Why do some people let go of their own affairs and go all out when others ask for help? But in the end he lived a very poor life?
Why do some people always focus their energy on others and always observe their every move, but in the end they are still very poor?
Why do some people never cherish their attention? Think about the three questions
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First talk about the first dangerous habit, which is to devote all your attention to others. tells a real story. A friend of mine who works on the project by himself is searching for information about his peers all day long to understand the progress of his peers’ projects. I always thought I knew everything well, but I didn’t expect that in the end my colleagues didn’t play according to the routine, and all they saw were some tricks. In the end, my project was not done well, and my attention and time and energy were harvested by others.
I believe many people have such experiences, such as if you want to make short videos well, and then you start to pay attention to your peers according to your interests. As a result, you find that your peers are so excellent and you are deeply attracted by your peers. And spend a lot of time and energy on your peers every day. In the end, you will find that a month has passed, half a year has passed, or even a year has passed, and you have not taken action, and your peers are getting better and better. This is what peers have harvested your time and energy.
You should know that people’s energy is extremely limited. A truly powerful person will never focus on inquiring about other people’s information. He will focus his important attention on his project progress. Why? Because they know that others will not share the truly valuable experience and data with you for free. You are not his biological father and you have not paid him money. It's that simple.
At this time, someone will definitely retort: You can't just work behind closed doors, you still need to learn from your peers. There are only two ways to learn, either paid or free. If you pay money to others, you can directly gain other people's experience. If you don’t want to pay someone else’s money, then you can observe, learn, and imitate in secret.
It can be said that in addition to these two methods, any inquiry and consultation will lead you to the abyss of error. Why? Because the link between people depends on value, what value can you provide to others? Why do others share it with you for free?
Let’s talk about the second dangerous habit: it is to be kind and help people who should not be helped.
Let me give you a relatively simple example. My ability to persist in doing a good job in self-media does not necessarily mean that you can do it well, nor does it necessarily mean that you are interested. If you just come to ask me casually at this time, I will give you a very enthusiastic answer, which will only prove that my time is not worth much and is too low. Secondly, it proves that I'm not doing well. If I am too enthusiastic, you are a seeker, or you just want to learn about the self-media, then the end I wasted my time, so I only answer questions and answer questions to those who pay.
In addition, there is a truth here. All free suggestions will lead to bad consequences, without exception. Why? Because free things do not require cost, or in-depth thinking, or even practical information, if you seriously adopt free suggestions, it only means that your level is too low.
Because I have come across the years, I have come into contact with many bigwigs in the industry, and none of them give others suggestions and opinions every day for free. In other words, if you don’t give him benefits to exchange, he won’t even tell you a word, let alone add him as a friend, it’s impossible.
The same goes for thinking about the truth. If you like to help others for free, it only means that your time and energy are not worth it. The final result is that you are simply a worthless person. Moreover, if you often like to help others for free, it does not necessarily lead to good results, because Buddha will not save people who are not destined to be.Everything in the world follows causality and effect, and the exchange of equal value will not produce too much causality.
There is another truth, that is, truly powerful people will have their own rhythm and feelings when doing things, and will not listen to other people’s free suggestions at will, nor will they change their action plans at will because of other people’s free opinions. Some people may think they are stubborn, they are determined to do things, and they do not follow the laws of heaven. Because they believe in their experience and intuition, this is a kind of wisdom. If they really want to ask their seniors for advice, they will definitely pay.
so you must learn to shut up. Under what circumstances can you share for free? Unless your audience has reached tens of thousands or hundreds of thousands of dollars, I share many of my things for free, but listeners will not pay attention to free things. This is human nature, so all valuable things must be obtained through equal exchange of value. The truth of this video is a bit too realistic. Many novices may not be able to accept it, but it doesn't matter. I will only tell it to those who understand it, so that's it. If you have some insights, write your insights in the comment section and share them together.
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