Now, no matter whether it is a boy or a girl, you must first be good at finding a partner. You must be at the bottom of your appearance and personal strength, otherwise you will suffer countless hardships.
The old saying used to be said that character is important, because you will live with this person for the rest of your life, but now you need to add a sentence that character is still important, otherwise you may not be able to get married and you will be physically and mentally exhausted.
For example, a netizen recently shared his emotional experience. The boy originally said that he had put a lot of feelings and efforts into a girl, but his girlfriend is now going to break up.
In the eyes of boys, the two have a good relationship. He doesn't understand why his girlfriend broke up. As a result, the woman's words made netizens' eyes wide open.
The woman first said, "If you don't care for yourself, heaven will be punished by heaven and earth", and then emphasized that "you are not without conscience", which is definitely inconsistency.
The woman said that the reason why she wanted to break up now is very simple, that is, she felt that her boyfriend was not worthy of her, and she was also selfish and very realistic, so she wanted to break up with him.
At the same time, the girl emphasized that her relationship with her boyfriend has always been very good. She always wanted to take the exam for the post, and then she did not start working after graduation. It was her boyfriend who had been providing financial help to herself.
, there must be 50,000 or 60,000 yuan. In addition, my boyfriend is a warm man and is very nice to me, so I also have feelings for him.
However, the girl said that although she still has feelings for her boyfriend, as far as the current situation is concerned, the woman said that even if she married her boyfriend, she is likely to divorce and betray her marriage in the future, so it is better to have a short pain than long pain, which is also good for her boyfriend.
I have to say that the woman still has a very clear understanding of herself. She knows that she is a very purposeful person and knows when she should strive for what.
But the woman's methods are obviously a bit disgraceful. She always says that she has feelings, but everything is profit first, and she does not care about the relationship between the two.
But the woman obviously would not think so. She felt that she had broken up now and helped her boyfriend so that the other party would not suffer too much in the future.
This is no longer as simple as shameless. It is completely bullying people, bullying an honest man who truly loves her, and treating others as a springboard for himself to climb up.
It is reported that this woman also received funding from her boyfriend during the postgraduate entrance examination. After graduation, she wanted to take the job exam. She did not go to work and was also the boyfriend who was sponsoring her.
However, the selfless dedication to my boyfriend, the woman now said that the man’s work is unstable, his income is unstable, and he works hard every day, and his lifestyle is not what I want.
"The key is that he is not very motivated. He is good to you. He is kind to you, but I just look down on such a person. I feel that he is selfish."
Good guy, not only is he not grateful, but he also has to step on his boyfriend hard. This can be considered ungrateful and is simply too annoying.
But there is one thing worthy of recognition for the woman, that is, she understands from beginning to end, but she does not feel ashamed of this kind of thing at all, but instead feels that it is normal and even has advantages.
The woman said that she is now working in the unit, and many colleagues in the unit will also introduce to herself some men with good conditions and families. Her idea is to get in touch with these boys first.
In fact, I am not a person without a conscience, and I can also give him some of the money, because I have to be conscientious, and my boyfriend will probably be moved and cry after hearing this.
The woman continued to say that both parties gave their true feelings in this relationship, and she also went to get married at the beginning, but after having a job, the gap between us became bigger and bigger, and the level of consumption in thought was not on the same line in the future...
In fact, the woman said so many things, but in summary, I am more realistic. Although I value interests, I also value feelings.
I am very grateful for my help. I will compensate him for the money. Now the two of us are not suitable. I want to break up and continue to fall in love with the next sucker to see if I can continue to climb up.
It’s not that I am ruthless and do not know how to be grateful, but that my boyfriend doesn’t work hard and doesn’t get into the job like me, but that he continues to do his previous work.
But she never thought that without the help of her boyfriend, she might have passed the exam, but the more likely she was to be defeated by the pressure of reality and began to work in the workplace and give up the exam.
