This is the 37th protagonist we talked about
Hello everyone, my name is Long Min, I am from Anhui, and I have had a failed marriage.
Regarding marriage, I have always maintained a feeling of going in both directions. After graduation, I met my ex-husband. The two of them were very loving and got married without knowing much. However, after marriage, they often had disagreements and the two often quarreled.
I think it is a regrettable thing for my ex-husband and I.
After I graduated from high school, I entered society because I was a girl, and I didn’t read many books and did not realize the importance of knowledge.
Only after entering society did I realize the importance of my original academic qualifications.
Because of his low education, he works in the factory and is very busy every day on the assembly line. That is, when he is working in the factory, I met my ex-husband.
He also graduated from high school, so we fell in love with each other.
At that time, I was still very young and had no subjective opinions about marriage and love. I just thought it was beautiful, so I got together.
talked about it for about a year, and the parents of both sides met. The parents agreed with us, but our family didn’t ask for much of the dowry, and they asked for 66,000, which was a very auspicious number.
We had our own children in the first year after marriage, and the whole family was very happy. I also became a full-time housewife at home and took care of the children.
My husband makes money outside and lives in two places after getting married.
Only two or three meetings a year have been held, and they usually just chat with videos to see the children.
and I didn’t make much money. Basically, I quarrel a lot. After all, the children spend a lot of money, and over time I am tired of this marriage. After
, we all felt that we couldn't make it anymore, so we filed for divorce.
The child follows me, and I lived in my parents' home for more than a year with the child. After
, a matchmaker came to my house for a blind date. The other party was also an older young man. He was in his 30s and had not gotten married yet, but he was a very old age in the countryside.
When I came to the blind date, I also felt very suitable and looked very honest. In this way, my second marriage began. After getting married, my husband meant that he wanted to have another child, but I didn’t want to have another child.
My husband also has a lot of opinions about this. He always feels that he is raising other people's children with me, but I can actually understand him.
But I don’t want to have another child. Although my husband loves me very much, I obviously feel that my husband minds that I have children after marriage. Although the children are sometimes disobedient, my husband can feel his impatientness.
My mother-in-law also advised me to give birth to one, and a child is too lonely when he grows up.
I am also very conflicted.
I am also very down-to-earth to my husband and treat me very well, but sometimes there are quarrels because of children's affairs.
Sometimes I feel a little sorry for my husband. I don’t have a child of my own. I work hard outside every day, isn’t it for our family?
Later, after the advice of the whole family, I thought of having another child with my husband. Now I am a few months pregnant, and my relationship with my husband is getting better and better.
He is also very happy every day. In fact, sometimes I feel that I am too selfish and cannot dare to start the next new beginning because of the failure of a marriage.
And I am also very happy now. Although I am not rich, I am also very warm.
