When we buy something back, we will look at the instruction manual and study how to use this thing. This method simply and clearly helps us quickly master the use of this thing, making our life more convenient and convenient in some aspects.
We often have such clear and clear ways of dealing with objective things, but we often treat people in the most brutal and rough way.
We do not study the other person's preferences, do not care about his psychology, or his situation, but just plunge into the whirlpool of love, and replace all understanding and understanding with the reason I love you.
The feelings of many people are gradually exhausted through the running-in. In the end, the two parted ways and they all went to have fun.
Most of the problems that arise in relationships are caused by the differences in the concepts of both men and women. This concept has nothing to do with education or education. It is rooted in the nature deep in the heart. This nature is a bit selfish, but it is the result of genetic evolution and self-protection based on survival.
So, many times, smart women know how to adapt to men's nature, so that men can not only experience the surging of love, but also enjoy the relaxed feeling of freedom in the process of getting along with her.
In a gender relationship, the woman a man loves most may not necessarily love him the most, but it is the one that suits him the most. If this is satisfied, he can become the woman he loves most in his heart.
What is the nature of a man?
What is the nature of a man? Some people say that lust, greed and bragging are just different in terms of performance. If someone denies it, it is a kind of bragging in itself.
As the saying goes, everyone has a love for beauty. If a woman is not flowered, how can she be as beautiful as a flower? If a man is not bad, how can she be descendants? The origin of man is that Eve of Asan and Eve secretly tastes the forbidden fruit, which is human nature.
Zhang Xueliang once said that since ancient times, heroes are lustful, but they may not be as lustful as heroes; although I am not a hero, I am lustful as heroes.
Lust is the nature of a man. The highest level of lust is concentricity, and the lowest level of manifestation is promiscuity.
So there is no problem with lust itself, and the only one who has problems is the lustful person.
As for greed, it refers to a man's desire to conquer. A man's desire to conquer itself is also created by the living environment. It is actually difficult for a man without a desire to conquer to live well in society. The era when the strong prey on the weak is destined to become a fish on others' chopping board.
And men's bragging nature shows his more childish side. Nietzsche once said that women know children more than men, but men are more like children than women.
No matter how powerful a person is, he has his own weaknesses and weaknesses. This is why these shortcomings and weaknesses create a man with great blood.
How can I become a man’s favorite woman?
After understanding a man’s nature, objectively speaking, it is very simple to grasp a man’s heart, that is, to follow his nature and become what he wants.
For example, some men like loli, some men like royal sisters, some people can't resist the gentle charm, and some people like passionate and unrestrained. If you want to get close to a man, you must first enter his eyes and then walk into his heart.
Hug said that beauty is a silent letter of recommendation. Men care so much about beauty. If you want to attract a man, of course you must always pay attention to your image and behavior.
Only when a woman is dressed up carefully can she deserve the exquisite lies of men. "I fall in love with you at first glance, not because of your beauty, but the aura emitted behind the beauty."
The best role of a woman for a man is that prey, and high-end hunters all appear as prey.
Men need to use external success to prove their value, so beautiful and excellent women, prosperous careers, expensive cars, luxurious accessories, even their armor is their merit.
What you can't get is what you want most, and you will try your best to get what you can't get. This determines that women must not be the one who is very at ease and has no value to take it out. Men will not cherish it.
Finally, men are teenagers until death. Every man has his own childish side in his heart. Whether he can become his favorite woman is to find the potential needs in his heart. The woman who can meet this needs is the unique women in his heart, and no one can match it.
How to choose a high-quality man?
When a woman understands how to grasp a man’s heart, the most critical step is to choose a high-quality man.
As the saying goes, everything is difficult at the beginning. If you choose the wrong man, all the excellence of a woman will be gone and will only be dragged into the abyss by a bad man.
Generally speaking, we can understand a man’s general situation through three aspects, see how he treats his family, how he treats money, and how he treats things in daily life.
The Godfather says that if a man does not know how to spend time with his family, he is definitely not a real man.
When a man has no love and patience for the family and parents who have raised him, don’t hope that he will be much tolerant and accommodating to you who meet strangers.
In today's society, it is difficult to move forward without talking about money. A person's attitude towards money determines his vigilance and moral bottom line. A man who strictly controls money, you have to see if he is generous or stingy to you, otherwise his wealth will not have anything to do with you.
A man who has no moral bottom line for money cannot withstand the temptation of money. Such things often wander on the edge of morality and law, and it is very dangerous to get along with such a man.
Finally, when getting along with a man, you must learn to pay attention to the details of the man’s daily affairs, which often reveal his true life status.
For example, when a man cares and considerately treats you, but curses and fights at the passerby who suddenly bumps into him. Such a person is actually quite irritable inside, but he just hides in front of you.
or how he faces the adversity in life, whether he does not speak negatively, or takes his anger against you, or faces him positively, these will become a reference for him to deal with conflicts with you in the future.
As a woman, you must not be in love. Objectively choose a suitable and high-quality man, actively pursue your love, and bravely become the controller of the relationship between the two genders.
