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I am Yuan Jie, and I am 43 years old this year. My husband Chen Gang and I have a daughter named Chen Yao.
Chen Gang has an older brother who gave birth to a son, named Chen Fei. The only male Miaomiao in the Chen family is Chen Fei, and everyone regards him as a bead.
Since childhood, everyone has been partial to Chen Fei and does not take Chen Yao to heart.
Although Chen Gang always supplements his brother, his in-laws' family also thinks that the family's resources should be given to Chen Fei. Fortunately, Chen Gang is quite considerate to us, and I feel that life is not sad.
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Yao'er is already a big girl and will get married in a few years.
That day I accidentally talked to Chen Gang and said that I would prepare a generous dowry for my daughter.
My mother-in-law was watering flowers on the balcony. She pricked her ears and heard what I said, and immediately said that Yao'er was a girl and was still young. We should think about Chen Fei's marriage.
My mother-in-law's words made me feel uncomfortable. Yao'er is my daughter. Why shouldn't I think about my daughter and think about other people's son?
My mother-in-law continued to say that Chen Fei had a girlfriend and the two planned to get married, and we didn’t need to care about the bride price.
My heart fell down. We don’t have to worry about the bride price, so what my mother-in-law wants must be bigger than the bride price!
Sure enough, the woman's family asked Chen Fei to prepare a wedding house before she was willing to marry her daughter. Our family is better than our elder brother's family. My mother-in-law means that the eldest brother gives the bride price, and our family pays the down payment of 300,000 yuan for the house.
Mother-in-law said that if Chen Fei hadn't wanted a new house, she would have planned to let us move in with our elder brother, and this house would be used for Chen Fei to marry.
I almost thought my ears were broken!
I reminded her that this house was bought by Chen Gang and I and will be left for Yao'er in the future.
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The mother-in-law stopped doing it when she heard it, saying that Yao'er would get married in the future, so the house would naturally be given to Chen Fei. She also wanted Chen Gang to make a statement on the spot.
I also looked at Chen Gang. And he just smoked and didn't speak.
My mother-in-law saw that Chen Gang did not stand by her immediately, cried and scolded him for being unfilial, and said that I wanted to give Chen's property to someone from other surnames.
I was so angry that I was trembling all over. When I married Chen Gang, he had nothing, and we saved up every needle and thread in this family bit by bit. Why can’t I give it to Yao'er now? I have to give it to Chen Fei?
I said my mother-in-law was unreasonable. She fainted as soon as she heard this.
This scared Chen Gang. She was sent to the hospital. The doctor had a checkup and said that my mother-in-law had nothing to do and could leave when she woke up.
I am not worried at all. I fainted, can my face be so rosy? Can eyelashes still tremble from time to time? I also specifically observed my mother-in-law's eyelids, and I could see that her eyes were rumbling under her!
But Chen Gang didn't know. Seeing that I was not anxious, he became angry, pointed at my nose and scolded, saying that my mother-in-law is old and I still talked back to her like this. Now that I'm fine, I'm so angry. After my mother-in-law woke up, she asked me to apologize to her.
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Looking at my mother-in-law's corners of her mouth, I was so angry that my teeth itched!
I didn’t want to quarrel with Chen Gang, so I left them and went out to buy some food. We were still hungry all morning. When I came back with the takeaway, I heard the conversation between Chen Gang and his elder brother.
Brother hopes that we can help get Chen Fei’s marriage done. His reason is high-sounding. How can we, as uncles and aunts, stand by and watch such a major event in life? What's more, Chen Fei is the only seedling of the Chen family's generation.
Isn’t we Chen Yao a member of the Chen family?
When my brother mentioned the house again, I pushed the door and put the takeaway heavily on the small cabinet beside the bed, telling him directly that they should not think about whether it is our house or the down payment for their new house!
After hearing this, my mother-in-law didn't pretend to be dizzy. She murmured and sat up and said that her surname was Chen. Where is my surname Yuan qualified to point fingers here?
I mocked her for waking up. The mother-in-law blushed and she wiped tears at Chen Gang. He said that I couldn't tolerate her, and every word I said was to make her angry to death! She asked Chen Gang to choose to ask me, the evil wife, or his mother and their family.
Who can’t tolerate who? I just don’t want to give the house and money to others, so did my mother-in-law clear the obstacles for my grandson?
I just kept my neck stuck and didn't let go. Chen Gang lowered his head and said nothing, just like before.
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It is useless for mother-in-law to cry and pretend to be sick, so she started to use filial piety to suppress others. He said that I was unfilial and did not treat her as a human being. She was a mom and couldn't even make some decisions for her son and grandson.
She simply sat on the floor, patted her thighs, wiped her tears and cried about how I abused her over the years. What she said is, but it is not the truth.
For example, our family eats meat and only lets her eat pumpkin. My mother-in-law has three highs, which was particularly serious for a period of time. The doctor told her to eat only specific foods. And pumpkin is one of them.
I changed my way to make her low-fat and low-calorie food, but my mother-in-law didn't appreciate it, she only liked to eat pumpkin. Now, she bit her back, and it became evidence of my abuse of her.
The more people gathered, the more people, and the person who didn't understand the reason, pointed at me and said I was not a thing, and abused the elderly. Someone else plans to shoot a video and let everyone attack me together.
I was so angry that I couldn't even speak, and I felt both embarrassing and aggrieved.
My mother-in-law saw so many people supporting her and she was even more excited. Chen Gang and I were asked to hand over the house on the spot!
Chen Gang finally drove the crowd out with a man, and the door closed "bang".
After watching the big show, my elder brother rubbed his hands and said that we only need to pay a down payment of 150,000 yuan, and they will find a way for the rest.
At this time, Chen Yao pushed the door open and came in. When the mother-in-law saw her, her face immediately turned dark, as if she had seen someone robbing property with Chen Fei.
Chen Yao also heard her uncle's words and ignored her grandmother. She smiled and said: Uncle, my brother is getting married, why do you ask my parents to pay the down payment? My elder brother was not born by my parents. I was born to my parents, and they should give me any of them!
After Chen Yao said that, her mother-in-law pointed at her so angry that she couldn't speak, and I kept Chen Yao behind her.
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I sent a message to Chen Yao to come over, wanting her to see how greedy her uncle and grandma are.
Then, in front of Chen Yao, I told her the whole thing again, and reassured her that it was her thing, and I would never let anyone take it!
Chen Yao said that she understood my painstaking efforts and she agreed with me. Because it is obvious that what her uncle and grandma want is not borrowing money or down payment for the new house. They want to absorb all the "blood" on us!
It's okay, this kid can see it clearly.
Seeing that her husband Chen Gang still didn’t express his opinion, Chen Yao asked him: Dad, are you still counting on Chen Fei to provide you with retirement? Do you think you can count on it? Haven't you understood it yet?
Chen Yao's words made Chen Gang start to relax. After a while, he said to his elder brother, I'm sorry, he still has to count on Chen Yao to help him with his old age! His daughter disagreed.
After saying that, he pulled Chen Yao and me out of the room, and my mother-in-law's screams came from behind.
Chen Yao and I looked at each other and smiled happily. Chen Yao said: Dad, you did the right thing! Real man! Give you a thumbs up!
After saying that, she gave Chen Gang a thumbs up.I also gave Chen Gang a thumbs up. I know that it is not easy for him to have such a choice today, and in the end, Chen Yao's provocation played a role.
No matter what, Chen Gang was still sober in the end, otherwise I wouldn't want him!
If you encounter such a mother-in-law and husband, what would you do?
