As the saying goes: You raise me and I will accompany you in your old age.
The traditional filial piety is to raise children to prevent old age. Although people cannot rely entirely on their children when they are old, at least in the concept of children, they must always keep in mind the kindness of raising their parents.
When parents are old and physically weak and have difficulty moving, as children, no matter how difficult their life is, they must put their parents' care first. Only by arranging your parents well can you feel at ease, live in harmony, and make money in harmony.
In some families, parents raise 5 or even 6 children, but when their parents are old and need their children's care, they push me and I push you between them, treating their parents as a burden that cannot be removed, which is really sad.
saw a video:
An old mother, who has been in her 90s in her life, raised 3 children and 3 daughters in her life, but at the age of being unable to take care of herself, she usually only has the second daughter and the younger son who come to see her mother. The eldest daughter has always had a grudge against her mother and doesn't even talk to her mother, let alone come to see her mother. What's more, the other two sons never show up, which makes the second daughter and the younger son have a lot of conflicts. The six siblings have many conflicts and the relationship is very tense.
The second daughter and youngest son think that their mother belong to everyone and six people should take turns to take care of them. Now they are the only two of them in charge of their mothers, and they feel very unbalanced.
So, they asked others to be responsible, and in the end, everyone discussed that they would sell their mother's house and send their mother to a nursing home.
The old mother learned the news and refused to go to the nursing home. She said she would rather beg for food than go to the nursing home and would not go to the nursing home if she starved to death.
She begged her second daughter and youngest son, saying that she would just sleep with her at night and she would be at home during the day and drink water. She promised not to cause trouble for them.
But these two children think that there is still something going on in their family, so they can’t stand it if they spend time with their old mother every night, so they found the local mediation department.
The mediator came to learn about the situation and believed that the children did not have the right to force the house of the old mother, and the old mother was unwilling to go to the nursing home. As a child, he should respect his mother's choice.
As for the old mother's request that someone should be there at night, considering that the ideological work of other children has not been done for the time being, the regulator suggested that a nanny should take care of the old mother during the day, and the expenses should be shared by 6 people. At night, the second daughter and the younger son will take turns to accompany him...
After watching this video, I was really crying. Why did the mother raise six children alone? Now that the mother is old, the six children can’t take care of one mother?
Someone said: children do not teach, but the father's mistake . These children are not grateful because the mother has not been well educated since childhood, or because her mother is biased.
But, my mother gave you life, raised you into adults, started a family for you, helped you take care of your children... I was worried.
As children, shouldn’t you be grateful? Why bother with the elderly? Everyone has a day old, and the old mother's today is the tomorrow of their children. What example does such children without filial piety set for their own descendants?
If the elderly’s grandchildren see their parents treating the elderly like this, will they follow the same way and treat their parents like this in the future?
Personal teaching is better than preaching. If you want to be able to enjoy family happiness in the future, treat your mother well now.The mother and her children are connected by blood. What deep hatred can they have? Let these children treat her with indifference and hatred in the old age. Her mother is in her 90s, so what else can she not let go of?
says that has an old family, such as . The elderly are the Feng Shui of the family. Taking good care of the elderly, the elderly will be healthy and long-lasting, which is the blessing and fortune of their children. The children's family will become more and more prosperous, and the relationship between relatives is harmonious and loving, and the family will be harmonious and prosperous!
Never wait until the mother leaves one day. When the children think of their mother, they regret not treating her well. The taste of "a child wants to support him but a relative is not waiting for him" will accompany you for the rest of your life, and it will be unpleasant.
In fact, family conflicts are inevitable. As children, when the mother is about to finish her life, forget all the unhappiness that has happened and only remember the happy time with her mother.
Life is short, why not live every day happily? !
