text/Flower Demon Hall
Every woman longs for herself to "sink fish and fall geese" and "shaming flowers to close the moon". After all, this is the best praise for a woman's high-quality appearance.
Women with good-looking appearance are always very popular in society.
As one sentence says: "A woman's high-quality appearance plus any skill is a king."
But in fact, there is another sentence in this sentence: "If a woman only has appearance, then she can only be regarded as a vase."
We always think that a woman's appearance is extremely important. It is true, but what really determines a woman's value is actually not appearance, but three habits.
Advanced habits have a huge impact on a person's life, and are also subtle. You may not notice it in the short term, but in the long run, these habits are the key to widening the gap between people.
First: Read thousands of books
A person's life circle has always been limited, and the world you can perceive is always only as little as you see.
But reading is different. Reading can make you know the past history, know the world, and all things...
The life you have not experienced can take you to appreciate. In the book, you will have some insights and can perceive the warmth and coldness. The characters in the book appear vividly in front of your eyes, holding your hand and telling you their stories and world.
What is the meaning of reading? The elders said that reading is to change their destiny, and in their opinion, reading is simply for future development and financial benefits.
But in fact, the real purpose of reading is to broaden our horizons and not restrict our thoughts when we encounter problems. Books are the answers to solve problems and the key to expanding ideas.
A woman who has never read a book may live step by step, choose to compromise for her family, and walk according to secular rules all her life. They seem to be free, but in fact they are little birds blocked in cages.
When they are at school, when they are at marriage, when they are at marriage, they are like walking dead, never live for themselves.
But a woman who has read books is different. They see the vast world and are no longer bound by the current life. They want to live for themselves and do what they want to do without fear of worldly perspectives.
In the eyes of others, this may become behaviors such as "unfilial" and "ignorance", but only they know that is the freedom to truly break through the cage.
They have their own value, not dolls at the mercy of others.
Second: Travel thousands of miles
Ancient people said: "Talking about war on paper will always be shallow, and you must practice it yourself."
If reading thousands of books is to reserve strength for yourself, then traveling thousands of miles is to let your own strength explode.
In this society, people are always impatient, they are arrogant and unwilling to act, and are always waiting for an opportunity to "fall pie from the sky".
Obviously, this behavior is like having strength but having nowhere to use it, and wasting all your skills.
Remember one sentence: "Action is always better than sitting and waiting for death."
If you don't practice it, you won't find how feasible the plan is, and you won't find how many problems there are in this plan and how to solve it.
Life is rich and colorful because of accidents, and how to solve these accidents is a problem that needs to be considered.
A valuable woman will definitely allow herself to practice more on the basis of theory and improve her self-ability in practice, so as to better achieve her goals.
Third: stick to yourself
A person who always sticks to one thing is amazing, especially when sticking to yourself.
Although the society is open now, many people still follow the ancient feudal ideas in their hearts.
They think women don’t need to have any great skills, they just need to marry well and know how to take care of their husbands and children.
But only those who have experienced such a life know how tormenting that life is.
A woman who has no independent ability and no economic foundation will be inferior to her own whatever she does, even if she really gives a lot to her family.
So more and more women are unwilling to get married easily or have children easily. It is not because they are unwilling to have children, but because they have experienced a bad life, so they do not want their children to repeat the same mistakes. This is a manifestation of responsibility from another perspective.
Whether a woman is valuable should not look at her appearance or whether she can pass on her family line. Instead, she should look at whether she has a rich cultural heritage, whether she is willing to take action, and whether she can stick to herself.
In today's society, those women who truly live happily have their own set of principles. They always understand: "Flowers fall and bloom, butterflies come."
Women are also independent individuals. They should not be prescribed for whom they are born to live. They have their own value, so they always try so hard to prove it.
Life should be diverse, I hope all women can find their own light.
