Teacher Qin Dongkui
A person has all the wealth in the world. As long as he is not filial to his parents, cannot be friendly to his brothers, and cannot be responsible to his wife and children, even if he uses all the money to help the suffering people, he cannot be considered a good person!
1. Quarrel and cheating is not a matter between a couple, the child is the party involved and the biggest victim.
Nowadays, there are many cases of couples quarrel and cheating. While hurting each other, the most innocent one is the child. Parents do not provide their children with a good growth atmosphere, and the child is very pitiful.
Why is the divorce rate so high and the cheating phenomenon serious now is because of the mismatched nature. When a woman seeks a lover, she only cares about the other person's appearance and financial conditions. This mentality and standard makes her divorce easily! A man’s standard for choosing a wife is only children, so that her family’s property belongs to me. This mentality is not right, which will lead to the failure of the marriage. It's hard to have a good life without a good start.
2. Keep your wife and husband good about you, and can block third parties.
If a couple wants to avoid divorce and a third party cannot get in, they must often praise their partners in public. Others want to pursue a married woman. This statement does not hold true. Why do you say that your wife is not good when you meet a lady, so that the lady feels that she has a chance? So if you create a kind of evil thought for others, it is actually you who take the initiative to cheat.
When getting along with a husband and wife, not only should they be kind to each other, but they should be upright in their mouths and behaviors. In this way, the children you want will be very smart and filial, and can contribute to society and the country.
So if parents do not have training, they will be on duty with a certificate. please learn " Disciples Rules ". After studying, men will be sons, husbands, fathers, and women will be daughters, wives, and mothers. It is really terrible not to be a parent, and it will lead to the children we raise selfish, lack of filial piety and lack of responsibility.
3. It is useless to blame the child blindly. First of all, adjust yourself will help the child become a talent.
Don’t blame the child blindly if there is any problem. The ancestors are not kind and do not know morality. That is to say, parents wait for their ancestors and fail to teach their children well, the upper beam is not straight, the lower beam is crooked, and they do not understand the morality.
Behavior determines destiny. Feng Shui is about ourselves, so we don’t have to look for masters. We worship Buddha and seek resolving it because of your sincerity and kindness. No god or Buddha in the world can bless people. If you really pray and ask him to bless you, then these gods and Buddhas are too lowly, like corrupt officials. If you burn a few incense to gods, Buddhas and Bodhisattvas, you can ask for a lot of things. Wouldn’t all your ideas be realized and there is no need to work hard? Think about this if it is the reason. Therefore, if we want virtuous and filial sons, we should behave properly, and we should not seek prostitutes and lovers, and we should be kind-hearted and responsible to our wives and children.
A person has all the wealth in the world. As long as he is not filial to his parents, cannot be friendly to his brothers, and cannot be responsible to his wife and children, even if he uses all the money to help the suffering people, he cannot be considered a good person!
So we all must understand the best Feng Shui adjustment method, which is very, very important. This tells you how to have a very virtuous and filial child. I hope that all of us can give some inspiration to make our children truly useful to the country.