In life, you will always face all kinds of troubles and confusions, and doubts are one of them.
Although it does not give a fatal blow to people like a disaster, it is also like being bitten by mosquitoes or fleas, making people feel uncomfortable all over.
Faced with doubts on the road of growth, is it a trap of self-doubt and self-negation, or is it firm in confidence and move forward step by step, reflecting a person's quality and cultivation.
Awesome people are more accustomed to proving themselves with success.
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My friend Xiao Ye once talked about her experience when she first joined the company:
At that time, she had just graduated from university and was assigned to a county middle school to teach two mathematics classes in the first grade of junior high school.
There are ten parallel classes in each grade, and the teachers in the other eight classes are full of experienced senior teachers, so parents in both classes are skeptical about her, a fledgling college student, who come to teach.
What impressed the most was that at the first meeting with parents, she spoke passionately on it, but the parents were whispering below, clearly showing distrust of her.
But she did not directly defend anything, but decided to speak with her grades.
Next, she focused on three aspects of work:
First, she focused on classroom teaching, took advantage of her youth, and brought relationships with students, so that students could acquire knowledge in a relaxed atmosphere;
followed by precise teaching, putting forward different requirements for students of different levels;
Finally, it was personalized to consolidate, allowing each student to summarize the mistakes they often made.
After a period of exploration and practice, the children's grades have steadily increased. By the end of the second semester, the grades of both classes have been greatly improved.
Parents no longer question her teaching ability, and parents even expressed their gratitude in person: "It is a lifelong luck for children to meet a good teacher like you!"
In fact, sometimes being questioned by is not a bad thing. It can quickly stimulate our inner potential and let ourselves run forward as quickly as possible, so as to quickly pass the darkest moment of life and usher in the dawn of dawn .
is not scary to be questioned, what is scary is the stalemate when questioned.
People with strong hearts and strong sense of self-identity can look at and accept themselves rationally, not influenced by the voices of the outside world, strive for progress, be proactive, and finally break the doubts with success and gain recognition.
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One of my leaders, Manager Wu, is from , Sichuan . When he was just promoted to a leader, he couldn't even say Mandarin . He was nervous when he spoke during the meeting. He was also often questioned by leaders of other departments because of his accent and expression.
Some people even suggested replacing him, because it was too difficult to listen to him.
Manager Wu just smiled slightly after knowing it, not annoyed because he knew it was his weakness.
In order to make up for this defect, he practiced in front of the mirror whenever he had time, correcting it bit by bit from lip shape to pronunciation.
His mother has a vegetable garden where radish , loofah, eggplant and various vegetables are planted. When he has nothing to do, he will go to help with it and "she hold a meeting" for them.
Gradually, his Mandarin is getting better and better, and no one has raised the question of accent that was once questioned. When
was questioned, was it a tit-for-tat response or disregarding it and continuing to focus on what they wanted to do, and the results were very different.
People with great ambitions will regard doubts as whetstones on the road to growth and let themselves move forward; treat doubts as golden words, constantly motivate and motivate themselves, and ultimately allow themselves to grow rapidly and successfully break the deadlock.
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曾读到这样一句话：
你跑得快，耳边都是风声；你跑得慢，耳边自然是闲言碎语。
Sometimes, those so-called doubts are just a few clouds in the sky, a cloud of fog on the road ahead, and the clouds will immediately clear and dissipate after being illuminated by the light of success.
Really wise people know how to control their emotions, not be influenced by the voices of doubt around them, focus on doing their own things, and finally prove themselves with success.
Variety show " The Son of Tomorrow " says: we can be questioned, but we must believe in ourselves.
Everyone may be more or less questioned from the outside world on the road of growth. The attitude when facing doubts determines how far you can go.
A powerful person chooses to believe in himself, be silent and forbear, focus on doing his own things, and finally break the doubts with strong strength and achievements, prove himself, and be recognized.
I hope you will still have the courage to break the deadlock even if you are struggling with pain; even if you encounter doubts, you will still go all the way.
together encourage.
Author profile: Yunshu, a multi-platform contributor, heals life with words, and relies on reading to fight uncertainty. Practice hard just to meet a better self.
