: "A man has 41 flowers, and a woman has 40 tofu."
It seems that women always age faster than men. In marriage, women are always on the weak side. Once a divorce occurs, a man can escape unscathed, but a woman is in a state of "unwillingness to accept it" for a long time.
The saddest thing is that some men meet a third party, which breaks the family and women don’t know where to go.
In marriage, women should not be too pessimistic. They should actively lock in their own happiness and be someone who fascinates them for a lifetime.
Sima Nan once said: "I advocate that in marriage, we should also advocate practical reason. We cannot just start from concepts and absolute values to live a marriage described by others."
Love is a romantic castle in the air, and marriage is a real life. Starting from reality, women should improve their cognition and not "long hair and short knowledge".
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Wealth, support the family.
Someone said, "You will never make money beyond cognition."
agrees deeply.
Forty-year-olds, making money is important, but many women think that this is something that men should consider and they should support themselves.
Most men are not rich and cannot afford to support too many "idle people". There are elderly people and children at home to support them. If you add a lazy wife, you will undoubtedly be under a lot of pressure.
When a woman can become a man’s assistant on the road to making money, the situation is very different. Long-term cooperation between husband and wife will form a "irreplaceable" development model. If a man wants to change his marital status, he has to think about it, and he is very timid.
In addition, if your family has money, you can get all the romance you want. Money is the foundation of love, and women should have a sense of this.
The master of the world architecture I.M. Pei , is famous, but he cannot do without his wife Lu Ailing .
Lu Ailing is a graduate student in landscape architecture at Harvard University. She moves side by side with her husband. Once her husband encounters setbacks, she will stand up immediately to make up for her husband's various shortcomings and save the situation.
For example, in 1961, I.M. Pei won the design project of National Atmospheric Research Center , but the design plan has not been approved.
Looking at her sleepy husband, Lu Ailing suggested going out for a walk. The couple went west together and found that there were natives who settled on the cliffs in Colorado.
A special trip made I.M. Pei suddenly realize, found inspiration, and soon had a satisfactory design plan.
The fundamental reason for making money is to "use your brain" rather than doing physical work savagely. Women are soft, but their wisdom is powerful. In this way, I will truly serve as the "half of the sky". The husband around you should also look up to you.
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Exercise and nourish your skin.
After the age of forty, many women have the image of greasy aunts and are inevitably disliked.
If you participate in a class reunion, you will find that women of the same age are completely different in terms of "youngness".
As the saying goes, "Seventh part depends on dressing up, and threeth part depends on appearance."
can dress up your own woman, have a better appearance, and live a more confident life. This is a way to look young.
The real long-term method is to be healthy and have a bright spirit.
Haruki Murakami said: "The body is everyone's temple. No matter what is worshipped inside, it should be kept strong, beautiful and clean."
Good health is the basis for dressing up. A sick woman, applying rouge on her face, may look even more ugly. Husbands will also be troubled by this.
We must be clear that exercise is not a whim, but a perseverance. The fundamental thing about persistence is - hobbies.
exercise with interest, you can persist for the rest of your life and become happier and happier.
Writer Ming Qiancha wrote a story: a girl who works in Beijing likes the bright sky with stars and moons, but she is busy with work and rarely goes outdoors.
I met a boy named Xiao Nan. The two had a good impression of each other, but they did not rise to a relationship.
One evening, Xiao Nan asked a girl to see meteor shower , and said, "The thick clothes at night are all ready."
The girl was embarrassed to refuse. When a meteor appeared in the sky in the middle of the night, the girl realized that it was really beautiful to do something with her hobbies.
An unexpected exercise made the girl turn her hobbies into habits. Go out for a walk at night and look at the stars. The passion for life is ignited, and the physical fitness is improved. The breath of youth is always with you.
finds your favorite exercise, and smiles while exercising. This is the most charm that women should have.
If you don’t like any exercise, you can force yourself to participate in some kind of exercise, develop a good habit, and reflect the benefits of self-discipline. It is also desirable.
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Education, raise children.
The ancients said: "The tiger will not eat the child."
No matter what the relationship between husband and wife is, they have one thing in common--loving their own children.
A visionary woman will find ways to educate her children well and reflect the characteristics of "prospering the three generations". In this way, the man casually said, "This family is thanks to her."
Zhuge Liang during the Three Kingdoms period, was a powerful man and famous all his life, but he never considered changing his wife. According to legend, his wife, Huang Yueying, is an ugly woman.
So, what did Huang Yueying rely on to lock Zhuge Liang's heart? The most real routine is to cultivate children and let the husband go out to work with peace of mind.
Zhuge Liang wrote " Commandments for the Son ", which was circulated by later generations, but how to implement it depends on his wife.
Educating children is not about writing articles, but about teaching by words and deeds.
See that children are getting better and better, and men will be more active when going out to work. After all, the prosperity of the family will be in this way.
On the contrary, those women who are not optimistic about their children will not be favored by their husbands.
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We all say that happiness requires both hands to create.
"Improving cognition" is an indispensable link. Women should stick to the things that make money based on their age and characteristics, and set an example for their children.
There is a saying that if the water is full, the water will overflow, and if the love is full, the loss will be lost.
The older you are and the higher your cognition, the more you will never be satisfied with love and will always be fascinated.
In short, women only attract men's attention when they bring their own light.
Author: Common people eat coarse food.
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