In this world, there are many happy marriages.
The so-called happy marriage is like water, flowing slowly, and you can experience unparalleled beauty and warmth in your ordinary life.
Happy marriages are all similar. Through research on thousands of couples, it was found that those happy and long-lasting marriages have commonalities, that is, they all resonate with the same frequency. The same frequency resonance here in
is expressed in easy-to-understand words, which is actually a match.
The importance of a good match for marriage is self-evident. This is a truth that everyone who has experienced marriage understands.
Couples with equal matches can pass the running-in period faster
TV series " Golden Fen Family " Leng Qingqiu was born slightly cold, while Jin Yanxi is a complete rich second generation and has never worried about money.
Jin Yanxi was surprised by the cold and unrestrained beauty of Lengqingqiu. Lengqingqiu was also addicted to Jin Yanxi's wealth and sugar-coated shells. In this way, the two of them were united.
A person's way of thinking and living habits have been formed over the past few decades and will not change within a day or a night.
Jin Yanxi is used to being extravagant. Even after getting married, she still retains her habit of spending money and making a fortune. Leng Qingqiu is a person who has been through hard days. She hopes that Jin Yanxi can be more frugal and live a good life.
So, Leng Qingqiu was dissatisfied with Jin Yanxi spending uncontrollable money, and Jin Yanxi was dissatisfied with Leng Qingqiu's care for herself, and she was too petty.
The estrangement arises, but it cannot be compensated. The relationship between the two gradually disappears and slowly moves towards tragedy.
This shows the importance of being a good match, and it is more reflected in each other's consumption concept and the use of money.
Some people have wealthy families and think that money is for serving themselves and to make themselves happy;
Some people have poor families and think money is hard-earned, so they need to save a little.
None of them are wrong with two people like html, they just have different aspirations. If such two people are combined together, their marriage will not be happy.
Therefore, two people with the same consumption concept must avoid some unnecessary running-in.
Couples with equal status can get along more harmoniously
Why can couples with equal status can get along more harmoniously?
Because the family conditions of the two people are similar, their living environments since childhood are no different, and their views on many things will coincide.
Cai Kangyong When participating in the variety show " Talk of Strange Tales ", he expressed his views on the importance of a good match for marriage.
He said that the equal matches in his impression include many fields such as his own educational class and cultural background.
Those couples with different families and different social circles will exchange less and less topics after getting married, and having nothing to say will eventually lead to the couple going further and further away.
And those couples with similar families have similar social circles and similar family backgrounds, and they will have more common topics after marriage.
language can infinitely extend a relationship. Couples with common topics can naturally get along more harmoniously than those couples who have nothing to say, and it is easier to make the atmosphere of getting along with each other comfortable and comfortable.
A couple with a good match can gain happiness faster
TV series " Xue Pinggui and Wang Baochuan " is the three thousand golds in the prime minister's family, and they are all pampered. Such a good person has a special liking for a beggar.
When I first watched it, I felt that Wang Baochuan was so infatuated. In order to wait for Xue Pinggui , I had been consuming wild vegetables for 18 years.
When I grew up, I thought Wang Baochuan was stupid.
She had been in the cold kiln for eighteen years, but Xue Pinggui had children in Xiliang. When the bitterness came, Wang Baochuan's so-called queen only lasted for eighteen days and died.
is not suitable for the wrong person. If the gap is not too great, it doesn’t matter. Time can smooth out the gap, but if the gap is too big, there is nothing we can do.
In the later period, Wang Baochuan became the queen. It was not because Xue Pinggui loved her. It was because she had been in the Han Kiln for eighteen years. Xue Pinggui felt guilty and did so.
When the post was sealed, Xue Pinggui was more impatient with Wang Baochuan. This shows that their marriage was also destined to be a tragedy.
In real life, couples with similar characteristics will make each other feel a sense of belonging and security, thus becoming more willing to run a marriage and more likely to gain happiness.
This is also the reason why we must find someone of a good match to enter the marriage hall.
Of course, love is beautiful, and we also have the right to pursue our own happiness, but marriage is different from love.
Fall may only require attention to the present moment, but marriage involves too many factors, and reality is the barrier that needs to be overcome the most.
Two people who are not good-for-member together will be together. As time goes by, the distance between the two people will become farther and farther, until they are strangers.
So, when choosing a partner, we must think from a rational perspective.
