Text: March of the year,
Picture: From the Internet
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A person's behavior is often the most realistic manifestation deep in a person's heart.
True love can be expressed through a person's behavior.
Similarly, if you change your mind about a person and have the intention of not loving you, your behavior will be very obvious.
At the beginning, they may also take into account some affection, barely maintain a superficial relationship, and will not do anything excessive.
But even so, the idea of leaving has already taken root in the heart, and that heart that does not love may burst out hurtful words at any time.
can't get close to her, and can't get along with someone you don't love day and night, especially when you have physical contact with her, you will subconsciously disgust and unconsciously reject it.
Gradually, I had the urge to quickly escape from this relationship, but I didn't want to show it too clearly, so I could only give hints to the other party through some behaviors.
For example, men usually take a change in their attitude, deliberately neglecting, provoking conflicts, and breaking off connections for a long time to make women think randomly, hoping that she can take the initiative to end the relationship.
Unfortunately, many women cannot guess the man’s thoughts and cannot understand the meaning of these behaviors of men. They are still defending men stupidly and looking for reasons in themselves.
In fact, a person who doesn’t love you suddenly neglects you and breaks up with you intentionally or unintentionally is not a temporary idea, but a long plan. Men's "abnormal" behaviors like the following are evidence that they do not love you, so don't misunderstand.
You must know that love cannot be hidden, and it is also true that it is not. Only someone who doesn’t love you will hurt you cruelly, and you will push the blame to get out of your own.
lied to you and did not discuss anything with you
Really love someone, in addition to trusting the other person unconditionally, he will also regard the other person as the closest person and give sincerity, and will not hide or deceive anything he does.
However, if a person does not love you, or feels tired of your relationship, he has made plans in his heart to terminate a relationship or marriage with you.
His attitude towards you will change greatly. In the past, he would tell you in advance no matter what he did. Sometimes he would not make up his mind and discuss with you and listen to your opinions.
But now, no matter what he does, he will feel that it has nothing to do with you. He will subconsciously exclude you and treat you as an outsider.
The most obvious point is that you find that he started lying to you. For example, he got off work very early today but went home very late. When you ask him the reason, he said that the workload was too high and the boss asked him to work overtime. After
, you accidentally discovered some clues or obtained some evidence, and you realized that he did not really work overtime that day, but went out to drink and chat with some friends.
You don’t understand why he lies, so he can only question him in person, but the answer you get is often: “You have to care about everything, are you upset?”
shows that a person often lies to you, not for your own good, nor for deliberately concealing it. He just treats you as an irrelevant person. He simply does not want to tell you the truth, which is a disregard for you.
Don’t reply to your message, pretend that you didn’t see
There is a very popular saying on the Internet that says this: Those who love you reply to messages are in seconds; those who don’t love you reply to messages are in cycles.
It is true that those who truly love you will always put you in the most important position. No matter where you are, he will care about you and miss you.
Especially whenever you chat with you, a warm current will always arouse in his heart, and he will feel from the bottom of his heart that he is very happy with you.
Furthermore, he will take the moments of chatting with you seriously, reply to your messages without distraction, and share your thoughts with you.
However, someone who doesn't really love you often cannot do this. In his opinion, it doesn't matter whether you reply to your message in time.
Because you have never taken you to heart, or have long since stopped loving you, so no matter how you think, whether you are disappointed or sad, it has nothing to do with him, and he will not care about it.
Sometimes, if you miss him very much, you will always unconsciously send him a large passage to express your lovesickness.
But it either gave you some perfunctory replies for a long time, or pretended not to see it and chose to ignore and delete it directly.
A man treats you like this, you must understand that his love for you has long disappeared. Now he is still willing to maintain this precarious relationship with you. It does not mean that he still has true feelings for you. He just wants to make you notice his abnormality by neglecting you and leave on his own initiative.
Does a man really love you? His words may deceive you, but his behavior cannot deceive others.
If a man is often hot and cold to you, making it impossible for you to be sure of his feelings for you, just see if he is sincere to you and whether he is attentive.
If a person always deceives you and doesn’t have a truth to you, it is obvious that he doesn’t really love you. If a person always ignores you and does not reply to your message in time, he will still look indifferent afterwards, and obviously he doesn't take you in his heart.
May you meet the person who truly loves you.
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years old, March: a long-termist who loves words, coexisting rationality and sensibility. If you like my article, please feel free to interact with me in the comment section~
