has a catchphrase: "It is a blessing to suffer losses."
thought carefully and this sentence has some truth, but it is not completely correct.
If you don’t care about trivial matters, just forget it if you lose money, and you can give yourself a relaxed and free life. But I have been suffering from losses and the ending will be different.
There are always some people who suffer a lot of losses, but they have not seen the blessing.
Don’t doubt, some people cannot eat "losses", especially when you are in trouble, you should bravely protect your only interests. At least you must be able to eat and live well.
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There is a limit to the loss, don’t bear it again and again.
In "Water Margin", there is a group of heroes who are powerful and enviable.
In fact, there are many small people in it, who are scattered at the bottom of society, and they cannot even solve the problem of food and clothing in life. Yunge is one of them.
In order to make a living, Yun Ge started the business of Sydney, and Ximen Qing is his important customer.
One day, Yun Ge took the pear to the door of Wang Po 's house and wanted to find Ximen Qing. But Wang Po threw away the pear.
In Wang Po's eyes, Sydney is worthless, but for Yun Ge, it is "a few meals." Looking at the snow pear rolling down the street, he felt sad and helpless. This loss makes him hold a grudge.
Next, Yun Ge exposed the personal affair between Ximen Qing and Pan Jinlian to Wu Dalang , and pointed out Wang Po’s evil deeds. When Wu Song returned home, Yun Ge told the situation again.
Later, Wu Song subdued Pan Jinlian and Wu Song, and Yun Ge also became acquainted with Liangshan and no longer worried about three meals a day.
should understand that rabbits will bite people even if they are anxious, let alone a living person?
Swift wrote this sentence in Gulliver's Travels : "If we allow and condone fraud, or there is no corresponding law to sanction it, then honest businessmen will always suffer losses, and rogues will make a lot of profits."
Yun Ge is unwilling to suffer losses at Wang Po's door. This is a just act and a shout from the lower class.
If you are a vendor and someone is here to bully you, why don’t you be angry? For the rich, a stall is not worth mentioning, but for you, this is the "all possessions".
As long as you stand on the side of justice and morality, even if your strength is meager, you must dare to turn against each other. How can we let unethical people always occupy the protagonist position in society?
Chen Sheng , Liu Bang and others rose up under the tyranny of Qin Dynasty because they refused to suffer losses and wanted to make the hard-working people turn over. While being hungry, flattering is a backboneless behavior and is not advisable.
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suffers a loss and pretends to be confused when you understand.
Liu Laolao in " Dream of Red Mansions " is so poor that her family can't bear to lose money, so she went to the Jia family to fight for the autumn wind.
She and the people in the Jia family are distant relatives and have a very average relationship, so they have been ridiculed by them many times. For example, someone put a flower on her head, which made everyone laugh. She didn't blame her, but she laughed.
Isn’t it for the sake of life in the Jia family? As long as she gets the benefits from it, it's fine.
Writer Yishu said: "It is good to be smart if a person is smart. Smart people will not suffer any loss when they see the opportunity, but you don't need to let people all over the world know that you are a smart person."
A colleague of mine, Xiao Liang, was very active when he first came to work. His job is to provide reception services, but he often goes to the technical department to help. Whenever the technical department works overtime, he will always be present.
The boss of the technical department regards him as his "his own person".
After two years of working, Xiaoliang was adjusted to be the office director of the technical department. It is obvious that his "loss" and his goal is obvious.
As a young man, if you want to gain a foothold in the workplace, you have to have a period of time to hone yourself.
To put it bluntly, the losses you suffered today are the blessings in your job tomorrow.
is also about working and socializing, but someone is smarter than you and gets more benefits. You should reflect on yourself, not simply accompany others to eat and drink, and consider "what benefits will be brought after treating guests."
For example, you invite a boss to dinner to enhance your relationship and lay the foundation for future promotion and salary increase; you work overtime steadily to learn technology; you learn to bow your head to resolve conflicts between people.
suffers, never being controlled by others, living like a soft persimmon, you must understand what you are doing and what the consequences will be.
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There are times when you suffer, don’t turn over for the rest of your life.
Good life is bitter first and then sweet. How can you be as bitter as Coptis chinensis for the rest of your life?
The prime minister of the Tang Dynasty yuan When he first joined the company, he met the eunuch Yu Chaoen and was ridiculed many times. Yuan Zai remained silent because he knew that his strength was not as good as Yu Chaoen.
Several years later, Yuan Zai tripped Yu Chaoen with the help of Emperor Daizong of Tang Dynasty, and his life really began to rise.
Wei Gao , bid farewell to his wife, participated in the scientific expedition, and joined the army. After more than ten years of hardship, he reached the position of governor and then met his wife.
Life should be as entrepreneur Niu Gensheng said: "When you suffer losses and you can't get better, you won't suffer losses. If you suffer more, you will be more sweet."
When I was a teenager, I studied hard for more than ten years, in order to seek a better job in the future; in society, after suffering the hardship of entrepreneurship, I will eventually usher in the joy of success; middle-aged people, after suffering the hardship of having no money, I will cherish money even more.
Thirty years Hedong, Thirty years Hexi . If Hedong is very hard, then you should try to set out towards Hexi and don’t stay still.
Li Ka-shing also said: "It is actually very easy for one person to win another, that is to learn to suffer losses."
It is obvious that suffering losses are to surpass yourself and others, rather than to be depressed. Give yourself a deadline and accumulate strength.
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" Yijing " says: "Light enters the earth and brightens the barbarians. A gentleman uses darkness to make it clear."
When the light falls into the ground, it will become dim. Next, we must find a way to manage ourselves and the people around us so that the light can rise again.
The original intention of suffering is to hide your own light, wait for an opportunity to move, and finally live as a sunny person.
As an ordinary person, you must choose to suffer losses and have a good meal.
Author: Common people eat coarse food.
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