children to live in a single-parent family. No matter how hard or tired she is, she has to endure it, at least until her child graduates from college.
After reading these examples, I really regret them because I am in a different place and miss my parents, but I can't go back. If I can go back to the past, they speak in unison, saying that if you can marry, you don't care about any bullshit true love! When I was young, I was in Love Brain . I always thought that love was above everything else, and I would not hesitate to separate from my parents for the sake of the person I love. I finally realized that marrying far away is the last decision to regret in this life. Life is short, and relatives should still be together and keep warm. It doesn't matter how much money it is. Enjoying family affection is important. Girls who marry far away are most afraid of the New Year. Others are reunited with their families, but they are quietly missing and crying quietly. When they go back to celebrate the New Year occasionally, they are also taking the family with their families, and they have gone through a lot of hardships in a hurry. Therefore, I advise girls not to marry far away, as they will really regret it.
