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Does a person really respect you or look down on you from the bottom of his heart? It can be seen from his usual attitude and behavior towards you, and it cannot be disguised at all.
A truly healthy and benign relationship will not make you feel suffocated, but will only make you feel very comfortable and relaxed. You will never feel tired, and you don’t have to worry about being your true self in front of him and whether you will be disliked.
Because you trust him, you know each other and treat each other sincerely.
But some people just the opposite. They treat you very well on the surface, but in fact they look down on you. At this time, you will feel that such a relationship is extremely depressing and makes people just want to escape.
If a relative often has the following two manifestations in life, it means that he looks down on you, so don’t get too close.
1: Speaking to you is sarcastic, likes to laugh at you, mock you or ridicule you
Some relatives may not be able to treat you sincerely, and they are not even as good as strangers who have nothing to do with you. At least strangers are not bad at you, you have no conflict of interest, and you have no contact.
But relatives are different. You are familiar with each other and understand each other. If you live better than him, he will inevitably be jealous of you and jealous of you.
If you find that in your daily relationship, some relatives always speak sarcastic to you, you should be careful. Because his sarcasm, ridicule and sarcasm may not be just a simple joke, but really look down on you.
For example, if you bought a new car and drove home happily, he poured a basin of cold water and said that you lost money when you bought it, and said that this car was garbage, so he didn't want it even if he gave it to him.
You can understand that he is jealous of you, but if he says such words, you will inevitably feel uncomfortable. This shows that he doesn't take you seriously and doesn't care about your feelings at all.
People like html are not straightforward and speak without thinking, but are really small-minded and bad-hearted. They can't stand you, so they will mock you and suppress you.
2: When dealing with people, you like to treat people. Whether you are good or bad, he will treat them in two ways
Some relatives are typical snobbish eyes. When you are glorious or down, he has two completely different faces, either flattering you or looking down on you. His attitude towards you is entirely determined by your position. People like
have always lived a hypocritical life, and you are not good at entangling with such villains, so it is better to stay away from them if you encounter them.
In the novella " Life " by Luyao , the male protagonist Gao Jialin has met many such villains, some of which are his neighbors or relatives.
At first he was a teacher in the village and was extremely respected. Later, he was replaced by a relative and went home to become a farmer. At this time, others' vision of him changed.
But he is still the same as before, but his career is different. He can actually be treated so differently in other people's minds.
Later, he turned over and went to the city to work as a reporter, becoming a famous figure in all villages. At this time, those who looked down on him changed their faces and began to flatter him and flatter him.
However, he had already seen their true faces clearly, so he naturally would not give them a good look.
This is the reality of human nature. If you don’t fall into trouble once, you will never know who the people around you are sincere to you, who is dedicated to watching others serve, and you just want to use yours.
Those relatives who look down on you have no sincerity towards you.
When you are doing well, he will deliberately get close to you. If you are not doing well and have no use value, he will stay away from you as soon as possible. In fact, he looks down on you from the bottom of his heart. It is luck that you do well, and it is normal that you do not do well. This is their true thought.
So, many times, you can’t stand your good deeds, and it’s often the people around you.
Human nature cannot be overestimated, so you should be more careful.
No relationship can be maintained for a long time by flattery and flattery. I advise you not to get too close to relatives who look down on you, no matter how good their status is or how well they are in their relationship.
Because he looks down on you from the bottom of his heart, you don’t need to make yourself so humble.
Always remember that human dignity is the most expensive thing in the world. If you cannot protect it well and do not know how to cherish it, it will be difficult for you to gain a foothold in this society and it will be difficult for others to respect it.
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