Whether it is dealing with people or communicating, language communication is an art. Maosui is stronger than a million teachers with a tongue that is not bad; Su Qin stirs up the storm of Seven Kingdoms with "one mouth".
In life, some people are not good at talking more, but this does not mean that they do not have the ability to deal with people, but that they know that some things should be said and some things are not worth saying at all. Many times, what says is more important than talking more .
In dealing with people, how to deal with others, what to say, and what not to say is particularly important. Just like in life, there are many introverted people. Although they are not good at dealing with others, their proportion of success is often higher than that of extroverts.
If an introvert wants to deal with others well and knows how to grasp the degree, and is like the ancient copper coins " round outside and square inside ", please remember these 3 points and you will be able to have a smooth flow.
Article 1: Everyone is unique and cannot treat everyone with the same words.
Although it is indeed a bit annoying to say "When you meet people, you will talk nonsense when you meet ghosts." However, if you think about it from another perspective, such a person is the one who masters the essence of speech.
The people around him often like him very much because his words bring joy and laughter to the people around him. Of course, when he does things, it will often be smoother and easier to achieve success.
Article 2: When judging people, you cannot judge people by their appearance, and generalize by their partiality. You must also recognize people through things.
There are many differences between people. Whether it is to be a person or a person, they have their own style and methods. Just like if you have not experienced the suffering of others, don’t advise others to be good. If you have experienced the suffering of others, you may not have the goodness of others.
There may be shortcomings in treating people around you at the beginning, which makes you unhappy, but in the future, the other party may think about you to avoid one-sided understanding, let yourself miss a friend, treat others objectively and change, rather than using tinted glasses to recognize people. What a person is like depends on what he does.
Article 3: Don’t listen to the wind and rain, draw conclusions easily, and make decisions after understanding the facts.
When you hear a little wind, you think that someone is not good, and even repay kindness and revenge, and maybe you fall into the trap of a villain.
km knows the power of the horse, and it shows people's hearts over time. People who usually interact with don't know each other deeply. Only through long-term observation and getting along can the other person's nature be truly revealed, and you can know who the other person is.
If you are not sure of the facts, you might as well " let the bullet fly for a while ", time will give you the answer, and the truth of many things will eventually reverse.
The older generation often teaches us that if we don’t listen to the old people’s words, we will suffer losses in front of us. Those philosophical quotes that have been passed down from ancient times to the present are indeed very reasonable, and many of them are worth learning from.
Please remember the above "3" methods of dealing with the world, so that you can deal with people differently and smoothly in your life.
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