The strong melon is not sweet! Although many people have heard of the sentence
, they do not understand the true meaning of it. When they meet it, they will find that some things really cannot be forced. Whether it is love or friendship, if there is no corresponding economic foundation, it is often vulnerable in the face of reality!
Since ancient times, true love cannot be retained, only routines win people's hearts! Many times, you cannot show your weak side to others. Even when you are at the point of talking about marriage, you must keep your hands on it, such as your poor family situation or some inconvenient things to be made public. Just like a woman who wants to conceal her own emotional experience, you must keep your mouth shut!
This issue will share with you an interesting thing. A netizen in Jiangsu took an interesting video in the village. A young man working outside took his girlfriend back to his hometown. He happened to meet him and watched the fun. After all, it seemed very strange that someone came back with his girlfriend. He wanted to see how they communicated and learn to learn from the scriptures!
The man took his girlfriend back to his hometown. He thought they would be sweet, but something unexpected happened. After seeing the house, his girlfriend turned around and left, and finally threw a heart-wrenching sentence to his boyfriend: Your family is too shabby, I can't live
In this video, we can see that the couple was very happy at the beginning, and the man enthusiastically introduced to his girlfriend, "This is what I have been a child." The house you live in is my room." But my girlfriend was not very interested in her expression, but looked disgusted. When her boyfriend introduced her room, her girlfriend finally couldn't help it and turned around and left
Why did the man take his girlfriend's hand and leave? This house is an old house. Can't you experience it? But my girlfriend shook off her boyfriend's hand, took her luggage and left, and said to her boyfriend, "Your house is too shabby, I can't live, it doesn't match my identity. You should have said it was so messy. I won’t come back with you in the house”
Seeing his girlfriend unhappy and pulled her luggage away. The man stood in front of his old house at a loss because he couldn’t figure out that even if his past was very poor and his house was not good, it did not mean that he had nothing in the future. The man was reflecting on whether this girlfriend loves him or not. This old house carries his childhood memories, but his girlfriend doesn’t like it. Is it inappropriate to have a girlfriend? This is going to break up Rhythm
Many netizens saw this and expressed their opinions. Some netizens said that this girlfriend cannot be asked for, and her values are different. She only likes good houses and does not like houses with connotation. Who has not had a different childhood? When I was a child, I mainly look at character and ability. What should I care about my boyfriend's dilapidated old house so much?
Such a woman cannot marry! I prefer material things. An old house with my boyfriend's memory cannot accept it. There are too many things she cannot accept in the future, so it's better to break up as soon as possible!
Author's point of view:
Hear of love requires mutual understanding and tolerance. The man took his girlfriend back to his hometown to see where he grew up. His girlfriend was not interested and turned away. He also said that his boyfriend's house was too shabby, and this attitude made people uncomfortable!
Love the house and the mistress. If you really like your boyfriend, you won’t dislike his past lifestyle. You should know more about it. This will help you in your future life. This girlfriend obviously doesn’t like to follow her boyfriend. This personality is too self-centered and doesn’t care about other people’s feelings. Everyone wants to bring their lover to recall the past time, but if your girlfriend doesn’t cooperate, there will be no common language.
Instead of being together, it’s better to get together and part. The girlfriend doesn’t understand what her boyfriend means, which means she doesn’t care about her boyfriend. Such a relationship is useless. It’s better to have a short pain than a long pain. Breakup is the best way to deal with it
Do you think men should break up with such a girlfriend?
