It seems that not long ago, many people said that the post-90s generation is a child, but now many post-90s generation are long the parents of their children.
Of course, there are also some who are still single and not married, but a large number of people born in the 1990s have entered marriage, but the reality is that there are many people born in the 1990s.
Regularly speaking, these are newlywed couples. They just got married not long ago, and it was the time for a good relationship. Even if they have been married for a few years, they will not divorce.
So what is the culprit for the 1990s who have entered the divorce army and the relationship is broken?
In fact, if you go to various online blind date websites, various blind date parks in the city, offline blind date markets, etc., and you will find some clues after you go and take a closer look.
Not only are the criteria for choosing a spouse for many young people, but also the standards for choosing a spouse for those old men and women in the park are also very deformed when they are looking for partners for their children.
You will find that the ones at the forefront are always height, appearance, economic strength, young people, and the elderly.
If young people lack life experience and have no life experience, but those elderly people who are over fifty years old, and even half of their bodies are buried in the soil.
Why do they like these things when they choose a partner for their children?
Many elderly people directly regard height, education, family financial strength, etc. as the criteria for choosing their children's spouse, or the children are looking good, which is also a good choice.
For example, some girls are beautiful, and some old men are very happy to find such girls when they are looking for a partner for their son, and they don’t do much else.
But these height, appearance, and family financial strength may affect the living standards to a certain extent, but they cannot determine whether they are happy after marriage.
Take height and appearance as an example. No matter how beautiful you look, two people will slowly get tired of each other and ignore each other's existence after being together for a long time. No matter how beautiful your appearance is, it will be useless.
There is also family financial strength. Many times, the other party’s family has money, which does not mean that you are rich, and many times it is not as easy as an ordinary family.
In fact, many people know that whether you live a happy life after marriage has nothing to do with your height, appearance, and financial strength.
A person's good qualities, such as kindness, hard work, down-to-earth and progressiveness, and the kind of upbringing that is engraved in the bones, a good family environment.
These things are the reasons for determining whether you are happy after marriage.
These things about happiness are rarely mentioned, and young people can still understand them, but they don’t take them seriously, but many elderly people who find partners for their children.
It is this rather deformed view of choosing a partner that has created the fragility of the current relationship. Maybe not long after getting married, the two will soon divorce.
Because they look good, grow taller, and are very rich, these cannot be eaten as food, nor can they let the relationship between two people not have any problems.
For example, two people have different values and their personalities cannot match each other. They may not have much time in love. When their lives become dull, they may collapse because of a small matter.
At that time, no matter how good you look, how tall you are, or how rich you are, it is useless. You still have to divorce.
