The world of adults is always talking about money.
Whether it is to support the family, open your eyes and be busy with food, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea; or to contact each other with feelings, the most common thing is to "where to get rich". Only when it comes to making money, spending money, and saving money can people "light up".
When I was young, I felt that as long as everything was related to money, it was a pure "copper smell" and was vulgar, so I disdained it.
people have already seen through middle age. No matter how good the relationship is, the deeper the emotions, and the support of money that is separated from is tantamount to "the moon in the water, the flowers in the mirror."
Therefore, making money well has become the most important practice for middle-aged people.
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It is the responsibility of middle-aged people to make money.
I learned when I was a child poet 《 》 by the poet 》 of the four seasons of pastoral 》:
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The children and grandchildren have not yet provided farming and weaving, and they have also learned to plant melons by the mulberry yin.
means that adults go to the fields to weed during the day and rub twine at home at night. Men and women have their own housework. Although children can't plow the fields and weave cloth, they also learn to plant melons under the shade of the mulberry trees.
At that time, I only read the tranquility and beauty in it. When I became a parent, I realized that behind the seemingly harmonious, there was unspeakable pressure.
When people reach middle age, making money has almost become the only important thing.
Whether you have a stable job, want to survive steadily or find a way out, and want to eat enough without worrying about the next meal, everyone seems to have a "hot wheel" under their feet, pulling themselves forward regardless of the situation.
, which used to be disdainful, has now become a way out for making a living. As long as you have money to make money, what's the harm in working hard, tiring, or dirty work?
I read a message that a middle-aged man is in the vegetable market, relying on helping people carry pork to make a living. He was more than 100 kilograms, bent down, squatted down, and carried a whole head of pork worth more than 400 kilograms from the truck and into the pork stall on the market. The distance of more than 80 meters was his way to make a living.
For nearly twenty years, he has worked for more than two hours a day, back and forth for more than twenty times, and his spine and legs have been deformed. At first, he was the only one left in this industry.
Is it bitter? Of course it is bitter! However, the reason for his persistence was very simple: "Otherwise, what else can I do? Children are the biggest motivation. They are obedient and sensible, and it will be better in a few years." Isn't this kind of voice like
? The burden on the shoulders is too heavy to outsiders. But we have ignored how heavy the burden is, because what is heavier than this is the responsibility of supporting the family and the obligation to support the elderly and raise children.
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3 Make money, it is the self-salvation of middle-aged people.
When people reach middle age, there are more things to worry about.
The parents are getting older and their bodies are sick as they say they are sick. Some people say that what to help them is to guard both sides of the hospital bed day and night, and be there any shout.
But if you can't even afford the medical expenses, such "servation" will only make people feel more and more panicked. That deep sense of helplessness is even more terrifying than the disease itself.
The child is growing up and no longer obeys the wishes of his parents. What should we use to "escort" them? It is certainly true to set an example for yourself and do a good job in studying and doing a good job in practice.
But if life is always difficult, what should we use to pave the way for our children?
What is even more unpredictable is that if a child’s growth is very different from his own ideas, how should he clean up the mess?
So, making money well is not for parents or children. But for yourself, you can always have a clear conscience and always give yourself a sense of peace.
Ordinary people make money, and they all earn hard money. A person’s cognition is limited and can only exhaust their physical and mental strength.
In the torture day after day, watching labor get rewards, even a meager income will gradually build a thick foundation, so that you will no longer panic and no longer be at a loss.
As long as we have never stopped working, never slacked off our work, and never gave up on studying, then the money we earn, no matter how much it is, will support us with the power of many times more than wealth, to face the ups and downs of life.
The hardships that have endured, those persistence and those endurance have made us successful, no longer fragile, no longer confused.
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3 Make money is the most important practice for middle-aged people.
For middle-aged people, the most relaxing and comfortable time every day is nothing more than being alone for a while: either taking a hot bath, enjoying the joy of being washed away by the shower; or lying on the sofa and playing with your phone without being disturbed; or resisting the temptation and reading a book quietly.
, these wishes that seem easy to achieve are often impossible to achieve.
If you have a short period of time, you will either let yourself eat and drink as much as you want, or you will be addicted to playing mobile phones and games and unable to extricate yourself.
Wait until time has passed, not only does it not get enough rest, but it is even more tired and adds a bit of "crime".
The dual "disorder" of the body and the psychology will only disrupt the "balance" that has finally been obtained. What makes money by making money is about persistence overnight, not the luck of "fishing for three days and two days of drying the net".
When a middle-aged man starts to make money well, he will not help but change his bad temper because "harmony makes money"; he will make himself highly self-disciplined because "time is money"; he will care about exercising because "the body is the capital of revolution."
From the initial discomfort to the later process of becoming a habit, making money, that is, the process of self-cultivation; what you earn is not only money, but also the open-mindedness and calmness in dealing with people.
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Conclusion:
people reach middle age, make money well.
Don’t be pretentious, don’t cry, don’t wait, only by taking action and letting time be filled with big and small things that make money, you will find that you can have so many possibilities and so much creativity. Come on
Come on, pay tribute to everyone who is making money.
Author: It’s as light as the wind and as light as the clouds.
Your happiness, my blessings.
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