Li Qingqing slammed the door and ran out of the house, and her husband Zhang Ming did not chase after him, but comforted her calm mother-in-law at home.
Li Qingqing and Zhang Ming met on blind dates. They are both locals and their family conditions are similar. After meeting, they are both satisfied with each other, so they leave their contact information to date.
's subsequent relationship was quite smooth. Considering that they were all from 26 to 27, they urged them to get married after they had been dating for a year.
Li Qingqing and her family are satisfied with the man. Not only is Zhang Ming's work stable, but he is also eloquent. Another thing is that Zhang Ming's father died in an accident a few years ago and left a compensation.
Zhang Ming’s wedding house was bought in full, and his mother lived alone in the old house. Qingqing could live separately from her mother-in-law after marrying her, which greatly avoided the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. The couple did not have the pressure of mortgage loans, and the pressure of pension was not that great.
They have a good relationship after marriage. The only thing that makes the two helpless is the birth of the elderly, especially the mother-in-law who is anxious to hold her grandson, always urges her openly and secretly.
Li Qingqing's parents also asked their daughter to have a child as soon as possible to stabilize the family, and to recover while they are young. So the couple followed the old man's arrangement and started preparing for pregnancy.
After Li Qingqing became pregnant, her mother-in-law moved over to take care of their lives. Two generations lived together, and conflicts inevitably arise, but she was worried that Li Qingqing was pregnant, so Zhang Ming and her mother-in-law were coaxing her.
Ten months pregnant, once gave birth, Li Qingqing gave birth to a fat boy, which made Zhang Ming and her mother-in-law very happy. Her mother-in-law bought a golden lock and a golden bracelet for her grandson. She stared at Li Qingqing every day, for fear that she would eat less and that her grandson would have no milk to drink.
But Li Qingqing feels that eating so much every day is a complete burden, and there is a particularly greasy soup every day, so I really can't drink it. She looked at her figure who had not lost weight at all after giving birth and could not wear any beautiful clothes in the past, so she was very unhappy and secretly discussed with her husband and asked her to tell her mother-in-law not to force her to eat so much every day.
Who knows that Zhang Ming, like his mother-in-law, thinks that Li Qingqing should put the child first as a mother now. How can you eat less to lose weight? What if you don’t have enough milk?
Li Qingqing was isolated and helpless. Because her hormone levels did not return to normal after giving birth, she was in a bad mood and often cried secretly. Even if she was forced to eat every day, her milk became less and less, and she even showed symptoms of vomiting after eating.
The child was crying when he couldn't eat enough. The mother-in-law felt sorry for her grandson, and she felt that Li Qingqing was deliberately not eating well and causing her milk to be bad. Because she found that Li Qingqing was obviously thin and ate 6 meals a day. How could she lose weight normally?
The mother-in-law told her son that Li Qingqing had lost weight secretly. Now that the child is not full, he asked him to take care of his wife.
Zhang Ming saw that his wife had indeed lost weight and his face was very pale. He also believed that she had lost weight secretly. He accused her of not being a qualified mother, and just thought about her figure and did not consider her children.
Li Qingqing collapsed and suddenly got angry. She threw whatever she had in her hand. Her mobile phone hit Zhang Ming's forehead and immediately swollen. When her mother-in-law heard the movement, she ran over. Seeing her son injured, she slapped Li Qingqing in the face and said that no woman could hit her husband. She was simply a shrew.
Li Qingqing covered her face and cried bitterly. She ignored her before she could leave
confinement, changed her clothes and went back to her parents' home with a hat. When she went out, she heard her mother-in-law telling her to leave and don't come back if she has the ability. Anyway, she has no milk anymore. At worst, she can let her children drink milk powder.
Li Qingqing, who returned to her parents' home, sent a message to Zhang Ming saying she wanted to divorce, but Zhang Ming felt that she was making a big fuss, and she started to do it first and then hit her. The child was just born, and she didn't even care about the child. She wanted to divorce for such a small matter. She was so spoiled!
This is actually just a collision caused by the different ideas of the elderly and young people, and it is not a big problem. If Zhang Ming handled it properly, it would not cause such a big conflict.
Managing a marriage is never a matter of one person, but every family member should understand and understand each other. The elderly should not use their own ideas to interfere with the lives of young people, and young people should also communicate well with the elderly.
When couples get along, husbands should also think about problems from the wife's standpoint and listen to their wife's thoughts more, instead of just blaming their wife when they hear what their mother said. Such partiality will only cause more conflicts.
Marriage is not easy, you should cherish it all!
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