Those with interest relationships are called partners, and only those who do not have conflicts of interest are friends.
However, not many people can get chatted with, because people’s energy is limited. How much can you understand the other person at the right time?
So, when you are with someone you think you have a good relationship, don’t talk about these three topics, because they cannot empathize with your unhappiness, nor will they sincerely hope that you will live a better life than him, and will not do their best to protect your interests.
Personal emotional life
In life, many people like to share their emotional life with their friends, from quarrels and breakups, from small things to helping her buy a cup of milk tea, and telling her friends in detail.
Every time I quarrel with my boyfriend, I would pull my friends around me and talk for a long time, crying, and breaking up.
After reconciliation, they showed their love in various ways and sent you the chat records and photos of them.
When a quarrel, say that the other party is wrong, and after reconciliation, it will be your prince charming again.
To be honest, when you first say you are unhappy, others will comfort your emotions with a sense of sympathy.
However, too many times, it really makes people feel upset.
Not everyone wants to care about your love life, and not everyone can patiently listen to your repeated congratulations.
You think you are sharing sincerely, and it may be just a story in the eyes of others.
No one will help you solve the problem even if you say it out. Instead, it may become a topic of conversation for others after dinner.
As an adult, you must learn to handle your emotional life alone and not tell your unhappiness everywhere.
Personal economic status
People often say: "The wealth is not exposed" is the highest law of survival.
The friends around you said they hope you will live a good life, but they must not want you to live a better life than him.
If you live well, it will attract jealousy; if you live badly, it will also attract disgust.
When your friend knows that you are rich, he will definitely try his best to borrow money from you.
If you borrow, you will definitely hurt each other's friendship when you ask for money.
If you don’t lend it, it will also hurt each other’s friendship.
When your friend knows that you have no money, he will definitely be wary of you, afraid that you will ask him to borrow money.
So, when you have money, you must learn to "not reveal your wealth"; when you have no money, you must not "cry poor every day".
Just do your best, and you don’t have to tell your financial situation everywhere.
Judge the right and wrong of others
The so-called "It doesn't matter to yourself, just hold on high." Don't judge the right and wrong of others with your own eyes, and don't tell the stories of others to your friends around you.
You will never know what other people have in private. It is possible that the person involved will already know just after you finished talking.
There are many gossip people around you, so just listen to it when talking about entertainment news.
When they talk about people you know, don’t make a judgment. If possible, you must find an excuse to leave.
Just do your best, don’t judge others’ right or wrong everywhere.
No matter how good the relationship is, don’t tell others everything. Do everything seven points and keep three points.
