People who are not enlightened are addicted to their fantasies of life every day, while those who are enlightened will have huge changes in their thinking and style of doing things. They will have their own value ranking and their own bottom line.
Yang Mi said: People say they are sober in the world, but are they really sober? Sober people who work hard to live.
1.Change the way of thinking
The famous "Festin's Law" says: 10% of life is composed of what happens to you, and the other 90% is determined by how you react to what happens.
This point is fully reflected in how we deal with negative events. The enlightened thinking does not care about the tortuous and ups and downs of a matter, but focuses on the final result.
2. Attitude to consumption
Buy Buy Buy Buy Buy is the shallowest manifestation of loving yourself. If you buy luxury goods in debt, you can't be called loving yourself if you make yourself a poor person in the guise of luxury.
"Talmud": Don't think about creating a sea in one go, you must start with a small river. Financial management is a skill that people must master, and it accumulates more from less. When you start using investment instead of consumption, you are on the road to cheating.
3. Staying away from internal consumption
Internal consumption is endlessly emptying your positive energy. Internal friction includes a relationship that cannot grow up together, a friend with disagreement, endless meaningless help, and bad hobbies. Our hearts are very small, and there is really limited capacity to hold them. If there are too many bad things, there will be no place for good things.
4. Don’t expect too much from others
When you blame others, you are actually full of expectations for him. If you expect too much, the greater the disappointment. What really hurts you is not others, but your expectations for others.
Increase your requirements for yourself and lower your expectations for others. You will find that life is much sweeter.
5. Love yourself
See too many people who abuse themselves for love and hurt themselves for love. We must cultivate our hobbies and expand our social circle. When your horizons improve, you will naturally not place your feelings on a person.
Reading, finance, fitness, yoga, travel, pursue everything that can improve yourself.
After we get to know it, we will understand that tears can’t help us get out of the predicament, and relying on others is not the ultimate magic weapon to solve problems. Only by being your own strong man can you eliminate all the sorrows in the world, live freely and freely.
In this complex society, it is better to go after the wind comes. Accumulate your own strength and then embrace a life of cheating.
Finally, I would like to encourage you in one sentence: what is ultimately used to shape you is the difficulties you have gone through, not fame and fortune.
