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This kind of creature is very strange. If you treat him too well, he will take everything for granted.
And you hold him and don’t let him succeed, it will arouse his interest and pursue you in a desperate situation.
This is the mentality of men. The easier it is to get what you get, the more you don’t cherish it, and the more you can’t catch it, the more you are interested.
To put it bluntly, if you want a man to become interested in you, you have to give him a feeling that is not easy to get, so that he will have a desire to conquer you, and he will never forget it.
Even if you are sure that you are together, you cannot make a man feel that he has grasped you. You should show that even if you are with him, he may lose.
This way, he will always be concerned about you, and the more he loves you, the more he cannot live without you.
Bai Juyi wrote in " Jianjian Yin ": Good things in the world are not firm, and the colorful clouds are easy to disperse and the glass is crisp.
To be honest, nothing in this world belongs to you forever. You must understand that all happiness and beauty are managed through a lot of time and energy.
Men will not love you as much as they first meet, but as long as you operate properly, they can continuously inspire him to secrete hormones for you.
summarized a preservation secret for getting along with men based on experience: these three places must be "small" so that they can't live without you.
sound should be smaller
Although most women prefer the same-sex who are careless and straightforward.
But men are just the opposite. They prefer women who speak softly and are particularly gentle.
Because such a woman will inspire a man's desire to protect, making him feel that you are too weak and cannot bear to let you face difficulties alone.
So, when a man meets a woman with a soft voice, his psychological defense will be defeated and he will rush to be the "flower protector".
When I was in college, there was a female classmate in the class who looked very "loli". Her voice was also very small, and she sounded like she felt very weak.
Then, there was a male classmate in the class who would deliberately approach the female classmate, and would talk to each other after class, and try every means to go to the cafeteria with her.
From other boys, he learned from the mouths of other boys that he praised the female classmate in the dormitory for being good-looking and her voice was nice. As long as he heard her speak, he would feel particularly moved.
Most Jiangnan women have a particularly gentle appearance and a very gentle voice, which gives people a particularly cultured and elegant feeling.
When men see this type of woman, not only will their eyes move, but their ears will also move, and they will be melted by the sound.
So, voice is also a major killer trick to flirt with men. As long as you are a little gentler and charming, it is easy for a man to be unable to walk.
Be brave enough to be smaller
There is a very interesting joke, saying that a woman can't even unscrew the mineral water bottle cap in front of her boyfriend, but when her boyfriend is away, she can carry twenty kilograms of rice to the sixth floor.
This does not mean that women are pretending, on the contrary, this is an effective means to manage feelings. Women really don’t have to be too strong in front of men, they are more timid and rely more on men, which can greatly satisfy the feeling of being needed in men’s bones.
To put it bluntly, in a relationship, a man's sense of existence is proved by your dependence on him. If you can do everything by yourself, be afraid of anything, and can still break through the big scene by yourself, then for a man, his position in this relationship is insignificant.
There is no need to fuck the slippers when you see a cockroach and go up and take pictures. If you meet a bad person, you don’t need to rush up. There is actually someone around you who you can rely on.
You can hide behind him and let him transform into your superman, help you solve your worries and problems.
In fact, men are like this. Although they don’t say it, they hope that women can rely more on him. It is better to admire him more so that his courage can be shown.
So, when you get along with men, you might as well be timid. Even if you have never been afraid since childhood and feel that there is nothing in this world that can be difficult to get you, then at least you have to give men a place to use it, right?
Even if you pretend, you have to pretend to be timid.
Being small-minded
A man kept saying that he likes women who are well-educated, polite, but when he really meets such a woman, he will not cherish her after getting along for a long time.
Because if a woman is too sensible, men will get used to the feeling of being taken care of. Over time, they will feel that everything is taken for granted, and instead feel tired.
But women are a little bit less sensible and occasionally get angry with men and ask them to coax themselves, which will make the freshness last longer.
Let me talk about my cousin's wife. She is a very sensible woman. She not only manages the family in an orderly manner, but also is very good at dealing with relationships between relatives. Everyone in our family likes her very much.
But once, my cousin quarreled with her, and my cousin was not willing to give in at all. In addition, my aunt added fuel to the fire. My cousin could not stand this grievance, so she divorced my cousin.
Now, my cousin, my girlfriend, doesn't even know how to call people when she sees my parents. She is very lazy and sleeps until after 11 o'clock in the morning. My aunt has to come back to cook for her after work.
But my cousin, although he regretted it, he still spoiled her. Maybe he was afraid that she would leave, so he would be a bachelor.
A little bit more cautious, men will accommodate you more because they are afraid that they will lose you if they don’t tolerate you.
So, it is not a bad thing to be timid. Men will become more obsessed with you, and they are afraid that you will be better for you if you leave.
Time and Emotional Class:
Men always have goals when looking for partners. They will look for the cheat they like, a little gentler and weaker.
Observation found that women with gentle voices and less courage will attract men more and arouse men's desire to protect themselves.
A little stingy and a little stingy. If a man coaxes you, he will cherish you more and cannot live without your life.
There are many good women in this world. If you don’t have any special means, how can you make him love so much that he can’t live without you?
Of course, all means and skills are based on the basis of your love for him and your willingness to give him equal love.
