People who have lived for half their lives (born in 1985) have never understood it. What exactly causes this? Sometimes I also ask myself why I live like this. But I really can't change my current situation!
Birth, physical defects, negative mentality and unstable mood, etc. are things that cannot be changed. But these things that cannot be changed will destroy a person's foothold in society and change his confidence. The country is easy to change, but the nature is difficult to change. Planting melons gets melons, and planting beans gets beans. I have lived so old that I always see through the human feelings in this world.
If you have a low income, no social status, and physical defects (my body has defects, it is a prosthetic limb with a left calf. It has been five years since it was a prosthetic limb with a 2018), relatives, friends, neighbors and others will leave you and even look down on your family. This is due to human nature. Most people think that people are poor and afraid of being rich. If you are not capable, your relatives, friends and neighbors will be sarcastic and even stay away from you. If you are too incompetent, don’t blame your relatives, friends and neighbors for being far away and irresponsible.
Change yourself to realize your life value regardless of the age or age. I'm the one who knows it late. All the past time has been wasted, this is because I am too ignorant. Another most serious problem is that your mentality and mood are particularly bad and you are prone to taking extreme paths. I once thought about committing suicide, and I once thought about going to be a monk in the temple. In short, I can't control my mentality, emotions, thought values and other aspects, so I've been spinning around in circles.
Change yourself and realize your life value, you must start from today. Only by living a good present can you look at the long term.
Although I have not achieved any achievements or gains along the way, I will not give up my long-term pursuit of the value of life. I will keep my relatives, friends and neighbors away from each other as the source of motivation to change myself and realize my life value.
People’s lives are limited, and time is infinite. The fundamental problem is that I am too ignorant. The fundamental problem in society is that many people are frowning every day and rely on physical strength to make money every day is that they are ignorant and unable to control their own mentality and emotions.
Prime Minister can hold a boat in his stomach . A person is based between heaven and earth, and having a positive and optimistic attitude and stable emotions is the key move that determines a person's success or failure. In the long years of my life, I have never realized that I have to adjust my mentality and emotions based on society to realize my life value. I just know that I am frowning every day and don’t try to change my actual problems at all.
makes you frown every day, and it has no effect on changing your destiny, life and family. Instead, it will make your situation more passive. This year, starting from March 1, 2022, I fell in love with studying and reading. In the past, I didn't like studying and reading. So in society, there are walls everywhere.
People must handle their own affairs, social affairs, natural affairs and family affairs well. Since 2022, I have gradually fallen in love with studying and reading. I have read some books on psychology, success, philosophy, etc., which have integrated my mentality, emotions, thoughts, values, etc.
Everyone's age of awakening and enlightenment is different. Some people awaken and enlightenment earlier, while others awaken and enlightenment later. There is another type of person who is not awakened and enlightened until his death. There are many people like this.
I am the helm of the value of my life. There are many things I need to do if I want to leave my name in the world in my lifetime. Reading and writing books is a particularly meaningful and valuable thing. After entering the new era of modernization, there are many categories of industry work.
Learning and reading can change a person's destiny and value, and it must be gradually expanded by point and surface, and it is to learn and apply it carefully.Focus on reading some books on mentality, emotions, thought values, etc., and firmly adhere to the one-hour law. Reading thousands of books is worse than traveling thousands of miles, traveling thousands of miles is worse than reading countless people, and reading countless people is worse than learning famous teachers. Only continuous input can be continuously output, especially for those who rely on writing as a living.
The learning and exploration of the life path is endless. You must lead yourself with the principles of positive attitude, emotion, stability, long-term value, and correctness. Tao gives birth to one, one gives birth to two, two gives birth to three, and three gives birth to all things. No matter how old you are, no matter whether your body is normal or defective, this is not an obstacle to your realization of your life value but a motivation.
Own own way must be combined with the way of the country, which is called following the trend.
