Simple thinking about understanding the world dualism
beneficiary or non-beneficiary
1,
For example, a man has dated many women, what are your reactions to this?
Some people may think that this man is a scumbag, and some people may think that this is nothing.
: The man who thinks the man is a scumbag, a large part of him are honest people or people who have never been in love, commenting on why the man is immoral and scumbag, so as to make him feel superior.
2,
A brief analysis of
This man may be very handsome and talkative, so he attracted many women; I am average and not good at talking, so I have never had a girlfriend or only once. Since I have had many girlfriends about a man and I am not a beneficiary, I don’t agree with it, and even slander it. He has had many girlfriends, and is a fickle man, and he must have cheated after marriage. I am very dedicated, and I have only had one girlfriend.
will not discuss right or wrong here, just be sure of it yourself.
Everything can understand the behavior of many people from the beneficiary or the other side of it. In the same incident, some support and some slander.