My wife and I have been married for 8 years, and my son is 7 years old. When we first got married, we had a good relationship. Later, for a while, I had a lot of social engagements, so she quarreled with me. I was too lazy to argue with her, so I had a cold war with her. Gradually, my wife became sexually frigid and she had fewer needs. I didn’t force her. It was only once or twice a month. The rest of the time I wanted to satisfy myself. Sometimes I feel quite wronged, but when I think about it, I am a big man, I can't force her. But I accidentally found that my wife actually had a backup mobile phone card and sent a text message to her lover. The man also has a family and wants to divorce and marry her, but my wife said she didn't think it was done.
Although I knew all this, I was trembling inside, but I did not expose her. Because I want her to admit her mistakes on her own initiative. If she gives up this opportunity to admit her mistakes on her own initiative, our marriage will come to an end. But for several days, after my indirect attacks, she still did not take the initiative to explain. I drafted a divorce agreement , and she cried when she asked her to sign it, and she said she had never thought about divorced me. I said I can give you money and a big house. My son and I live in a two-bedroom house I am renting. My son must belong to me. I don’t want my son to call him someone else’s father.
My wife saw that I was determined to leave, and was very unstable. She ran to the windowsill and sat down, saying that she was very tired and didn't want to live anymore. I was afraid that she wouldn't be able to think so I called my sister-in-law over because I didn't want my father-in-law and mother-in-law to worry, but my sister-in-law is a young man, has a strong ability to accept and can comfort my wife's emotions. I sent my son to a good friend's house. My wife and I talked about divorce at home. Anyway, she cried when we talked about divorce. She said she was just confused for a while. She loved this family, and she could not leave this family, and she could not leave me and my son. My sister-in-law also advised me to forgive her sister, but I said I couldn't do it.
I didn’t expect that my sister-in-law went out for a long time on excuses, and when she came back, she actually took out a printed piece of paper, which was the booking record of my ID card. While her sister was not paying attention, I threw a word to me, "Take it! Don't think my sister is easy to bully. I didn't expose you before. It's because my sister loves you, and I don't want my nephew to lose a complete family. If you dare to divorce her now, don't think of taking my eldest nephew away. We will accompany you to the end if you want to sue. "My sister-in-law also told me that her sister had asked her to check me a long time ago, but my sister-in-law was afraid that our family would have conflicts and not tell her the truth. She used to just tell me to treat my wife well and not to be stubborn.
I instantly collapsed! The reason for these booking records is that my wife only gave me twice a month. I can't force her, but I also have needs. For a while, because of the influence of my friends around me, I also started looking for women, but I was with them purely to solve my physical needs and had no feelings at all. Besides, I had already broken up with those bad women. But I know that my sister-in-law is studying law and has made some lawyer friends. I am afraid that divorce will not be good for me. But is there still a need to continue with such a useless marriage now?
