How should I deal with my wife if I want to divorce me
1. Calm down and act unwillingly: My wife filed for divorce. As a man, I don’t want to divorce, so don’t fight with my wife anymore. When my wife picks on her wrong things, I just need to agree with her. Don’t act unwillingly. Your temper is also furious. When my wife says she is divorced, she also says, “If you leave, you are afraid of whom!” My wife was originally an angry word, but she ended up unable to step down and there was no step. The relationship between the two people was completely damaged.
2. Tolerate and tolerate: When your wife proposes a divorce, she doesn't want to divorce, then she can only be a real man, be able to bend and stretch and tolerate. What your wife says, listen carefully, do what your wife says, do it seriously, do not contradict or complain, and wait for your wife to disappear, and you will usually be at peace. The two of them will survive the most difficult divorce days, and the days that follow will become happier and happier. This is also a test for marriage and love.
3. Tell your own thoughts clearly: your wife filed for divorce. As a husband, you must tell your wife clearly what you think and feel in your heart. You must not hide it. You are just alone and have no attitude or expression on this matter. You must tell your wife with confidence that you don’t want to divorce, and you won’t leave, and you won’t let the family break up. After knowing your thoughts, the woman has a clear mind. If you don’t have a strong determination to divorce, you will also change.
4. Talk calmly about solving problems: When your wife proposes a divorce, it means that she has done something wrong, which hurts her heart to a certain extent, makes her feel disappointed and disappointed. She uses divorce to warn herself of her feelings. When you propose a divorce, you must pay attention to it. The two of them sit down and have a good talk, open their hearts, and express their respective thoughts and feelings. When the other person is dissatisfied, they will not feel so depressed. If they are dissatisfied, they will naturally be easy to communicate. Once the problem is solved, the divorce will also be eased.
5. Give up and admit your mistakes and make a guarantee: Women are generally soft-hearted, not because their husbands cheat or their husbands are particularly scumbags, and they can't stand it anymore. Women generally won't file for divorce. If they don't make principled mistakes, they are a little bad-tempered and macho, they don't care about their wife or are careless in their words and actions, and they hurt their wife's heart if they don't pay attention. Then lower their heads, accept them, and promise their wife that they will change, let their wife believe in themselves, give themselves a chance, perform well, and then make a divorce decision, and seize the opportunity.
6. Handle the problem separately: When a couple is having a divorce, it is best for two people to solve the problem calmly. Don’t lead more people in, especially parents, relatives or friends of both parties. The more people involved, the more complicated and difficult the problem is to solve it. Parents and relatives will psychologically think that their son or daughter is doing the right thing, because the other party is doing wrong, and their children are wrong, who speaks who reason, and in communication, there are other problems that extend to each other’s complaints, making things worse.
7. Just consider it carefully: the wife filed for divorce, and the two of them could not sit down to communicate and quarrel when they talked. They looked at each other as if they saw an enemy, and they were talking coldly and sarcastic. In this case, don’t communicate anymore. Separate temporarily, separate, separate, separate for a while, give the two people a space and time to each other, and think carefully about their inner thoughts. Do you still have nostalgia for this marriage? If there is, don’t give up easily to avoid regrets in the future. If there is no such thing as a complete repentance, then divorce. It is also torture each other.
Finally, if neither party does something that is sorry for each other, then try to listen and tolerate your lover. Think about your original vows and would rather give up everything and be willing to give her life for her. Then why bother to have conflicts over these ups and downs? Protecting your wife is your only responsibility in this life.
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