If a man marrys a thrifty and virtuous wife, then this man will have good luck, but if a woman's family gives her a lazy and unpromising man, then this woman will be unfortunate. Under the influence of love hormones, many women will misunderstand when choosing a partner, which leads to their unsatisfactory life after marriage. However, since they follow their own hearts when they get married, they should also choose a better lifestyle for themselves when they are not satisfied. Don’t bind yourself for the sake of others’ vision and worldly frameworks. Each of us is free.
In our own lives, we all have wrong decisions, and some of these mistakes are not painful, while others will exhaust us both physically and mentally. Xiaofang is a strong and hardworking woman. For the daily expenses of the family and to live a good life in the future, Xiaofang worked part-time four jobs alone, while Xiaofang's husband is a "waste" man who is lazy and unprofitable. Xiaofang felt bitter and complained about her husband, but she regretted more about her regret, regretting why she didn't highlight her eyes and married her without seeing her husband clearly.
Time went back two years ago. When Xiaofang was still a young girl, during a team building of the company, Xiaofang met her future husband Xiaolong. It was said that the two of them had good appearances and were young people of the same age, so they exchanged contact information when they first met. In the days that followed, Xiaolong also paid more attention to Xiaofang. After all, there were too few girls in the company that met the conditions, and Xiaofang also took care of Xiaolong because she saw that Xiaolong was handsome and tall. The two were determined to get to know each other, so they soon made an appointment to have a meal together. During the meal, in order to leave a good impression on Xiaofang, Xiaolong played his own good talkative characteristics. Xiaofang was not disgusted with Xiaolong's talk. The two kept chatting while eating, and at this time they had a preliminary understanding of each other.
After dinner, because it was getting late, Xiaolong proposed to send Xiaofang home. Xiaofang hesitated for a while and agreed. This is undoubtedly sending Xiaolong a signal that he is not disgusted with Xiaolong. So Xiaolong showed great attentiveness to Xiaofang in the following days. Gradually, Xiaofang had a certain affection for this man.
Once a woman has a good impression of a man, then the man's pursuit will follow, and Xiaolong has a passionate pursuit of Xiaofang. And Xiaofang also did not reject Xiaolong's enthusiasm. Soon, the two decided to have a relationship after a meal. After confirming the relationship, Xiaolong was even better with Xiaofang and wanted to stick to Xiaofang every day, and Xiaofang's feelings for Xiaolong became deeper and deeper. But because both parties want to present their best side to each other in love. So Xiaofang did not see clearly what kind of person Xiaolong was. She just thought that the other party was good enough to him. Even if there were shortcomings, she could ignore them.
As time goes by, the relationship between the two is getting better and better. Xiaolong is not willing to satisfy his lover's relationship, so he proposed to Xiaofang that he wants to get married. Xiaofang was also quite conflicted about Xiaolong's thoughts. After all, she didn't know Xiaolong enough, but out of love for Xiaolong, she agreed to get married.
The wedding date is soon reached. The relatives and friends of the two blessed the couple, but on the eve of the marriage, Xiaofang's parents also reminded Xiaofang that even if she likes each other, she should know more thoroughly before deciding to get married. But Xiaofang was full of Xiaolong at this time, so how could she listen to the advice from others? The two got married soon.
Life after marriage is not simply supported by liking, it requires food, food, food, salt and trivial matters. My husband threw these questions to Xiaofang. Although Xiaofang felt a little tired, she also felt that this was the responsibility her wife should have. Although there are some minor flaws, their newly married life is pretty good. But the good times didn't last long, and Xiaolong was fired by the company because of a mistake. Now, the expenses of the two of them are all supported by Xiaofang alone.Many problems arise when people are idle. As time goes by, Xiaolong does not go out to find a job, and his expenses become more and more expensive. At this time, Xiaofang's salary was not enough for the two of them. But her husband was unwilling to go out to work, so he stayed at home all day and had to continue his life, so Xiaofang found a part-time job to do it.
But how can Xiaofang, a weak woman, earn money, withstand the expenses of a family of two? Moreover, Xiaolong does not make money and spends more and more. Soon the funds became tight. Xiaofang also felt helpless and could only continue to work part-time. At this time, Xiaofang would have to work four jobs tomorrow to live a normal life. Xiaofang also felt aggrieved and helpless about her husband's behavior of not making money and only knowing how to spend money. Slowly, the couple started to quarrel and had a cold war. But no matter how much she said or how she quarreled, her husband refused to change and was still lazy. Xiaofang became haggard because of four jobs, and her complaints about her husband became increasingly fierce. During another quarrel, Xiaofang was completely disappointed with her husband, so she simply divorced.
After divorce, Xiaofang felt that she was really stupid. Why didn’t she listen to her parents’ advice to understand each other well and then get married again? This made her so tired and worked four jobs, but in the end she ended up with a divorce. Fortunately, Xiaofang left early and later returned to life alone, she only retained one part-time job to increase her income, and did not do the rest. People also become energetic. Xiaolong was getting worse and worse because he was lazy and ate his parents and waited for death.
Although Xiaofang left early, this marriage also had a great impact on Xiaofang. Therefore, when choosing a partner, we must keep our eyes open and look carefully. Never ruin our youth because of any shortcomings after marriage. No matter how much you like, you live a life not just by liking it.
