You can't be too involved in surfing on the Internet, otherwise you will easily get angry if you feel substituted.
The last time I got angry with me was a post I saw on a local forum in Shanghai. It's not a bloody story, it just makes people think.
posts are the couple who are middle-aged, and they are ordinary people who make a living by their abilities and strength. The men are workers in state-owned steel mills, and the women are nurses. The monthly salary of both of them is more than 10,000 yuan. Hard work is hard, and stability is really stable. No matter how bad the environment is and the economy is in a recession, they can make a living.
It was a good family, but recently the post owner's husband started to make trouble.
The man is 46 years old. Recently, he suddenly proposed to quit and resign, saying, "Life is not as short as possible." He firmly believed that the property market would definitely fall in the future, so he had to sell the house with a price of about 10 million in the inner ring of his home, and rent a house to live in. He also asked his wife to resign with him, and go out to play while he was young, and wait for the house prices to fall in the future, and then spend money to buy the house back.
Speaking of this, some readers will think that the couple is dink , and they can eat it all and make up for it. Actually, it’s not. They also have a son who is in junior high school.
According to the poster, her husband's idea is this:
First, he is really tired from work, and his lumbar disc herniation. He has always been afraid that the money is still there and the person is gone, so he always wants to retire early and realize financial freedom in middle age.
Second, men are firmly bearish on the property market, and always feel that everyone is drunk and I am awake, wanting to experience the stimulation of a prophet.
Third, men are arrogant and have a strong desire to control. He didn't want to do it anymore, nor did he want his wife to support the family, so he made up his mind to sell the house and urged his wife to resign. The two of them lie down together so that he could continue to control the family's voice.
Fourth, this is also the most hateful point. I have a son who is in junior high school at home. According to the normal idea of Shanghai people, the only one should not be sold for the only self-occupied house, but also should find another way to get a set for his son to get married. But this father did not receive funding from his parents when he got married, so he was unwilling to contribute too much to his son.
And men have a thought that they are not very able to see the light. The man also has a younger brother, who was the last one who was stuck in 's one-child policy, but his wife, that is, the owner of this post, is an only child, and his parents are very old. The man thought that when his father-in-law and mother-in-law traveled to the west in the future, their own housing would be left to his grandson, so he dared to be a "bottom-up coffin" and did not mercy when selling his own housing.
The junior high school student in the Magic City is already very sensible. When the son learned about his father’s thoughts, he also vaguely advised him: Dad, I heard that men will only succeed after the age of 40 and achieve success and fame. Why are you retired now?
The father sneered: What kind of career can my job be considered?
Here we first give a little explanation for the property worth tens of millions of dollars. Some friends from other places may doubt that how can a person with a monthly income of more than 20,000 yuan own a property worth tens of millions?
is like this. Old Shanghai people have experienced a wave of rising real estate benefits. Although the housing prices in Shanghai now start at 100,000 yuan, they also rose from 2,000 yuan back then. Especially employees of such large state-owned enterprises, they thought that the company's welfare benefits were super good back then, and experienced more welfare housing distribution. If they started early, they would be completely possible to buy the old and dilapidated city center.
But it is too natural to post the master’s husband. In his life, he has encountered one wind vent at most. He still wants to be blown up in mid-air, or he encounters a tornado. Once families like them sell their house, they will basically say "bye" to the current level forever.
Make a house by luck, and will eventually be lost due to strength.
doesn’t mean that you can’t lie flat at the age of 46. Who has never thought about lie flat in this life? Not to mention such workers who have worked hard for half their lives, even ordinary people will inevitably not want to go to work for seven days a week.
However, if you lie flat, you will have a flat posture. If you lie down poorly, it will leave you with many future problems. Like the poster husband, there are many ways to choose from, all of which are stable.For example, he can go to the hospital to check for lumbar disc herniation, then prescribe long sick leave , or do an internal withdrawal. Finding a job is not easy now. Resigning is equivalent to smashing a job with your own hands, which is too impulsive.
Secondly, he doesn’t have to sell a house. If you want to experience renting a house, you can rent the house in the city center and rent a small house in the outer ring road. It’s also good for the middlemen to make a difference. If you are not satisfied, you can save millions of dollars by selling a big house to a new community that is farther away.
lying flat, you can choose to lie on the Simmons bed, lie on the sofa, or even on the floor. Why do you need to learn from Xiaolongnu to lie on the wire rope?
is still too selfish and only consider yourself. He thought 10 million was a huge sum of money, not to mention whether it was huge or not. Whether this money could be supported until his old age or not was a question. Back then, tens of thousands of yuan households also felt that they could live a lifetime by relying on interest.
If a son like him grows up in the future, he will learn to cry.
There are quite a lot of men who have this kind of thoughts and ideas. I remember in 2015 I worked in a software company. My colleagues were all programmers and , and my income was pretty good. A colleague was about to get married, and complained in the office every day that his girlfriend had long hair and short knowledge, so she had to buy a house before she could get married. At that time, the money he had was enough for the down payment, but he was firmly bearish on the property market.
htmlIn 2015, the housing prices in Shanghai were already rising, and the stock market was rising even harder. His money was all in the stock market. He was showing off with his colleagues every day that it rose a few more points today. It was harder to ask him to take out the money from the stock market to buy a house than to cut his meat. Everyone knows the story later. In 2015, the market value evaporated almost half overnight. He didn't know how much his money had dropped, but the previous increase was so fierce, and he also added leverage , which was at least half of it. The housing market in Shanghai took off directly in 2016.Later I heard that he got married and bought a house by paying money from his father-in-law. Even so, he lost at least one single room than a house that could afford in 2015.
I have several friends who want to buy a school district house for children to study, but they have been obstructed by my husband to varying degrees. In the end, some people bought it, some did not. It also includes the school district house that the man disagreed because the woman sold her house before marriage and asked her parents for the money to replace it. The man didn't give anything and even spoke sarcastic words throughout the whole process.
The meaning of a house to men and women seems to be completely different. For a man, a house is the asset in his hands, no different from the balance in his stock account. You can see when you look at men's stock trading. You can buy it after selling and buying, and you are always hesitating whether to hold the currency or the stock.
Some men regard houses as consumer goods, similar to clothes and pants bags. They think that houses are the place to sleep, and there is no need to spend too much money on them.
Women are different. A house is a woman’s sense of security and a trump card held by a woman. She will never play it unless she has to. If a woman sells a house, it is probably for a bigger one.
House is a property shared by the whole family and can also be left to the next generation. Women are keen on houses. From the side, women tend to contribute to their families. Men think more about themselves and would rather sacrifice the interests of their whole family and sell their houses to attract future housing prices.
Therefore, there are jokes that the housing prices in Shanghai are pushed up by the mother-in-law and wife. You can’t listen to your husband when buying a house, as soon as you hear it, the whole play ends.
Finally, it is really not wise to sell the house and hold a lot of money in your hands. Compared to a house, money is too easy to waste. Relatives and friends know that you don’t borrow money from you, who will borrow money from? Not borrowing money hurts your relationship, and borrowing money hurts your money.
And at present, we ordinary people really don’t have any suitable investment channels. It’s not easy to earn some interest. There are projects that are staring at your capital everywhere. A house may not be the best choice, but it must not be the worst choice.
I hope her husband can wake up. As a human being, if it wasn't for the time of reincarnation, it would be difficult to lie down comfortably.
