text | Xueluo Wuchen
Many men believe that as long as they are kind to women and give women some gifts, the other party will be moved and will fall in love with themselves later.
But is this really the case? not necessarily.
Sometimes, when men pursue the girl they like, they always take deliberate intentions and always think that they will not be discovered by others when they do so. But the other party has long seen your deliberateness clearly, and may even become disgusted with you.
mainly means giving gifts and confessing to girls. These are the normal procedures for pursuing girls. Women have long been clear about them, and you can't attract them at all.
Only when girls are moved by you can there be a possibility of continuing between you. So, how can girls be moved by you?
You must grasp the three moments between the opposite sex that can make women emotional.
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First: When you work hard,
No woman can reject those men who focus on their careers and are extremely motivated.
Because of your charm, it has been circulating in seriousness. I have seen such an example online.
There was a girl who accidentally broke out in the building where she was. After seeing the signs, she called the firefighter directly.
After the firefighter arrived, he opened the door of her house shortly after and said to the girl, "Don't worry, I will definitely save you." He successfully took her out of the building.
A simple sentence made the girl's heart start to beating faster like a deer, and she also hopelessly fell in love with the firefighter and took the initiative to pursue the other party afterwards.
This is the charm brought by men who are serious about their careers. Maybe many men can't feel it, but girls can see it.
If a man is doing something seriously and carefully, it must be his most attractive time.
You can imagine a man in clean clothes and suit and tie sitting at the table, constantly handling work.
This will make the girl think that this man is very motivated and is a person who is uneasy about the status quo.
However, nowadays, too many men are content with the status quo and have a suitable job, so they no longer work hard; they are still fishing at work and keep playing with their mobile phones after get off work.
never thought of being ambitious. It would be fine if this man had a thick family background. If he was just an ordinary man, the girl would think that if he was with him, he would not see the future.
Because a person is unwilling to work hard for his career, how could he take responsibility? How could he lead a family and live a good life?
Many girls consider many factors when choosing a spouse. They will not only look at what gifts you give now, but also look at whether you are a person who is worth her efforts and whether it is worthy of the future.
Therefore, only those who are well versed in the laws of society and work hard for their careers will make women feel safe.
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Second: When doing housework
The current relationship is not like in the past. In the past, many families seemed very harmonious, but in fact, only children knew that the mother was always holding on to this family.
All the things are taken care of by the mother: cooking, cleaning up the house, raising children, etc.
On the other hand, men do nothing. After get off work every day, they either play with their mobile phones, watch TV, or go out to drink and socialize with friends, and never do housework.
There was once data showing that women in China work as much as 145 minutes a day on average, while men work only 45 minutes a day.
It is precisely because of this that girls want to find a man who is willing to take on family responsibilities and do housework.
In the eyes of girls, this is not only a housework, but also a representation of whether a man has the quality of family care.
Usually, only those men who care about the family will have the awareness of doing housework and know how to share the hard work of women.
Moreover, today's girls are unwilling to follow the same old path as their mother because they have seen the truth about their marriages in the previous generation.
Even if they are single, they are not willing to compromise themselves and start a marriage where only they do housework.
So, men should never underestimate the trivial matter of doing housework. Maybe it’s just because of this little thing that girls can instantly increase their favorability towards you.
They will also think that you are a man who cares about your family and knows how to feel sorry for women. This is a scarce quality for many men.
If you have this shining point, girls will naturally be attracted by you and will even take the initiative to pursue you.
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Third: When exercising
Although most people don’t have that much time to exercise because of work, many people still admire those who have exercise habits.
Just like in life, many girls always look at boys playing basketball on the roadside basketball court. Some girls will directly fall in love with one of the boys and even take the initiative to chat with them.
A simple little thing can see girls’ views on choosing a partner.
After all, compared with a body with a full body fat, girls usually prefer boys with tight bodies, which is more attractive to them.
So, in order to attract girls, you might as well develop the habit of exercise, apply for a fitness card, or develop the habit of running.
When your figure becomes more and more muscular, it will naturally be favored by more girls. However, while developing exercise habits, you must also have good personal hygiene.
Because some boys love sports, they are unwilling to wash clothes or take a bath, which always smells of sweat on their bodies.
Especially when you sweat, everyone else can smell it. This will attract girls' dislike. No girl will like unhygienic men.
Wash clothes frequently and take bath frequently. When you are exercising, girls can still smell the refreshing smell on your body, and they will naturally be moved by you.
Moreover, in the minds of most girls, exercise represents self-discipline, and self-discipline represents other aspects of ability.
Because good habits are connected, a person has a good habit means that he will be better than others in other aspects.
For example, he can endure hardships, or has strong self-control, or has achieved small achievements in his career.
It is precisely because of the habit of seeing the details that girls like boys because of a detail. Instead of chasing girls in the most traditional way, it is better to make yourself more attractive, and feelings will follow.
