It is really impossible for couples to make AA. Because of the AA system, the couple is divided very well. Are you still a couple who knows how to distinguish? Just say that, only outsiders can distinguish them so clearly. If it is a couple, you should not be so clear about the distinction, because we are a family rather than outsiders. Do you understand the relationship with our family?
is like this thing in the article. Isn’t it because this man understands the difference too clearly? Otherwise, my wife would divorce him? Who can blame for this ending now? If you want to blame, blame yourself. Let's take a look at this matter together. The wedding night was in the wedding night and my husband proposed the AA system. My husband: For your own good, I: OK, but there are five requirements.
case story sharing person,
34-year-old Ms. Li:
I am an older single woman. I got married a few days ago. There are not many girls getting married at the age of 34, right? I don't want to do it either. But I have never met the right person. I have no choice but to wait a little longer. Others think I have high requirements, but in fact I don’t have high requirements. But I don’t want to take the initiative. If others take the initiative, I will be willing to do it for 80% of the time.
I only have this requirement, is this difficult? I have to wait until I was 34 years old. I finally got married, but I wanted to choose to divorce on the night of my wedding. That night I returned to my parents' home from my in-laws' house. My parents knew about this and told me, are you kidding? If so, you are making a big joke, hurry up and go back, otherwise your husband will come to pick someone up again, or say that we don’t keep our word.
has already married my daughter, how can my daughter automatically navigate to home now? Go to your husband's place quickly. You are your husband's wife, not our family. I was so amused and crying. I told my parents that I would not go back. I will be here after I come back today. I will provide you with care in the future. I am the only daughter. If I don’t provide you with care, who will provide you with care. I said this on purpose, and my parents were angry when I heard me say this. My parents told me angrily that we don’t need you to support us.
Hurry back and live a good life with your child. What happened and how did you come back? I told my parents that I actually came back because I couldn't live with my husband anymore, so I'll get a divorce tomorrow. I don't want to live with my husband anymore. He's too much. Then my parents said, are you kidding?
You told me about divorce on the night of my marriage? I told my parents that I was not kidding, it was not that I was going to get a divorce, it was that my husband was too much, and seeing that he beat me up when I saw that I had such a red face. My husband asked to be with me, but I disagree. My husband told me, let's go AA. For the sake of family harmony, you know that I'm under a lot of pressure, and my parents are unwilling to come here to take care of the children.
so for this family and for you, and for me, we will be in the future AA system. I was forced to be helpless. I told my husband a lot of great truths. I hope he can understand me. I don’t want to be so clear about the difference. It’s still a couple who understand the difference so clearly. But what I got was a slap. Then I told my husband, since this is the case, that's OK, but I have 5 requests to agree to you, I will give you the AA system. If you don't agree, don't tell me about this matter, I will not give you the AA system.
The first requirement is, since it needs to be AA system, let’s divide it to the end. We will sleep in separate rooms in the future.
Although we got married on the first day of today. At that time, I thought we should sleep separately. I thought this was good. You had to do it with me. If you don't separate from me, I won't separate from you either. But if you separate from me, I can only help you.
Even if we are husband and wife, even if we are married on the first day today, we still have to sleep separately. Don’t blame me, if you want to blame yourself. Since you can understand the difference, then let’s understand it completely. I don’t want to argue with you or quarrel with you, just sleep in this room, I can go to the study and sleep in the guest room.
Anyway, we have to sleep separately. If you have to come to my room to sleep, you will be fined. A fine of 200,000 yuan will be imposed. If you book a monthly subscription, you will get 2 million yuan per month. Don't blame me, if you want to blame yourself. If you want to distinguish our relationship a little more clearly, then we can distinguish it a little more clearly.
The second requirement, since we have so understood the distinction, then we can also understand the matter of giving birth.
I can give you a baby, but I must compensate me. It is very hard for a woman to have a baby. And you will also face death when giving birth. So you have to compensate me. To have a child, you must give me 500,000 yuan in compensation. What I want is RMB. Also, I have to give all the money to me before giving birth, and there is nothing to pay for one hand.
Now when I am pregnant, I give me the money, or if I borrow money, I will give it to me. Otherwise, I will not have children, and I will not let you take advantage of this. Comrades-in-arms are when I am in confinement, and you have to compensate. It’s very uncomfortable during confinement and you have to take care of your children. During this period, you will be given a monthly subsidy of 10,000 yuan.
Otherwise I wouldn't have a baby. Even if you say I want to smash you, I don’t care. You understand so well with me, and you feel that it has nothing to do with me. Then why should I care about your affairs? Since you have to distinguish it from me so clearly, then we can all distinguish it clearly.
The third requirement, this house is mine. Since we talk about the AA system, then start this month, please give me a monthly rent.
Our house is in a better location. If others want to rent, it will cost at least five or six thousand yuan a month. But I have a good relationship with you and it is quite special, so I just give me 3,000 a month, half of each person. It’s a partnership, but it’s not much for 3,000 yuan a month.
You share a share with others, and you share a share with me. Anyone who shares the rent with you will have to pay for it. If this is the case, then you give me the money. Just give me 3,000 yuan a month. It doesn't matter if you don't want to live here, anyway, the house belongs to mine, and if you don't live there, I'll share the rent with others.
It doesn’t matter where you live, if you live here, you will pay. If you live, you have to pay. If you let your parents come here to live in the future, then you have to calculate it differently. In addition to paying me for the house, even the utility bills must be divided equally. After all, we live in two people, I rarely stay at home, and I spend most of my time in the company.
Then if you can’t take advantage of me, you must also be average if you don’t have to take advantage of me. It is best to install two water meters and electricity meters. Pay as much as you spend. After all, we are in the AA system, so we still need to understand some things and some things. If that happens, no one will suffer any losses, and your pressure will not increase because of this, right?
The fourth requirement, I will not take care of your parents in the future.
Although you are the only child and you will be responsible for your parents in the future, I know these things will happen sooner or later, but you and I are AA. Then I won’t care about your parents. Even if your parents are hospitalized, I won’t take care of you. I will say whatever you like. I won’t care about your mouth growing on you.
I have an AA system with you. What does it have to do with your parents? Say something bad. This is not because I am married to you. How much does it have to do with your parents? By the same token, if my parents need your help in the future, or if they need help, I will not come to you. After all, we are AA, and I have no obligation or right to ask you for help. Just rest assured, I will not come to you because of my parents’ affairs.
We know how to do it in our AA system. It is better to understand it. If you don’t suffer any losses, I won’t suffer any losses. What’s more, I don’t like your parents very much and don’t want to be with your parents.So I won’t care about your parents’ affairs in the future. You can do whatever you want, and say whatever your parents like. It can be said that I am unfilial, or it can be said that I am a bad wife and a bad daughter-in-law. I don't care.
The fifth requirement, I won’t care about anything you encounter in the future.
Because we live in AA, what happens to you in the future. For example, your parents need me to take care of. Or maybe you are sick and I need to take care of you. I won't care. Because we have an AA relationship. Of course, I don’t care about your affairs anymore, and I won’t care about my affairs.
If my parents are sick and need someone to take care of, I don’t need you to care. I will take good care of my parents and others by myself. I will find a way to deal with my business myself. Even if you say I am ruthless, I don’t care. Who told you to live with me?
Since we say that we are AA, we must understand the difference. We must understand the difference between you and you so clearly, and we must understand the difference between our parents. You may quarrel with your parents over this matter in the future.
I had a quarrel with your parents. That was my relationship with your parents and it had nothing to do with you. Because we live in AA. No matter what, I don’t want to care about your affairs, I don’t want to care about your parents’ affairs, and I don’t want to care about anything.
Before I finished speaking, my husband hit me. I've just slapped me, and now I've slapped me again. I was no longer crying, but now I’m beaten to tears by my husband. My husband told me angrily, I'm just going to get to you. But you want to split up with me. I don't agree with this.
But we live in AA, you must agree. If you don't agree, don't blame me. I cried and told my husband that if you don’t agree to my five requirements, I won’t agree to the AA system with you. In this way, I was beaten by my husband again. As a result, I treated me like this on the first night. Do you want to pass in the future? I went back to my parents' home crying.
Unexpectedly, after 5 days, my husband not only did not apologize to me, but even wanted me to agree to that matter. Forget it, since we have to understand the difference so clearly, let’s just divide it and get a divorce. What do you think about this matter? If it were you, would you choose to divorce? What I don't want to divorce is my husband forcing me to do this.
He insisted on distinguishing me so clearly, but he did not agree with my request. This clearly did not take me seriously. If I continue to live with him, I feel that I will be bullied by him in the future. Forget it, it’s over, let’s get divorced. It is really impossible for couples to pass the AA system. If you understand the difference too clearly, it is not a husband-wife relationship. It is precisely because of that that I chose to divorce.
Conclusion:
It is really impossible for couples to make AA. The AA system will ruin the family and ruin all this. You can't blame this matter, if you want to blame it, you will blame your husband. You have given your husband a chance. But your husband still wants to be AA and refuses to agree to your request. Who can blame this?
, if I encounter such a thing, I will definitely get divorced. You are not wrong with this matter. The fault lies in your husband. I don’t cherish the opportunity when I give it, and I want to force you, and finally threaten you with marriage. Since this is the case, there is no need to talk to him about friendship. You want to live with him, but he doesn't think so.
Your husband just wants to take advantage of you, otherwise how could he disagree with this matter? Forget it, divorce, I have never seen such a man before. Only divorce can lead to relief. If you don’t divorce, you will definitely be endless. Not to mention hitting you on your wedding night. The rest of the time I hit you, how can I continue to hit you in the future?
Divorce, let such a man lose everything, such a man does not deserve a wife and will not have a family. Here I would like to remind all men that couples cannot be AA. The AA system will ruin the family. Also, men should not hit them. Once women make mistakes, they will be with you. Treat your wife well and live a good life.
