Recommended: Since 2022, population issues have frequently caused heated discussions among the public. The first thing to be affected is the current population aging problem. After all, there are 267 million people over 60 years old in my country at this stage.
In addition, in recent years, the problem of Chinese people's childbirth intentions hit a new low and the imbalance in the ratio of men and women is also worrying. According to the latest statistics, the national male-female ratio is 104:100, with 33.62 million more men than women. All kinds of population phenomena mark the fact that our country has entered a special population era.
We found that there are male bachelors in all cities nowadays because for some relatively financially struggling men, the probability of their wives is really not high.
After all, the natural rule of survival of the fittest is applicable to all things in the world. If a man is poor, he has to say that he does not have strong strength or is not diligent enough in life. It can be seen from the side that his family conditions are not good, so few women will willingly marry them.
Therefore, according to normal logic, under the ideal situation of a man with a monogamy (not considering factors such as going abroad and accidental death), there should be more than 30 million bachelors in China who cannot marry their wives. However, the reality is that there are currently more than 100 million single women with marriageable conditions in China.
So, why does such a completely opposite phenomenon occur? Why are so many older unmarried women unmarried?
In this regard, the author once saw a business person on the Internet who did not want to be named said: These women in China who are unwilling to get married and are all being killed by capital. In the discussion of , the netizen explained various phenomena and analyzed them well.
What is capital? Why do you want to praise them? It's because they discovered a secret: in today's era, only adult women and children are easiest to earn money.
Many facts show that most contemporary women can spend a lot of money to buy a bag, a piece of clothing, or some so-called high-end cosmetics, so the female group is undoubtedly the best "harvest" target for capital.
At present, many women are unwilling to get married, or do not want to get married, mostly because they believe in the three lies of capital. Let’s see if the women around you are like this?
The first lie of capital: a man has no car or house, and he cannot give you the life you want.
In order to let young people buy houses and cars as much as possible, capital has thought of many ways. The most effective one is to start from the man’s marriage partner, so that all men can “can’t escape”.
Now, after years of hard work, capital has succeeded to make all women recognize one sentence: If a man has no car or house, then he obviously cannot give you a better life.
So everyone should find that when women get married, they have regarded men's "having a car and a house" as a material standard, regardless of where the men's money comes from. After all, houses are very expensive now and the cost of using cars is high. Many ordinary men can only buy them with loans, and this is the result of capital.
The second lie of capital: I give you less bride gifts, but I don’t love you enough.
I don’t know when it started, but a bad atmosphere of getting married and competing for the number of dowry gifts has been set off in various places. Some women get married and directly ask the man to give a bride price ranging from tens of thousands to hundreds of thousands or millions. The name is that he looks good, but he never considers the man's family conditions.
In this context, in order to get married, parents can only raise money and loans everywhere. Capitalists sit and wait for you to borrow money to collect interest. That feels so beautiful.
The third lie of capital: there are only lazy women, no ugly women.
In the past, many advertisements of medical beauty institutions improperly correlate their appearance with "high quality", "diligence", "success", or "laziness", and "poverty", deliberately creating appearance anxiety, which has led to many women being deeply trapped in it and unable to extricate themselves.
We know that plastic surgery for women, cosmetics, skin care products, etc. are very profitable.But even for obvious reasons, women would rather fall into the trap designed by capital in order to "become beautiful", and the money men earn is not enough to satisfy their desires.
Conclusion: Nowadays, women who are praised by capital are becoming more and more "noble" and less down-to-earth, so that in their hearts, ordinary men are not worthy of them. Isn't this the cruel truth?
Perhaps when they gradually grow old, they will understand the value of ordinary people and the "sincerity" of capital.
