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There is an old Chinese saying: "A son is worried about his mother when he travels thousands of miles away." Children will always be the concern of their parents throughout their lives. No matter whether their children live well or not, they will be worried about them and always worry about them.
For children, they may not be able to understand the parents' earnest expectations or meticulous care. Whether in study or in life, they always dislike their parents’ nagging and find their parents annoying, because they always teach themselves how to face study and life and how to avoid external risks.
Children may feel that their parents have low education and poor abilities, and what they say is too old-fashioned, so they don’t take their parents’ advice to heart. But they don’t know that parents who have experienced the training of life want to teach them the valuable experience of fighting life and the best way to deal with difficulties and setbacks.
When children grow up, they feel that their wings are hard, and they always think that they are far away from their parents and fly alone. But they may not know how reluctant and heartache it is for the aging parents when their children leave their parents one by one.
However, in order for children to have a better life, parents can only respect their children's decisions, so they would rather endure loneliness alone and look forward to the children's return day and night.
Recently, a video of a girl who married away and went home was crying, which caused heated discussion.
On October 8, Zhoukou, Henan Province, it was evening, and a couple in their 50s were taking a walk together. The man was wearing a sportswear and holding a teacup in his hand, looking very leisurely.
At this time, a car suddenly stopped in front of the couple, and the couple looked up. Not long after, a young mother got out of the car and was holding a few months old.
After the girl came down, she immediately smiled at the couple. When the man saw the girl, he suddenly made a "yeah" surprise sound, his expression seemed very shocked, and then stood there motionless, and his expression seemed to froze.
Only after a few seconds did the man react and kept shooting at the car, wanting to see if there were other people in the car. Then he walked straight to the girl holding the child, helped her close the rear door, and then panickedly took the baby in the girl's arms.
It turns out that this girl is a man's daughter. She married from Henan more than two years ago to Jiangxi, more than 1,000 kilometers away, and has never returned home since then. This time the girl wanted to surprise her parents, but did not notify them, but drove home with her husband. Unexpectedly, she met her parents walking here on the road, so there was a scene in the video.
The moment when the father saw his daughter, he didn't know whether he was moved, surprised, surprised or shocked, but he couldn't even walk. It can be seen that he had been looking forward to this day in his heart for a long time. Then, the father completely broke his defense and burst into tears of excitement.
After seeing this video, netizens felt warm in their hearts and expressed their understanding of this broken father.
Some netizens commented: "To be honest, at the beginning, I might think that it's nothing to marry far away, and I think that the transportation is convenient now, so I can go back whenever I want. But after a long time, with children, you will find that you are busy with work, housework, and children every day, and you don't have time to go back to see your parents. Moreover, it's really inconvenient to take the children back and forth by car. It's good if you have a good marriage. If you have a car, you have to consider the fare, tolls and other fees for going back and forth.All the people around me who marry far away regret it, and they are not living well. They are angry and have no place to go, and no one can comfort or encourage them! Girls must consider their future! "
Some mothers commented: "My daughter is only 500 meters away from getting married. She goes home for dinner every day. Do you think it's annoying! Anyway, I think it's pretty good. "
Some girls who married far away shared their experience: "I used to marry far away, divorced, poor son, and the second marriage was only 20 minutes away, about 10 kilometers. Very convenient, come on! "
In Brother Hui's opinion, our society now advocates freedom of marriage. Whether it is close or far away, as long as it is for personal happiness, legality and compliance, it is not a problem. What we need to do is take a certain amount of time to visit our parents and grandparents at the right time, because getting married is your choice, but going home is their expectation.
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Author profile: Brother Hui, a middle-aged uncle who has been running, hopes to use his clumsy words to wake up those sleepy people.
# Brother Hui talks about emotions#
