Recently, a woman whose parents and brother have both passed away, and she is the only one left, returned to her parents' home and saw that there was no one and a desolate house, she burst into tears and shouted "Mom" to the empty house.
This situation makes people feel very sad. Perhaps, this is what people often say, parents still have a place to go, but parents only have a way to go.
lament, but in fact, this sad scene is not unique, but will become the norm. The reason is nothing more than other reasons. That is because there is a phenomenon of only children in China. Once these children leave their hometown, such as work, getting married, etc., and let their family become their hometown or their parents' home, these only children will basically face the same situation in the future.
According to relevant data, there are about 200 million only children in China, of which the only children born in the 1980s and 1990s have entered their prime, so they have to accept a reality that is that their parents are gradually getting older. Once their parents die, this generation of only children has to face this sad phenomenon: the family has been empty since then, leaving only desolation.
This is helpless, but there is no way to change it, because birth, old age, sickness and death are something that everyone must experience. Once the only child, once his parents die, he will only be left in this family.
Life is short, there will definitely be many regrets, but some regrets are known to you. Since you cannot leave regrets, then before the regret comes, try to make it less as much as possible.
That means cherishing it, cherishing the hard-won gatherings, so that you cannot get together in the future. When you are alone, when you are in love with the scene, you will feel less sad and more easily accepted.
