I believe that during the tryst of a boyfriend and girlfriend, many boys had the experience of waiting for others. It is said that Einstein explains his theory of relativity in this way, "You were sitting by the stove with a tryst. An hour passed, and you felt that only five minutes had passed; on the other hand, while you were alone and waiting for her by the hot stove, only five minutes had passed, but you seemed to have sat for an hour." It seems that Lao Ai, who has rich love experience, has been waiting for his girlfriend many times. Most people, after experiencing this painful waiting, will throw their previous pain out of the sky when they see their girlfriends beautifully and playfully coming, and a few will get angry. It is wrong to get angry, but swallowing your anger is not conducive to physical and mental health. The ancients have long taught us how to do it in poetry. Not only did they express their dissatisfaction, but they also flirted with this belated girlfriend. Why not learn it?
and others are a kind of torment, a very boring, and it is really boring. The poet of the Song Dynasty profoundly expressed this pain in "Yokk":
Everyone is raining in the yellow plum season, and the grass and ponds are everywhere.
I don’t come for midnight, and I’ll knock on chess pieces and fall on the lanterns.
If you have an appointment, you won’t come for midnight, and you will hit the chess piece and fall the lanterns
"If you have an appointment, you won’t come for midnight", you may not feel it at first, but gradually after midnight, you will become more and more impatient and start all kinds of guesses, why don’t you come yet? Did you encounter any urgent matters or have any dissatisfaction with me? People were very bored, "I was knocking on the chess piece and falling into the lanterns." They impatiently knocked on the chess piece, and the more they knocked, the heavier they were, and the lights were falling. What a boring helplessness this is!
Nowadays, men and women usually go to date, most of them are waiting for girls, but there are also many girls waiting for boys. Pu Wenqi, a female poet of the Qing Dynasty, deeply experienced the torment of waiting. She wrote in "The Bosattva Man: The Autumn Insect Substitute for the Cold and Leaked":
The Autumn Insect Substitute for the Cold and Leaked.
Lan Bouquet remembers for a long time. There is no reason to meet each other.
Who pity two people? Leisure flowers, etc.
st skinny yellow flower shadow.
slanted moon sieve. Will the jade man come or not?
sieve by wind. Is the jade man coming?
"Autumn insects substitute the cold leak more", I waited and waited until the cold leaked, and when the autumn insects chirped, instead of the more leaking ticking sound, it was almost dawn.
"Lan Bouquet remembers it for a long time. Meeting is without cause." Most of the time, I recall the situation of separation in Lan Bouquet, wanting to meet again, but there is no more chance. "Who pity two people?" Who can pity us two lovers who miss each other?
"Standing thin yellow flower shadow", I stand by the thin chrysanthemum shadow waiting for you, isn't I "thinner than yellow flower"? "The slanting moon is sieve by the wind. The jade man cannot come." "The slanting moon is sieve by the wind", which is used to "sieve the wind and play the moon". "sieve the wind" describes the swaying posture of bamboo leaves, "playing the moon", and describes the upright and upright attitude of bamboo stems. Here we refer to the image of a handsome and upright man. My handsome and lovable person, will you come tonight?
The lyrics are written very well, "Still thin yellow flower shadows" remind me of the song by Jacky Cheung , "I'll wait until the flowers fade." But "standing thin yellow flower shadow" gives people a pitiful feeling, making people feel pity; while "I wait until the flowers fade" gives people a feeling of despair.
"The slanted moon is sieve by the wind", which describes the graceful bamboo , and can also refer to girls. Everyone in modern times has a mobile phone. When you wait for your girlfriend, you might as well send her a sentence, "The slanting moon is sieged by the wind. The jade man will not come." It is guaranteed that she will be full of joy and apologize.
If your girlfriend is still late next time, it will be useless to post the same sentence. In fact, this song " Shadow of the Wutong·Sunsetting " by the Tang Dynasty poet Lu Dongbin is also good:
Sunsetting slant, the autumn wind is cold.
Old friends come, and they will be able to stand all the shadows of the sycamore tree.
Old friends cannot come, teach people to stand all the shadows of the sycamore
"The setting sun is slanting, the autumn wind is cold", I started waiting since the setting sun sets, the drizzling autumn wind makes people feel a little cold. The word "cold" here is particularly here, which not only highlights the coldness of autumn dusk, but also highlights the poet's sad feelings of missing his friends, and also builds momentum for the following "Tonight" and cleverly conceals the next stroke. "If an old friend comes, I will teach you to stand all the shadows of the sycamore tree", "Standing all the shadows of the sycamore tree", the moon goes up the east building, " Shadow of the sycamore tree " is obviously reflected by the bright moon. The "shadow" is gone, which means that the moon has set and the sky is about to dawn.
You might as well change the last sentence slightly, "If a beauty comes, I will teach you to stand all the shadows of the paulownia tree." There are also complaints, and there are even more poetry and picturesqueness, which is guaranteed to make her feel sick.
If it is a girl waiting for a boy, then the song "Bamboo Branch Song·The Spring Breeze and the Mountain Flowers are Blooming" by the poet Zhu You Stewed is more suitable for you:
The Spring Breeze and the Mountain Flowers are Blooming, and the daughter in the spring shirt is red and apricot cheeks.
Nong's house was rowing across the river, asking if Ah Lang would come.
Nong's house was rowing across the river. In order to ask whether Ah Lang would come, this poem expresses his daughter's tenderness and persistence in love to the fullest. "The spring breeze is blooming all over the mountain, and the daughter of the spring shirt is red and apricot cheeks are red." Now it is the spring breeze is blowing all over the mountain, and the spring flowers are blooming. I am wearing a spring shirt and a beautiful blush like apricots, eagerly looking forward to meeting you. "Nong's family rowed across the river, asking if Alang came." I couldn't wait to see you, so I personally rowed across the river to find you regardless of the shyness of my daughter's family, and asked Alang if you came or not?
, "Nong's family is rowing across the river, asking if Ah Lang is coming." If you give it to a late boy, even if he is a man with iron, it will turn into soft fingers.
is probably the female poet's waiting more unforgettable. The poem "Bodhisattva Man: Who is the correct tea smoke warm" by the female poet Shaoyin in the Republic of China period is also very well written. It expresses the girl's uneasy mood when she is waiting in depth:
For who is the correct tea smoke Wan. The railing is leaning against the Hunan curtain.
several degrees of fees hovering. Will the beauty come or not?
as agreed. I was still suspicious when I saw it.
sparse shadow moon at dusk. Talk about the warmth of flowers.
several degrees of fees hovering. Is the beauty coming?
"Who should I keep the tea smoke warm? The railing is leaning against the Hunan curtain." For your arrival, I have kept the tea cups and tea tables several times, but there are only a few tea smokes on the tea cups, warm and warm. You have not come yet, "The Hunan curtain is rolled up while the railing is leaning against the Hunan curtain." I rolled up the Hunan curtain and leaned on the railing to wait for you. "I lingered for a few times. Will the beauty come?" I waited and couldn't help but feel anxious. I got up and wandered around several times. Are you coming?
"Remember as promised when we parted. I'm still suspicious when I first met." This reminds me of when we parted, and when we met, there was still suspicion. "The sparse shadows are at dusk. Talk about the warmth under the flowers." But under the beautiful moonlight and the sparse shadows of flowers and plants, we talked a lot, and finally we felt that it was so warm under the flowers.
sentence, "The cost is low. The beauty will come," it is suitable whether it is the boy waiting to give it to the girl or the girl waiting to give it to the boy.
Finally, this poem "Welcome to Zheng Bai·Wind orchid dances in the Deep Fragrance" by the Tang Dynasty poet Meng Chi is suitable for girls who are late:
Wind orchid dances in the Deep Fragrance, and the rain leaves fall into the cold drops.
Beauty cannot come, looking at Xi in front of the mountain.
Does the beauty come, the front mountain looks at the sun
Especially this sentence, "The beauty comes, the front mountain looks at the sun", "Towards the sun", "Towards the sun", means evening, dusk. The "beauty" in the original poem refers to a person with noble character. We might as well understand it as, beauty, are you coming? I look up at the mountain now. It’s already sunset. I’ve been waiting for you all day.
