"You can't live too much, it will overflow when it's full" .
Everyone will encounter more or less psychological problems sooner or later, which is normal. Psychological problems are also opportunities for our psychological growth.
on the 35th day of copying and checking in, today I continued to read Teacher Winnie's "Reconstruction of the Heart". This is what I excerpted today:
Psychological growth
How can we continue to grow mentally? Understanding the laws of psychology and mastering the appropriate methods is very important for psychological growth.
Teacher Wang Chuansheng also told a story in his book "The Power of the Heart": There is a top student who became very sensitive after entering junior high school. He believed that his interpersonal relationships were tense because his grades were not good enough, so he felt that as long as he got the first place in the grade, everyone would admire him. So he studied day and night. In order to save time in study, he dealt with it sloppyly while on duty and did not participate in important group activities at all, so as to squeeze out time to study. So in everyone's eyes, he turned into an introverted and selfish freak.
There was an exam and he finally got the first place in the whole grade. But in addition to a brief cheer and applause, the students dispersed in an instant after class. No one came to him, and he sadly found that the news that he had won the first place in the grade was only staying in the minds of his classmates for a while. No one liked him because of this, and no one was kind to him because of this, and he was still so lonely.
At noon one day, the top student returned to his grandfather’s house for lunch. Grandpa discovered his changes. Grandpa said, "You can't be too full when you are alive, and it will overflow when you are full. You can get nothing."
Grandpa's words are like a beam of light, illuminating the heart of this academic master. From then on, he changed his view of things and attitude towards life, became friendly to people, became patient with things outside of learning, and tried his best to fulfill all the obligations he should fulfill, taking into account the feelings of the people around him, so his world finally bloomed. By changing cognition and one's own actions, we overcome the personality defects of adolescence and become not only a person who is good at learning, but also a person who is better in all aspects.
Yes, if you care too much about other people's vision and evaluation, and you have no confidence in learning, speaking, and doing things, we can learn the "righteous" method and continue to grow our minds, and we can become more calm, calm and confident.
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